It is the most beautiful thing in the world to examine your heart. According to my mother, she accidentally hit someone else's car and could have slipped away unnoticed, but she didn't. Instead, she offered to apologize to the owner. I was particularly moved. My mother said, "I just hope that the uninvited guests can take the initiative to apologize when my car is hit!" "
That day, my grandmother and I went to school by bus. Hardly had I got on the bus when the bus started. But not far away, the car stopped again.
We were surprised and thought there was something wrong. Other passengers in the car also talked about it and looked at the driver's uncle. The driver's uncle didn't get off to repair it, but stared at the back door. I followed his eyes and saw a white-haired grandmother hurriedly waving to our bus in the distance. She is not far from the car. I can clearly see that this is an old man in his seventies and eighties, hobbling along with crutches. ...
At this time, she had walked to the door, the door creaked open and the grandmother got on the bus slowly. I saw that her face was full of wrinkles, her eyes were sunken and her teeth were falling out. She gratefully said to the driver's uncle, "Thank you, Master, if you hadn't waited for me, I would have missed the bus!" " "The driver's uncle said with a smile," it should be. No, thanks! "
At this moment, a young man with colorful hair suddenly said, "Parking for so long is for an old woman!" " Wasted my working time! As soon as this was said, many people in the car immediately condemned him. "We should respect the old and love the young!" "How can you be so rude? "
The driver's uncle spoke: "Young man, what you said is wrong. Do you have an old man in your family? What if this old man is your relative? Besides, each of us will get old. Do you want to be rejected when you are old? We must learn to care about each other! "
I don't know who took the lead in clapping, so I suddenly applauded. The young man blushed and bowed his head.
Yes, in life, I should learn to put myself in the other's shoes, and don't do to others what you don't want me to do to you. In this way, our life will be more warm and beautiful.
2. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Everyone's childhood is a footprint, and each footprint represents our growth. Well, among these footprints, my father's impressed me the most.
I remember it was raining cats and dogs. When I finished my homework and just wanted to go to the study to get books, I saw that the children had not closed the door. I thought, who is so careless? Heaven is not my father. I went to close the door when I suddenly heard my father crying. I opened the door curiously and saw that my father's whole hand was red. There was an angry expression on my father's face. She patted me on the head. I almost wanted to film it, but he stopped and his face gradually calmed down. I was seven years old and I didn't know what happened. All I know is that my father is really in pain. I glanced at my father's hand when I went back to my room. I thought to myself, my father is so careless that he can even treat his hands like this.
The rain has stopped, and it's dusk. I looked at the flaming sky and seemed to think of my father's angry expression. That was the first time I saw my father angry. I was about to go out to hang clothes on the balcony when I suddenly heard a conversation between my parents. Mom told dad how careless she was and her hands were swollen. Mother complained while wiping oil and wine. That's not because I put my hand on the door when I went out to get something, and my son closed the door and grabbed my hand.
Really, I want to scold my son for hurting your hand so carelessly. Wait a minute. Dad spoke. This is none of my son's business. I put my hand on the door myself. I can't blame my son for my own strange mistakes. In fact, I really want to scold him today, but I have reflected on my mistakes and shouldn't put my hand on the door. Again remind of the famous saying, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. ...
I will never forget that night. ...
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, that is, use your heart to help others, influence others, and put yourself in others' shoes.
I remember once, shortly after the beginning of school, the teacher wanted to adjust our seats. After I changed my position, the desk and chair I sat on were not as good as before, and I kept swinging and screaming. I feel uncomfortable sitting. I want to change the desk and chair I used to sit when no one was after school. But when I walked to the desk and chair, I felt a sense of guilt coming from nowhere. I looked at the table guiltily for a while, then walked away and continued to sit on my rickety broken desk and chair. Why? Because I thought of what Confucius said,' Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you'. I don't want to sit on this stupid desk and chair myself, and of course no one else wants to sit on it. Why should I sit by myself? Why do others sit badly? The so-called empathy is to stand in the perspective of others and think for others. Don't be too selfish, don't do anything just for yourself.
Another time, I bought a watercolor pen online, but after I bought it, I ran out of water after just using it a few times, and some even ran out of water after I didn't use it. I was very angry after this incident. I really want to question those black-hearted businessmen loudly. Would you be angry if this happened to you? Put yourself in others' shoes. Are you willing to give this product you sell to your children?
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, that is, put yourself in others' shoes.
4. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
In real life, we often encounter the problem of interest division. We should learn to look at problems from the standpoint of others, think more about others, and learn to think about others. In the long run, we will form habits, develop virtues and be respected.
