Confucius said, "Only women are hard to raise. If they were close, they wouldn't have grandchildren. If they are far away, they will complain. "

Confucius said, "Only women and children are difficult to get along with. If the Analects of Confucius exists, it will be disdainful, and if you stay away, you will complain."

From (The Analects of Confucius Yang Huo).