2. Speech is a picture of the mind. -Life Motto published by Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
A thoughtful speech is better than eloquence, and proper wording is better than compliment. -life motto bacon Gansu people's publishing house 1997.
4. People have two ears and eyes and only one tongue, so you should listen more, see more and talk less. -Life motto Socrates by Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
5. People who really understand don't need to shout. -Life Motto Da Vinci Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
6. Don't say anything you don't want to write down and sign for. -"Life Motto" published by E.W. Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
-Tang Qunying.
7. Emotion itself contains enormous energy, which can help solve the problem of emotional expression. -Lu, Psychology of Emotional Education
8. Communicate the feelings you have experienced to others, let others be infected by this feeling, and experience these feelings. -Tolstoy
9. One thing should be noted: children should not be allowed to say things commonly used by cowards, such as "I dare not". It is often said that children will never become promising people. To this end, parents tell their children stories of great men. -Montessori
10. When parents learn how to express their inner understanding and acceptance to their children by language, they often have a very useful tool that can produce surprising results. -Harvard gifted scholar
1 1. It is essential to discipline children, but discipline is only a means, not the ultimate goal. —— Fett Jefferson, the founder of the Fee Education Law and an American scholar.
-Wang Zhiyou.
12, example lies in beauty, not in abundance. -"Famous aphorisms" was published by Liang Harbin Publishing House in 2003.
-Li Longtan
Children need love, especially when necessary. -Life Motto was published by Herbart Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
14, love begets love. -Famous sayings of Chinese and foreign celebrities, edited by Zhou Li, published by herrick Commercial Press International Co., Ltd. in September 20001year.
-Guo
15, one thing to pay attention to: don't let children say things commonly used by cowards, such as "I dare not". It is often said that children will never become promising people. To this end, parents tell their children stories of great men. -Montessori
16. When parents learn how to express their heartfelt understanding and acceptance to their children, they often have a very useful tool that can produce surprising results. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
17, friendliness, cooperation, discipline, politeness, and the ability of collective concept are all essential qualities for high-quality talents. Without the cultivation of these skills, smart children can only be cultivated into "lonely" prodigies. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
As elders, we should be more careful and compassionate in our conversation. We should try our best to respect our children, so as to create a more friendly conversation atmosphere. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
19, enthusiasm is a positive force for a person to achieve his goals. Complete works of Marx and Engels
Zhang Yujuan.
Teaching is a unique performing art, which is different from any other performing art because of the relationship between teachers and people watching the performance. Robert travers
2 1, one thing to pay attention to: don't let children say things commonly used by cowards, such as "I dare not". It is often said that children will never become promising people. To this end, parents tell their children stories of great men. -Montessori
22. Advise children to think more about how to succeed, instead of worrying too much about the bumps that may be encountered on the road to success. Only those who believe that they can succeed can become successful people. -Harvard gifted scholar
23. Enthusiasm is a positive force for a person to strive to achieve his goals. Complete works of Marx and Engels
When parents learn how to express their inner understanding and acceptance to their children by language, they often have a very useful tool that can produce surprising results. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
Wang Haiyu
When parents learn how to express their inner understanding and acceptance to their children by language, they often have a very useful tool that can produce surprising results. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
26. Enthusiasm is a positive force for a person to strive to achieve his goals. Complete works of Marx and Engels
27. Friendship, cooperation, discipline, courtesy, and the ability to think collectively are all necessary qualities for high-quality talents. Without the cultivation of these skills, smart children can only be cultivated into "lonely" prodigies. -"Harvard Talent" Liu Weihua, the mother of Harvard girl Liu Yiting
Liu Aiyun.
28. People's emotions are multi-level and multi-trend. There is reverence, respect, admiration, pro-stepping, caring, missing, sympathy, regret, pity, sadness, sadness, fear and so on. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
29. When you feel that students are not interested in what you say, they seem to be deaf, or deaf and indifferent, if you want to impress students' hearts and gain their trust, you should talk to them in a language full of true feelings and heart-to-heart feelings, so that they can feel that you are telling them the truth out of true feelings. Only such a language can have power, impress students and win their hearts. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
30, to motivate students is to use emotional language to motivate, with passion, to stimulate the potential emotions in students' hearts, arouse the enthusiasm hidden in students' minds, encourage students to overcome their own shortcomings, let go of their ideological burdens, enhance self-motivation and self-confidence, and learn and grow better. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
3 1, Wei Shusheng, an educator, never pretends to be a teacher and principal in front of students, but tells them everything. Even the worst student is a person who needs respect, understanding and consideration in his eyes. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
32. In order to arouse students' learning enthusiasm and achieve good teaching results, it is necessary to use emotional language to influence students. These empty sermons, abstract arguments and boring words are much better. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
33. As a result of complaining, losing heart and waiting, students are becoming more and more difficult to teach and their temper is getting worse. At present, we should not try our best to overcome difficulties, but should first blame and complain. It is really the saddest thing in life to exchange a lot of useless accusations and complaints for precious time. -"Talking about the Work of Class Teachers" was published by Wei Shusheng Lijiang Publishing House in August 1993.
