What should children do if they don't listen to their parents and scold them? 1. Parents are children's first teachers. Parents' words and deeds seriously affect children's behavior, and even "imitate" parents' tone and words. Therefore, in daily life, parents must be cautious and set a good example for their children. As long as parents set an example and establish prestige, children are more willing to be disciplined by their parents.
2. Adults should stop all kinds of coercion or other adult behaviors, including "soft" coercion, for example, don't always urge children to do what they want, or what they want, instead of listening to their opinions. Everyone should be calm, listen to other people's opinions equally if there are contradictions, be tolerant of small problems, and gradually develop the habit of solving problems through consultation and equality.
3. If children are in an unstable and indifferent family atmosphere for a long time, they will definitely lack a sense of security and warmth. Usually, these children will disguise themselves with good behavior to get attention, but in other places, they will vent with "violence" or directly use "violence" to get attention.
4, adults should pay attention to the way to deal with contradictions, the family should stress equality and democracy, teach children to be reasonable in everything, be a man with skills, learn to get along with them with skills, and don't be tactful in everything. At this time, it is necessary to pay attention to the children or not serious compulsive playmates or teachers. If they show up, you'd better isolate them.
Reasons for children's disobedience 1. Entering junior high school, children's physical development has entered a new stage, and "maturity" is also reflected in body and mind. At this time, if parents are conservative, children will also form a "fortress" of communication and form their own small space, and a sense of distance will also arise.
In fact, sometimes children's rebellious behavior is not intended to oppose you, but the tone of "politicians", which children can't stand. In addition, observe children's daily life trivia, understand what he likes to do, but when doing something, encourage him to do what he is willing to try, and don't cause too much resistance.
Family education will affect children's character and behavior. If parents are too overbearing and doting, it is likely to lead to children's rebellion and make their characters more and more selfish and disobedient.