In fact, in real life, it is unique and has its own development path. There are many successful cases. Here are a few simple examples.
In the name of food, let's take eating first. Crab is a monster with a hard shell and a long handle beside its eyes. Five pairs of crabs surround its body, and its front feet are as sharp as before, like weapons. Once, no one knew that this kind of aquatic food could be delicious on people's table, but some people faced such a strange thing and wanted to eat it as delicious. After using it, I was amazed at its delicious meat, high quality and fresh taste, only to know that it was a fairy in the meal, rare and precious, strange and novel. The weird and ugly body of crab was eaten by the first person, and its intrinsic value was discovered. Mr. Lu Xun once praised: "The first person to eat crabs is very admirable. Who dares to eat if he is not a warrior? " Although the first person who ate crabs didn't know who it was, later generations admired his exploration. It is this spirit of innovation and development that has opened up a road where there is no road and added a road to success.
Bisell is a small village in the western Sahara desert. He leans against an oasis of square kilometers. It usually takes a day and a night to get out of the desert from here. However, before Ken Levin found him, no one had ever walked out of the desert here. It is said that it is not that they don't want to leave there, but they have tried many times and failed. Ken Levin found it hard to believe, so he did an experiment himself. Go north from Bisell and go out in half a day. This made Bisell people wake up. It turned out that none of them had ever traveled north. Everyone who tries to get out of the desert follows the route taken by the man in front, never thinking of opening up a new road. Today, Bisell has also become a tourist attraction. Everyone who arrives at the competition site will find a monument, and a new life will start in the chosen direction. Whether you can succeed or not, the most important thing is to choose the right direction and walk steadily, so that you can reach the end of success.
Taobao has always been a breeding ground for new species and new models. China has never had such a large-scale Internet finance before. Taobao not only provides a large number of new products and services, but also supports anyone who wants to create commercial value and realize value on Taobao. In 20 15 years, Taobao China manufacturing promoted the upgrading and transformation of traditional enterprises, met the personalized consumption of netizens, and many new media such as celebrity and celebrity economy on the internet flourished. From Taobao's support for "creating the second generation", including the optimization and upgrading of hand-washing, to judicial auction, crowdfunding and life service, he chose a path that no one has ever taken in the history of China, which embodies Taobao's innovative spirit. Therefore, our life has successfully turned into the Internet era, which is more convenient and efficient!
There are countless such cases. If it is easier to succeed by taking the road that no one has taken before, how can we cultivate our own ability and take the road that no one has taken before? Among them, I think the most important are the following two points.
1. Self-discipline
Self-discipline includes four positive life principles, the purpose of which is to solve problems, not to avoid pain.
We need to go through all kinds of pain. In order to reduce pain, we need to learn a very important psychological skill to keep balance, which is called "tolerance". This is an indispensable tool to promote mental maturity. All-encompassing, that is, we must not only affirm our own stability, but also give up our own space, accept new ideas and concepts, and achieve self-balance.
This process includes two steps: eliminating the familiar past and pursuing a brand-new future. In the face of strange people, things and things, we need to let past experiences, present needs and future expectations participate together, evaluate our own needs and reality, and make appropriate judgments and decisions. In order to experience the uniqueness of new things, we must persuade the existing prejudices and concepts to give way temporarily with an inclusive attitude and let strange and novel things enter the sensory world. Every minute of life will be a repetition of past experiences. In order to experience the uniqueness and freshness of all people, things and things, we must let them enter our souls. Completely release yourself, even at the expense of completely breaking the past yourself.
2. Get up the courage to do what you like
There is only one life, do what you like. The road of life is very complicated, because you haven't entered your own road yet. When you find your own way, you will feel the joy of life, gain an unprecedented strength and courage, feel your inner strength, and realize self-transformation.
Too many people are at a loss because of others' negation, opposition and disapproval. In fact, no matter what you do, there will be people who agree and those who disagree. Everyone has made several decisions and choices in his life that others think are not in his mind, but afterwards he has become the courage, strength and wisdom that others admire and admire. As long as you settle down, others will naturally find their place, so if you bury yourself in growth, everything will naturally change, but sometimes it takes many years. When you are sure, there will be fewer and fewer people pointing and commenting. Courage is not the power to keep you going. When you have no strength, courage is the strength that keeps you going. ?
Remember your childhood dream?
Don't give up because your dream is "unsociable"
Strive to achieve it.
A little stubborn, a little confident, a little unruly.
Stick to it and work hard.
You will find yourself different.
Success will definitely belong to you.