Close to me and heal you - Squid Xiaoyu
In the hit "Dear, Beloved", the character Tong Nian really combines all kinds of beauty. . She is a top student. She went to college at the age of 15 and is about to graduate from graduate school at the age of 20. She studied at Shanghai Jiaotong University in the play. The reason should be that Shanghai Jiaotong University studied artificial intelligence. She participated in the ACM competition and won the runner-up in the group. You know, the Yao Class of Tsinghua University and the ACM Class of Jiaotong University can be said to be the Whampoa Military Academy for computer science. Those who can enter this field are those with computer genius. Even if she studies well, she is also very talented. As a cover singer of NetEase Cloud Music, she is very popular. The most important thing is that we can't see inferiority in Tong Nian, whether it is about her studies or her feelings. Once she fell in love with Han Shangyan, she bravely pursued her. Even if she was rejected in person in Guangzhou, she did not think that she was not beautiful enough or good enough, or that the other party did not like her. Even though her cousin helped her analyze that he did not like her. , and she did not accept this reason psychologically.
? Tong Nian doesn’t have the pretense and reserve that is unique to girls. If he likes her, he likes her openly and openly. On the contrary, Han Shangyan, in the process of gradually falling in love with Tong Nian, has always been very awkward. The way he is ashamed to admit it but unable to deceive his heart is really laughable. He looks so upright that his mother-in-law never likes him. Who can blame him?
In this drama, the novelty of the mismatch between men and women in relationships fascinates the audience. Why do the two of them show such characters? Of course it's inseparable from their families.
Han Shangyan’s parents died when he was young. Apart from being rich in money, he was very lacking in emotions. Grandpa loves his grandson psychologically, but both grandsons have a bad habit - they are too honest to talk about it, and it is often difficult to say that they love you. Therefore, when they get along, grandpa often keeps scolding his grandson, and his grandson looks impatient. In the end, the old man became more and more angry, and the young man cursed in his heart that something bad would happen when grandpa came back.
There is no doubt that the grandfather loves his grandson. For the sake of his grandson’s life-long event, he cheated on his mother Tong Nian.
Even if you find that the other party doesn't like your grandson very much, you will still try your best to show your grandson's merits. And he also silently understands the industry that his grandson is engaged in. Even if he doesn't agree with it, he is still trying to get closer to his grandson. Han Shangyan also loved his grandfather. Even though he knew that his grandfather was pretending to have angina and forced him to go on a blind date, he still went on a blind date. He was afraid that his grandfather would be angry and admitted his relationship with Tong Nian. On the way to send my grandfather back to Norway, I saw my grandfather going to the toilet for a long time and not coming back. The anxiety was not fake. Their love just didn't find a suitable way to express it.
In the play, Han Shangyan has a stepmother, Han Jiajia, who is a very loving stepmother. She has been with Han Shangyan for more than ten years. According to the plot, when the stepmother married Han Shangyan's father, Han Shangyan should have been nine years old. He is ten years old (in one paragraph, the stepmother said that when she first saw him, his height was just under the stepmother's shoulders). The character of a teenage child has basically been finalized. The long-term lack of maternal love has made him reluctant to express his inner thoughts, and people around him have become less and less understanding of him. In the more than ten years that his stepmother has been with him, he has been exposed to electricity. In the competitive industry, he did not complete his studies according to the adults' ideas, and insisted on returning to China to become a competitor in an emerging industry. This was undoubtedly deviant at the time. So the stepmother also said that those years were indeed very troublesome for her. It wasn't until his stepmother returned to China that she saw his dream with her own eyes and understood his persistence. She was the first person to understand him. Han Shangyan respected and loved this stepmother, so later the stepmother remarried, even though he said He said that he was jealous of his biological father and did not go to the wedding. In the end, he went to Norway as his mother's family to send off his stepmother for marriage.
? In fact, it is not difficult for the audience to see that Han Shangyan is a person who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside. His inner enthusiasm is even hotter than that of ordinary people. Whether it is his dear relatives or his beloved career, he can... It is difficult for ordinary people to persist from teenagers to thirty years old. It's just that there has always been a lack of someone who understands him and can reveal his inner world, so he has this attitude: I don't need people who don't understand me to question me, and I don't need others to question me. Just like Han Shangyan's famous saying: "In the past two years and three months, I have won, lost, laughed, cried, been questioned, scandalized, criticized, and shady. I have never defended myself, and there is no need to defend myself. Tonight's Huayan In the end, she became famous and full of absurdity."
On the contrary, Tong Nian lived in a happy family since she was a child. The family lives in an old-fashioned villa building. His father is an authoritative expert in the hospital, and his mother is a kindergarten principal. The economic conditions are not worse than those of Han Shangyan's family. Moreover, mom and dad love each other. If mom is a little bit stronger at home, dad will give in to mom. In short, the family is harmonious. Dad loves mom and mom and dad love me. This is the happiest family.
Tong Nian must have grown up very happily along the way. Such a family gave her the courage to pursue love. She fell in love with Han Shangyan at first sight, so she chased him bravely, without being timid or hesitant. Her courage is commendable.
As she got to know him more and more, Tong Nian was moved by Han Shangyan's persistence and tenacity for his dreams, and she saw his excellence more and more. She admired this man from the bottom of her heart, and fell in love at first sight after seeing the group of children under his rivals. His care and concern, his forbearance in the face of misunderstandings from his former teammates, his superb cooking skills, and his unintentional care for himself. Everything comes from understanding. We can even imagine that Tong Nian and Han Shangyan will feel like getting along with Han Shangyan decades later. Han Shangyan is doing housework and Tong Nian is chatting with him - everything is beautiful. Who said that Tong Youn was so naive and innocent that the person she was looking for was not so similar to his father!
? Han Shangyan met Tong Nian in his life - a person who understood his heart, a person who would not disturb him even if he missed him very much when he was busy, a person who stayed up late doing small programs just to help him A girl, a person who is willing to hold his hand and help him open his heart, a little angel who teaches him to embrace the present and the future after he learns to face loss. In front of Tong Nian, he even felt inferior and guilty for his lack of courage. Han Shangyan's introspection and enlightenment allowed him to finally find his love and awaken the positive power in his heart. At this time, Han Shangyan was a sound person! Tong Nian's love redeemed Han Shangyan, and he grew up in love.