When friends are chatting and a sentence comes up, besides bragging, what else will you do? There are actually three words after you, but I have omitted them because they are too unsightly and too sensitive, which violates the original meaning of this article. I will also follow the words and deeds carefully. Nowadays, many people write Na Yan Ming Xing. When typing, they always read Na Yan, which is actually a typo.
"A gentleman wants to be slow in words but quick in deeds." From the chapter "The Analects of Confucius - Li Ren". It means that the Master said: "The cultivation of a gentleman should try his best to be careful in his words and quick in his actions."
The original explanation of this entry cannot reflect the essence of this entry. The real meaning is: people You should be careful when speaking, because trouble comes from your mouth. If you speak carelessly, you will hurt yourself and others, cause trouble and even disaster. And you should be able and diligent in doing things. In short, it warns people to talk less and do more, which is the guideline that most people in today's society should follow.
As the saying goes: "Too much speech leads to mistakes" and "Diseases come in from the mouth, and disasters come from the mouth." However, being cautious does not mean that we are not allowed to speak, but it tells us that we must be cautious when speaking.
Confucius said: "If you have ambitions, you should be loyal in words and express them in words. Who knows your ambitions if you don't say them? Words without words will not go far.' Be careful with your words." It means: , it has been recorded in ancient books: Speech is used to express moral integrity, grammar and rhetoric are used to express speech. If he doesn't speak out, who can know his integrity? If the speech is not modified and assisted by words, how can it be spread for a long time? It can be seen that words must be cautious.
You cannot say words casually. If you talk too much, you will definitely make a mistake. Therefore, you should say it when you should say it, and never say it when you should not say it. This has a certain warning effect on our daily words and deeds. Be careful when speaking so that you don't say everything and leave no room for yourself. What we advocate is to speak in a flawless and appropriate manner, with less nonsense and clichés, but we should not be so cautious that we do not speak at all. Being quick in action means that you must quickly commit to what you have said. Don't just talk about it, but do more practical work. In short, we cannot be "giants in language and dwarfs in action". Talk less, do more. This is definitely a wise saying. There is no shortage of people in this world who like to show off their sharp edges, but there is a shortage of people who clearly have sharp edges, but are able to display them appropriately, hide them appropriately, and know how to stay humble. Su Dongpo once lamented: "Everyone raises his son hoping to be smart, but I was deceived by my life." Zeng Guofan has a famous saying: "The most clumsy in the world can beat the most skillful in the world." This sentence actually means: down to earth. Hu Shi once said in his later years: "Anyone who has great success is someone who is extremely smart and willing to do stupid things." This kind of person is not arrogant or impetuous, smart but not sharp. They can not only gather their strengths and have strength, but also recognize their own shortcomings. Nor will one use one's own strengths to compare with others' shortcomings, only to arouse the envy, jealousy, and hatred of others. They know how to put away their own sharp edges, but they can also see the sharp edges of others, learn from others' strengths, and make up for their real "clumsy" parts. The wisdom of being humble exists everywhere in life. It is a kind of wisdom in life, and it is also a moral quality of respecting others. You have a sharp edge, but please don't hurt others. Be quick in your words and deeds. Na Yuyan, it's not that he doesn't know how to speak, but he has a clear mind. The highest state of being a human being is to be honest and humble, not to be sharp-tongued, and to ignore people's faults. He obviously knows everything, but he is not arrogant or superior to others. He is approachable and respected by others. Being in the limelight, being public, and showing off yourself is nothing more than trying to make people look up to you. Most of them have no meaning. They are just to satisfy vanity and are useless.
In life, we should develop a good habit of speaking words and deeds quickly. Perhaps, this is not just a habit, but also a manifestation of quality and self-cultivation.
I would like to encourage myself, ***encourage!