There is a saying that goes like this: Life is not like this, it is like that, anyway, it is not what you imagine. If you don't experience life seriously, you won't realize such wise words.
I don’t know if you all have this experience. Whenever you are looking forward to something, the picture in your mind is too surprising. The feeling of waiting is beautiful until it comes. It's like a long-awaited meal, but when you eat it, you find that it doesn't have the excitement you imagined at that time. On the contrary, it is not as good as a regular meal. Or when you are full of joy to make a big meal but find that you are not good at cooking, this may be a disappointment that goes against your expectations!
The new year is getting closer and closer, but it is no longer the year that adults think about. However, after a busy year, I finally waited for the holidays, thinking that I could finally rest. As long as this kind of happiness can stop in my mind for a while. Seconds, a touch of sadness will arise. It’s a holiday, is there really a break? Looking for New Year's goods, either buying vegetables or cooking, it always feels like eating, drinking and having fun.
During the holidays with children, there is a scene of standing next to the lamp table. It’s okay not to do homework. When doing homework, mother and son are loving one second, and they are in a hurry the next second. If you look at this middle-aged man's eyes again, they are full of anxiety, children's grades, the pressure of survival, and the constant loss of hair. A caring father may not just lie on the sofa and play with his mobile phone all the time, leaving you alone to play the role of a resentful wife.
There are always endless sorrows in family dramas about marriage. You said you want to have a home, a place that doesn’t need to be big, haha! Only when a few people really come to you and play the role of a loving family with you will you be deeply slapped in the face. So, what the world says is correct, but it is not comprehensive, because everyone only talks about life experience from their own perspective. If you don’t sweep the snow in front of your door, you won’t know you are lonely.
After understanding this principle of life, I have never smiled happily at life again. I am not unhappy, but I am not happy either! Moreover, people have lost too many emotional functions in middle age. They cannot laugh when they laugh, and it is impossible to cry loudly anyway. Just expressionless indifference and silence. Chicken feathers fly to the sky, and the breeze blows on both sleeves for another year. There is a saying that some people are happy and some are sad. When you are happy, you don’t know how sad you are.
Think carefully about this year. Have you worked hard? Have you achieved the goals you wrote last year? Hahaha.... Anyway, the image is not very strong and it is extremely insulting. If you don't believe it, there are always people who were like that ten years ago and still like that ten years later. Their minds really haven't changed at all. It's like life has done nothing to him in the past ten years, which is boring!
Life really has to be fought hard, otherwise you will be the next person to get frustrated when you get old. Looking back on the past, you always feel that your life has been in vain, and there are not many memories to be found.
No matter whether there is such a cute little person in someone else’s winter bed, it will give you a headache when you grow up and go to school. No matter how sweet other people’s dog food is, it will cause a lot of noise in the end. We can't escape what others have experienced, such as chicken feathers on the ground. Let’s not be upset anymore, the plot is different and I understand the emotions.
There is no gossip to read and no love to think about. Don’t expect too much from anything. This is an iron rule. In the end, you will find that it is just like this. If you eat too much melon, it will be boring; if you love it too much, it will taste too bad.