Because I don't know why, it's okay, so I was labeled Mao. If it were me, I would be fascinated. Is there no basic friendliness and courtesy between people? In other words, Guangdong is a biased province, vulgar and vulgar.
Seeing this problem, I am very alert. My friends, this question is abstract and tendentious. At least it will affect the subject's personal impression of Guangdong, and at most it will undermine the unity of Guo Jia, so we must be cautious.
First of all, the original intention was that Mao Diao was harmless to people, not to mention swearing. This is not a disaster, and there is nothing to refute. Some friends don't believe me. Don't trust me. Let me ask you a question first. Under what circumstances will someone ask you to take a nap?
When you go to a convenience store to buy drinks, the proprietress smiles at you, "Mao, sweep here." When you went to high-speed railway station for security check, the ticket inspector gave you a lazy look. "Mao, your ID card is down." Going to Starbucks, the waiter is very enthusiastic. "Mao, what would you like to drink?"
Is that so? That's not true.
No one will call you handsome for no reason, just as no one will call you Mao for no reason.
The word "Mao Diao" is more a kind of intimate address that men are familiar with to some extent. Or, to put it bluntly, Mao is your exclusive handsome boy.
It is said that before the cleaning of a certain color was completed, everyone liked to go there to participate in activities. Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and rivers and lakes are inevitably swords and shadows. A brother who drinks too much will take the initiative to attack people who don't like it.
These people may not all be Cantonese, but they are used to being called "Diao Mao" because they are too high-profile and "Diao Mao". For example, two students just came out of a certain community and saw several bosses swearing in the street with bare arms.
Student A said, "There is a mink there. Let's take a detour. " Student B looked dignified. "All right." In this way, two people avoided a trouble. So you see, "mink hair" is here, which means very awesome and excellent. This is a compliment, but how can it be a curse?
Moreover, "Mao" is different from "Mao". Speaking to your face and behind your back means two things. When you go to rent a house, the renter says to you, "handsome boy, our rent here is very convenient." You asked for three hours and finally left.
It's very "hairy" for the chartered man to look at your disappearing back and scold you. Here, he is uncivilized and curses. But think about it, will he say it to your face? I won't. He will only call you "handsome" in person.
So, under what circumstances did he call you Mao to your face? I think so, too. At least, you two are already familiar with each other to some extent. For example, you have rented a house in their home for half a year, and you ask not to raise the rent after the New Year.
The charterer gave a warm smile. "You don't trust me very much, do you?" Or "Mao, will labor and capital owe you this money?" The former is a simple greeting, similar to the eldest brother in Northeast dialect and the ya 'er in Hunan dialect, while the latter is a kind of sincerity.
Anyway, he meant no harm.
Therefore, when you hear "Mao Diao", the correct response is "Aye", and then give a simple and honest smile. Or, give him a thumbs-up and give him a feedback: grab a nut (Cantonese, thank you very much).
At this time, never say handsome. People call you "Diao Mao" and you call the other person "Shuai", which means that your emotional intelligence is low, you are unclear, your relationship is good, and you are unfamiliar.
Just like the northeast people call you big brother, you say this gentleman has little social experience. Be sure to learn to communicate in interpersonal communication and understand each other's trust in you.
It's not that you are not allowed to be called "handsome", but that "mink hair" can solve the problem. Never use "handsome".
People call you mink excitedly, and you wait for a while and answer, ah, handsome boy, what did you call me? This feeling will fade. Poor health leads to many misunderstandings.
People who like to be called Mao Diao in life are not too bad in character. They are good at taking the initiative to break the hypocritical ceremony, but also dare to bear the consequences that the other party can't accept being beaten, which is commendable in this materialistic society. You should cherish it when you meet it.
There is no shortage of people who say you are handsome, only those who say you are hairy. So don't be nervous and don't worry when you are told to take a nap. Just say yes and it's over. If the other person is really enthusiastic, you should say a few more words of thanks.
For example, "It's better to have an old barbecued pork than to have you" (old and new friends can't compare with you), "I know you are a straightforward person as soon as I see you" (I can see that you are warm-hearted), and I believe that chatting more will make real friends.
Finally, as we all know, Guangdong has produced many martial arts masters, such as Liang Zan and Huang Feihong. Friends in Guangdong are also influenced by traditional Wushu culture and like to learn skills from foreign friends. If you finish this, you will see that the opposite expression has changed.
Don't panic, that's learning from you. It's not a fight, it's not a fight, it's nothing, it's just the hospitality of Cantonese people. Relax, it's nothing. It is said that when in Rome, do as the Romans do, but you can't lose your aura.
Remember to pose and start saying:
Inclined waist, I am the most beautiful girl in our village.