When educating students, we should try not to stand on their opposite side and let them do what they want. Instead, we should stand in their hearts and put forward what we need from their thoughts of truth, goodness and beauty, so that we can do better. In this way, students will think that you are helping him, not scolding him. You are really his assistant. -"Talking about the Work of Class Teachers" was published by Wei Shusheng Lijiang Publishing House in August 1993.
35. Once a class collective has the ideological commander of "respect others, respect others", once its members respect others as much as possible in words and deeds, and gain respect from others for themselves, this collective will have great cohesion, and everyone living in the collective will feel happy and proud, thus exerting great potential and achieving unexpected good results. -"Talking about the Work of Class Teachers" was published by Wei Shusheng Lijiang Publishing House in August 1993.
36. In language cultivation, teachers should pay attention to oral language cultivation and oral expression training, and strive to cultivate their eloquence. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
37, reading the text should also be full of passion, to convey feelings with sound, full of sound and emotion, vivid description, auxiliary tone priority, read the stories and characters in the text well, read them with interest, and stimulate students' desire for knowledge. -"Teachers' Practical Language Art" was published by Zheng Xiaoshun Huahua Publishing House in June 2000.
—— Tang Shukun
38. Adolescence is a critical period for the formation of moral quality, outlook on life and world, a transitional period for children's physical and mental development from immaturity to maturity, and a transitional period for moral unemployment from heteronomy to self-discipline. At this time, children have strong plasticity and can develop in a positive direction to form good moral character; It can also be transformed into a negative aspect and form a bad moral tendency. -"The Science and Art of Teaching Children to Become Talents" Zhang Yongtai waited, Industrial and Commercial Press.
Zhang Wendong.
Replacing the beginning of "you" with "I" can avoid criticizing and attacking students, such as "I was really worried that you would come back so late, and I thought you had something to do". -Psychological Education for Adolescents, page 30, Knowledge Publishing House, published in 1995, Bird.
40. Language itself contains enormous energy, which can help solve the problem of emotional expression. -psychology of emotion, Jakobson.
4 1, the use of tones is meaningful, not only for loud singing and beautiful conversation, but for accurately, vividly and forcefully expressing one's thoughts and feelings.
makarenko
Yang Xiaoyan.
42. Teachers' comments on students should be evaluated from the aspects of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor, and should not be one-sided; Pay attention to pertinence, teachers should grasp the characteristics of students, avoid being one-sided, strive to be accurate and appropriate, and give students specific guidance through comments; Teachers' comments full of expectations should be devoted to "teachers' feelings" and embody "love", so that students can find their self-esteem and self-confidence through the words of teachers' encouragement and gain motivation and courage to move forward. Language should be specific and avoid generalizations; It is necessary to move with emotion, move with emotion, understand it with reason, and guide it with Tao. One more ruler, one more group of good students. Many good students are the result of teachers' evaluation. -"Changes in Teachers' Behavior under the New Curriculum" edited by Fu Daochun was published by Capital Normal University Press 20011.
43. Teaching activity is a kind of interpersonal activity in a special situation. Both teachers and students participate in teaching activities, not only transmitting cognitive information and emotional information, but also consciously or unconsciously communicating interpersonal feelings between teachers and students. Teachers' feelings for students will be expressed in teachers' emotions, words and deeds, smiles and smiles, which will be understood by teachers and their feelings will affect each other. Teachers' "smiles and frowns" directly affect students' emotional expression. -Psychology of Emotional Education, Shanghai Education Press, 2nd edition, June 2000 165438+ 10.
—— Fu Shunxia
44. Words are pictures of the mind. -Life Motto published by Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
45. A thoughtful speech speaks louder than words, and proper wording speaks louder than compliments. -life motto bacon Gansu people's publishing house 1997.
