2. Treat people with three elements: unite capable people to do great things, unite good people to do practical things, and unite bad people not to do bad things.

3, the three elements of progress: you do it yourself, some people say you do it, some people say you do it.

4, the three elements of speaking: when you should say it, you should say level, when you shouldn't say it, you should not say smart, you should know when to say it and when not to say smart.

5, the three elements of work: the ability to do when it should be done, the unwise when it should not be done, knowing when it should be done and when it should not be wise.

6. Do things like water and mountains. Be as low-key as possible, give way to others, retreat as far as possible when encountering interests and fame, and leave more room for growth for yourself. You must have your own opinions and goals, and stand there like a mountain to get things done.

7. Winners look at the answers to questions, while losers only look at the answers; Winners are often part of the answer, while losers are often part of the question; Winners have plans, losers have excuses; Winners often say: although there are difficulties, they can still do it; Losers often say: although it can be done, it is too difficult.

8. Excessive expectations bring hopelessness to children; Overprotection leads to the incompetence of children; Overindulgence brings children's ruthlessness; Too much interference brings children's helplessness; Too many accusations leave children with nothing to do.

9. Sages and Seven Virtues in the eyes of ancient Jews: First, don't teach an axe; The second is not to interrupt others; Third, there is no rush for success; Fourth, questions should be targeted; Fifth, the answer should be in line with the situation; Sixth, the conversation should begin and end; Seventh, we should base ourselves on reality.

10, people's two eyes are parallel, but they look at people from different angles. People's ears are on both sides, but they always listen to one side of the story. People only have one mouth, but they can always say two words.

1 1, knowing that people are behind the gentleman; Know that the villain is watching people behind their backs.

12 just wait and it will be safe. If you give in, you will pass, and if you endure it, you will be harmonious.

13, the masses are running, the leaders are criticizing, the departments are turning, the meeting is on and on, and the final question is where to go.

14, the current situation of contemporary physical exercise: the rise of the elderly, the awakening of middle-aged people, and the deep sleep of teenagers.

15. Wine is like water in a bottle. Drink it and your stomach is haunted. Slip your legs when you talk and walk. You get up in the middle of the night looking for water, and you regret it in the morning. At noon, one end of the glass is still beautiful.

16, those who dare not be angry are cowards, and those who are not angry are wise.

17, No.1 is uncompromising, No.2 is inconsistent, No.3 gossips, No.4 is, No.5 and No.6 just take notes and don't speak.

18, the best way to comfort yourself is to look at the shortcomings of others; The best way to encourage yourself is to look at your strengths.

19, knowing what things should be like shows that you are a smart person; Knowing what things actually look like shows that you are an experienced person.

20. Good luck brings good fate: love needs courage, friendship needs loyalty, family needs kindness, work needs strength, career needs luck, and life needs good temper.

2 1, it is wisdom to give love, and it is wisdom to eliminate troubles.

22. The lamp of life is lit by enthusiasm, and the boat of life moves forward by hard work.

23. Dreaming is just a kind of intelligence, and realizing dreams is a kind of ability.

24. Officials talk nonsense, experts talk nonsense, businessmen tell lies, stars talk nonsense, rich people talk crazy, and poor people talk angry words.

25. Those who lose money lose little, those who lose health lose much, and those who lose courage lose everything.

26. Go out well, talk well and do things well.

27. You can choose this? Half-hearted? : confidence, perseverance and determination; Creativity and willingness.

28. If you want to live a casual life, you can only live an ordinary life; If you want to live a brilliant life, you can only live a painful and complicated life; If you want to live longer, you can only live simpler.

29. Only by setting an example can we lead others, and self-discipline can convince others.

30. A boaster may not have a high opinion, but he may be thinking when he is silent.

3 1, when you do the right thing, you are often not mentioned; People often don't forget you when you do something wrong.

32. Invest your love in one person and take risks; It is dangerous to put love into many people.

33. Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; Second-rate makeup is spiritual makeup; First-class makeup is the makeup of life.

34. Being single is an understanding, falling in love is a mistake, breaking up is an awareness, getting married is a mistake, divorce is an awakening, remarriage is a bigotry, having no lover is a waste, and many lovers are animals.

35. Location can increase people's power, but it cannot increase authority; Location can increase people's energy, but it can't increase people's ability; Location can increase people's fame, but it can't increase knowledge.

36. Giving people words is more important than pearls and jade; Words hurt more than swords.

37. Compared with people suffering from diseases, being healthy and strong is naturally happiness; Compared with people who have suffered disasters, peace is naturally happiness.

38. Friends who are tolerant of each other must be in the same boat for a hundred years, couples who are tolerant of each other must be sleeping together for a hundred years, and an inclusive world must be peaceful and beautiful.

39. What's the difference between a celebrity and a mortal? Celebrities used cultural relics, while mortals used waste; Celebrities are eloquent and mortals are sophistry; Celebrities greet people, are approachable, and mortals are buttering up others. Celebrities don't dress neatly, which is called artist temperament, and mortals are just rude; Celebrity drinking is called drinking, and mortal drinking is called drinking; Celebrities are called Lao Wang when they are old, but mortals can only be called Lao Wang.

40. We may not be beautiful, but we are healthy. We may not be great, but we are solemn; We may not be perfect, but we work hard; We may not be eternal, but we are sincere.

4 1, knowledge is the source of wisdom, and morality is the foundation of career.

42. Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong happiness; Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a heartbreak; It is absurd to meet the wrong person at the wrong time; Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh.

