This sentence of our ancestors is very reasonable. In the ancient patriarchal society, it was a lucky thing for a man to get a good wife, which not only took care of his family, but also relieved his husband's worries. If he marries such a wife, what else can he ask for? If a man only wants a beautiful woman instead of a good wife, he should not neglect his career. There is no doubt that women are the backing behind men's success. A successful emperor is by no means addicted to beauty. He must be exposed to rain and dew, and the harem is harmonious.
There is also an ancient saying about making friends:? A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as cucumber? . It means making friends with like-minded people, which can help each other grow, instead of being close to those who just drink and chat all day. If it is used in the imperial court, it is probably to let the emperor? Ministers, ministers from afar? The meaning of. Looking for a bosom friend in the mountains and rivers of Boya period is a lifelong friend.
This sentence of our ancestors is also useful in contemporary times. Not only men but also women should understand this sentence and practice it. There are many more temptations now than in ancient times. Beauty, internet, fair-weather friends and so on are all things we will meet. As long as we keep our eyes open and do a good job of cleaning, we can live a good life. Beauty without wisdom is a vase. Is it hypocritical to approach you only when you are successful and stay away from you when you are down and out? Friends? . Therefore, we should find suitable partners who appreciate each other and make friends who can share weal and woe, so as not to be cheated and betrayed.