There have been many sages in our country who pushed themselves and others, and the story of "Dayu controlling water" is a lofty example of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". When Dayu accepted the task of water control, he just married a girl from Tushan Stone. When he thought of someone being drowned, his heart was as painful and uneasy as that of his loved one being drowned. So he bid farewell to his wife and led 270,000 flood control people to carry out flood relief work day and night. Dayu stayed at home for three times in the process of water control. After 13 years of fighting, he dredged nine big rivers, made floods flow into the sea, eliminated floods, and achieved immortal great achievements.
During the Warring States Period, a man named Meng Zi talked about this matter. He boasted, "If I were allowed to control water, I would definitely control water better than Yu. As long as I dredge the river and let the flood flow to neighboring countries, wouldn't it be much easier? " Mencius said to him rudely, "You are wrong! If neighboring countries are used as water gathering places, the result will be flood backward, causing even greater disasters. People with kindness will not do this. "
Dayu's water control and Bai Gui's water control are completely based on two different ideas. Bai Gui thinks only of himself, not others. This wrong idea of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is inevitable. Dayu introduced the flood into the sea, although it was laborious, but it eliminated the disasters of both his own people and those of neighboring countries. This spirit of putting yourself in others' shoes deserves admiration and imitation. Therefore, Dayu's water control has naturally become an eternal story.
5. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." This is a kind of character, but many people do not have this noble character, and some people have sacrificed a lot for this character.
Yu Liang, the minister of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, had a fierce horse. Someone asked him to sell it, but he said, "I sold it, and someone bought it, which hurt its new owner." Is it necessary to blame others for self-distrust? " What Yu Liang said embodies this noble character. He didn't transfer the injury to others just because he would get hurt, but left the danger to himself. We should admire his quality of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you".
Different from him, Zhuangzi wrote a fable of "Lu Hou keeps birds": A seabird landed outside the suburb of Lu State, and Lu Hou thought it was a god bird, so people caught it and welcomed it with a very rich banquet, treating it better than God, but his enthusiasm made the bird panic, did not eat or drink for three days, and finally died. When Lv Hou treated the bird, he didn't think about what it really needed. He thinks this is not an ordinary seabird. All it needs is food to fill its stomach and a place to fly freely. Lv Hou finally killed the common seabird in a way he thought was good. From this story of Lv Hou, we should think about whether we treat others in the same way in our daily life and impose our will on others without knowing what they need. We should learn to "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you."
Dayu also has this noble character. He is afraid of losing his life because of his relatives, friends and villagers. He left his newlywed wife behind, led 270,000 people to control water, and worked day and night to drain water. He stayed at home three times, and after 13 years of fighting, he finally achieved a great cause that will last forever. His great achievements in Dujiangyan have benefited thousands of Qian Qian people, and generations of Chengdu people have been blessed by him.
When Bai Gui and Mencius talked about water control in the Warring States Period, Bai Gui said, "Let me do it. I must do better than Yu. As long as I dredge the river and let the water flow to other countries, it will be over and how much trouble will be saved. " However, he only saw the benefits for himself and ignored the disadvantages for others. When the flood flowed to other countries, he didn't think of the suffering of people in other countries. He didn't solve the problem fundamentally like Dayu. He is selfish and doesn't think of others at all. He doesn't understand the truth of "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you".
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is a kind of character, which is also lacking by many people in today's society. We should always keep this sentence of Confucius in mind and remind ourselves how to be a man, so as to achieve lifelong.
6. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
As the old saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." This sentence comes from the Analects of Confucius. Confucius said, "I am angry! Don't do to others what you don't want. " It means don't force others to do things you don't want to do. In recent days, I saw something that made me understand the meaning of this sentence again.
During the school lunch break, one classmate was taking ugly photos of other students everywhere. One of my classmates was very angry after being photographed by him. He shouted: "You deleted the photo for me, you are infringing on my portrait right!" " The first classmate disagreed and said, "Why should I delete it?"
Another classmate also took out his watch and took a photo for the first classmate. That classmate was instantly angry and shouted loudly: "Delete! You deleted the photo for me! " Then, two people quarreled.
At this moment, the head teacher came in. She stopped them loudly: "You two are calling a dog to eat a dog. You should know what you don't want others to do to you."
After listening to the teacher, I think we should learn to respect others. What you are doing may make others feel uncomfortable, so we should put ourselves in others' shoes when we do it ourselves. We should also look at the performance of others and see if we should do so.
I understand the truth of the sentence "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Moreover, this sentence has benefited me a lot.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
On the farm, a chicken and a duck are good friends. They had a good time and chatted happily. I don't know why, but suddenly there was a quarrel, and no one ignored anyone and went their separate ways.
The duckling came to the river, got into the water and looked for food in frustration. The chicken quickly returned to her room and ate all the rice scattered all over the floor. At this time, the farm owner, a good friend's sworn enemy, appeared. The owner of the farm is a snake-hearted man. Although he is usually cheerful, his stomach is full of bad things. He keeps animals to make more money, and all animals are afraid of him. He crept into the henhouse and said, "Chicken, shall I take you to eat delicious food?" "No, you scoundrel, you have killed many of my companions in this way." The chicken mumbled with rice in its mouth. "Then I'll take you to make up with the duck, okay?" The farmer changed his way, and the chicken seemed to believe him and walked to the river step by step.