43. Where there is no water, it is desert, and where there is no sound, it is loneliness.

44. Successful people do what others don't want to do, what others dare not do, and what others can't do.

45. Successful people find ways, unsuccessful people find excuses; There is no excuse for success, and it is impossible to succeed if you want an excuse.

46. Enemies become comrades-in-arms mostly for survival, while comrades-in-arms become enemies mostly for money.

47. Money can help the poor solve problems, but it can also help the rich create problems.

48. Sincerity does not mean blaming others for their shortcomings, but not praising them.

49. Love is missing a person's heart, marriage is tying a person's heart, and love is swallowing a person's heart.

50. Success is an idea, getting rich is an obligation and happiness is a right.

5 1, it takes thousands of years to change from a monkey to a human, and only one bottle of wine is needed to change from a human to a monkey.

52. The more mature the husband who is deeply loved by his wife, the less mature the wife who is spoiled by her husband.

53. What are the three most romantic words? I love you? , but? Together? .

54. Confusion is not liked, and cleverness is not necessarily liked; Everyone is happy only when he is smart and confused.

55. It is a famous actor who plays others vividly, and it is usually an official who plays himself smart and great.

56. Ordinary people look at the world with their eyes open, and they are often mistaken. Extraordinary people turn a blind eye to the world. Extraordinary people are invincible when they look at the world with their eyes closed.

57. Don't covet everything, or you will have nothing; Don't try to know everything, or you will know nothing; Don't try to be omnipotent, or you will become omnipotent.

58. People who chase two rabbits at the same time can't catch either. In a sense, losing is gaining.

59, the stars are bright, it is better to be alone in the moon; Birds sing together, not as good as tigers roar.

60. People should be focused; There will be a foothold again. The former is strategy; The latter is tactics.

6 1, it is optimistic and confident to laugh at failures and setbacks; Laughing off misunderstanding and hatred is a kind of calm tolerance; Laughing at praise and encouragement is modesty and sobriety; Laughing off troubles and sadness is a kind of calm and relief.

62. Morality is eternal, but wealth is temporary.

63. The person who criticizes you is your enemy today and your friend tomorrow. Those who flatter you are your friends today and your enemies tomorrow.

64. People who live for themselves feel inferior; People who live for other people's opinions are small; People who live happily for others are noble.

65. Love can be romantic, but don't waste it; Don't hold hands casually, let alone let go.

66. Make the first wish, be the middle edge, enjoy the next blessing, choose a high position, sit flat and walk wide.

67. There is a kind of predestination, which becomes a landscape after letting go. Have a heart and stick to China is sincere.

68. The most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary, and the longest possession in life is cherish.

70. Happiness is a state of mind, not a state.

7 1, there is only smoothness in the world, not perfection.

72. People who don't take a bath won't smell sweet if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant.

73. The dinner invited by classmates can be casual, like a family member; Friends (comrades-in-arms) can invite a dinner party, be generous and be like a host; The meal invited by the leader must be careful, like a stranger; Please invite leaders to eat, be respectful, like servants; The meal invited by others is naturally polite, like a guest!

74. Smart people manage health, understand that people store health, ordinary people don't understand health, and confused people ignore health.

75. Without economic independence, there is no? Without self-esteem for independent thinking, what is missing? Autonomous? If there is no independence in personality, there is a lack? Believe in yourself? .

76, life is alive, need to constantly dust for the soul, introspection, remorse, since the enlightenment, self-respect.

77. Never be curious about something that may be bad, or it may kill you. Never make a decision when you are in pain, or you will regret it later.

78. Science pursues truth, morality pursues goodness and art pursues beauty.

Kindness is wisdom, foresight, self-confidence, spiritual strength, culture and happiness.

80. You have the right to be angry, but you should not trample on the dignity of others; You have the right to fail, but don't give up; You have the right to succeed, but not at the expense of others; You have the right to argue, but you shouldn't take revenge as a means. You have the right to demand a better life, but you shouldn't cheat today for tomorrow's happiness.

8 1, patience is the abbreviation of perseverance and ability; Learning is the summary of hard study and diligent inquiry.

82. Ignorance and ignorance are things that everyone hates, but they can only be avoided through learning; Beauty and health are things that everyone is proud of, but it is best to add maintenance.

83. It's fun to deceive others by being romantic, and it's despicable to slander others.

84, greedy and ill-gotten wealth is easy to destroy; Believing in unfaithful people is a disaster.

85. The tragedy of love stems from picky; Marriage is perfect because of tolerance.

86. Dedication enriches the soul and creation makes life better.

87. Cooking level affects the taste of dishes, and mentality affects the quality of life.

88. Being alive is a kind of luck, and being young is a kind of happiness.

89. Love is not charity, not just charity.

90. People who create opportunities are brave. He who waits for an opportunity is a fool.

9 1, although the sun is warm, it can be irradiated for a long time and will be abused.

92. Even if you smash the clock, no one can keep the pace of time for half a second.

93. There is no scenery in familiar places; There are traps in unfamiliar places.

94. True love is not a temporary move; But the aftertaste of a lifetime.

95. True love is not to hold him in your arms, but to let him learn to walk.

96. People all know life; What people don't know is art.

97. Being angry is to punish yourself for what others have done wrong.

98. Hope for the best, try your best and prepare for the worst.

99. Women are the most practical and inseparable from daily necessities; Women are the most unrealistic, dreaming about flowers and wine.

100, it is smart to simplify into wealth; Turning wealth into simplicity is wisdom. Rich, helpful to thinking; Simple and easy to realize.