Arriving at the river, the duckling said angrily, "What are you doing here?" "I ... I," the chicken said hesitantly, "I want to make up with you." "What, make up?" "yes." The farmer said impatiently, "Oh, you see that you are so far away from him, and he still doesn't believe you.". Why don't you just go into the water and discuss with him! " As soon as his voice fell, he reached out and pushed the chicken. Unexpectedly, the chicken turned around beautifully, which surprised the farmer. Because the chicken knew that he couldn't swim, the farmer wanted to harm him. The farmer was furious, flushed and said, "You little bastard, see how I punish you." The farmer jumped up again. This time, the farmer immediately jumped into the water. He shouted, "Help, help ..." But no one paid attention to him. The chicken and the duckling clapped their hands happily and swaggered away.
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. The owner of the farm himself is a "landlubber" and wants the chickens to go swimming. So do we as human beings. What we can't do can't be imposed on others. We can't be as vicious as farmers.
8. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
"Do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is my motto. It always reminds me; Don't impose what you don't like on others.
In fact, it was then that I really understood this sentence. In grade _ _, a new classmate transferred to our class and was also my deskmate. Her name is _ _.
Once in a math class, the teacher came up with a very difficult topic, and we all racked our brains to think about it, so did I. It is time. Now the math teacher is teaching us how to do it. The teacher taught us an addition problem, which is 6+7. Suddenly, the voice of the name _ _ _ 6+7 sounded. Oh! I reacted and cried in a low voice; "___=6+7, or refill it ..." At that time, _ _ _ was so angry that she almost cried until the teacher scolded us.
Now, I am in junior high school. Gradually, the nickname "6+7" no longer exists. Now, people are paying attention to me. Every time they see me, they will say "Chinese cabbage, water spinach, baby cabbage, rookie …". I was very angry when I heard that. Every time someone says my nickname, I think. So I used to call _ _, all kinds of nicknames, and she was angry, but now everyone calls me nicknames, and I am angry, and I finally understand _ _ _.
Although it used to be like this, now _ _ _ is still my friend, and I shouldn't do that. Since then, I have gained a truth; Don't impose what you don't like on others. I will never forget the motto "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"!
9. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Confucius said, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." This sentence comes from The Analects of Confucius. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you, which means don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you.
These short eight words are even more difficult to do.
At the dinner table, you help the guests eat, but how do you know if the guests like this dish? If he doesn't eat your food at this time, you will feel embarrassed. If he eats it by force, he may be allergic to this dish, which shows that he has done something he doesn't want to do to others.
You can ask him what he likes to eat first, and order according to his own taste, instead of helping others directly like this.
The teacher handed out notebooks in class and let us write small exercises. However, you happened to get a damaged notebook. At this time, you are handing out notebooks, and you are sitting at the same table. You have changed your notebook with the one at the same table. This is also something you don't want to do to others.
You can tell the teacher to change or use one, and you can't secretly change others' and your own.
Before the sports meeting, there are only two items to choose from, one is easy to do and the other is not easy to do. The teacher asked you to choose the hard ones and give the easy ones to other students, but you chose the easy ones and gave them to your classmates. You also said there was a project here. Isn't that what you don't want to do to others?
Don't impose what you don't want on others. We start with small things, don't do things we don't want to do, and don't do things for others to see.
10. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
"Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" comes from The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan, which is one of the classic quips of Confucius and the essence of Confucian culture. The Analects of Confucius by China, like the Bible in the west, is a generalization and guidance of a nation or a regional culture. The Analects of Confucius is divided into twenty chapters, among which Yan Yuan's chapter mainly tells Confucius' explanation of "benevolence" and "forgiveness".
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Always think of others, and the world will be more peaceful. Think about those medical accidents, those disabled people, what if it was you? Think of those abused prisoners of war, those displaced and struggling refugees. What if you're one of them? Think of the monkey head and bear's paw on the table. Don't animals have the right to live? These are terrible, but this is what some people do. Their behavior will be spurned by people and will be punished one day!
Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. Others will think for you, and sincerity can change your heart. If everyone can do this in life, the world will be more peaceful. Live a more harmonious and happy life.
Confucius is not talking about a universal theorem. If everything starts from this principle, many things will get stuck in the middle and it will be difficult to move forward. If two people confront each other with guns, their lives are at stake. A is justice and B is evil. At this time, if A abides by the principle of "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you", wouldn't it be miserable! A definitely doesn't want to be killed, so don't you kill B who doesn't want to be killed Any truth and any law are only applicable under certain conditions and circumstances.