46. People have two ears, two eyes and only one tongue. Listen more, see more and speak less. -Life motto Socrates by Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
47. Words and deeds lie in beauty, not richness. -"Famous aphorisms" was published by Liang Harbin Publishing House in 2003.
48. People who really understand don't need to shout. -Life Motto Da Vinci Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
49. Don't say anything you don't want to write down and sign for. -"Life Motto" published by E.W. Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
Li Caiyun.
50. Art is emotion. rodin
5 1, no anger, no anger, no anger. Confucius
52. Moral emotion-this is the flesh and blood of moral beliefs, principles and spiritual strength. Without emotion, morality becomes a dry and pale language, which can only cultivate hypocrites. -Suhomlinski
53. There is a popular misconception that human behavior seems to be only the result of logical reasoning and conclusions. In fact, emotions play a great role in controlling people's behavior, and many extremely important decisions are made under the direct influence of emotions. -II.N. Du Blovsky
-Shi Jun.
54. The art of cultivating emotions: 1, cleverly setting suspense to induce feelings; 2. Express feelings with feelings, and feelings are ringing; 3. Express feelings through scenes and blend scenes; 4. Express feelings with beauty and be full of feelings; 5. Cultivate sentiment with passion; 6. Express your feelings to God and internalize your character. -Gao Changmei's Encyclopedia of Educational Methods and Arts
55. Words are the shadow of actions. Democritus. -Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
56. Books are notes and conversations are songs. Chekhov-The Motto of Life, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
57. If you speak your mind, it will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Nizami-Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, published by Gansu People's Publishing House in June 1985.
58. Words are pictures of the mind. Lei's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 10 10.
-Sui Xiaofeng
59. The personal performance of parents and teachers is the first window for children to observe the world around them ... Children follow the teacher's example and believe everything the teacher says. Execute his request unconditionally. Suhomlinski
60. It's never too late to know and change. Shakespeare
6 1, children can be respected. Lu Xun
62. Love is the real power to bring people back to life. Goethe
63. Without human emotions, there will never be, and no one can pursue the truth. Lenin
64. Education is to the soul what sculpture is to marble. -"Life Motto" was published by Edison Gansu People's Publishing House in June 5438+0985 and in June 65438 10.
65. If you speak your mind, it will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Nizami-Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, published by Gansu People's Publishing House in June 1985.
66. Books are notes and conversations are songs. Chekhov-The Motto of Life, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
67. Words are pictures of the mind. Lei's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 10 10.
68. Words are the shadow of actions. Democritus. -Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
69. To cultivate a person is to cultivate his hope for the future. -"Life Motto" published by makarenko Gansu People's Publishing House, 1997.
70. The art of teaching lies in arousing young people's natural curiosity and then satisfying them. -United States Air Force
7 1. Language is as important to us as a fine horse is to a knight. The best steed suits the best knight, and the best language suits the best thought. -Dante's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
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72. Words are pictures of the mind. Lei's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 10 10.
73. Words are the shadow of actions. Democritus. -Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
74. Art is emotion. -Rodin's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
As a tool, language is as important to us as a fine horse is to a knight. The best steed suits the best knight, and the best language suits the best thought. -Dante's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
76. Books are notes and conversations are songs. Chekhov-The Motto of Life, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
77. If you speak your mind, it will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Nizami-Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, published by Gansu People's Publishing House in June 1985.
78. If you want to know the future of a nation, just look at their children. proverb
79. People's pursuit of love is often due to their loss. proverb
80. I only shed a drop of water, but I was rewarded by the whole ocean. proverb
Yan Yan.
8 1. Language, as a tool, is as important to us as a fine horse is to a knight. The best steed suits the best knight, and the best language suits the best thought. -Dante's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
82. Words are the shadow of actions. Democritus. -Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
83. If you speak your mind, it will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Nizami-Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, published by Gansu People's Publishing House in June 1985.
84. Books are notes and conversations are songs. Chekhov-The Motto of Life, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
85. Art is emotion. -Rodin's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
86. Thousands of teachers in Qian Qian teach people to seek truth, while thousands of students in Qian Qian learn to be human. proverb
87. A philosopher said that if you want to know the future of a nation, just look at their children. proverb
88. The charm of children is like music. Romain Rolland
89. I only shed a drop of water, but I was rewarded by the whole ocean. proverb
90. Kindness is the sun of the spiritual world. Hugo
9 1. Words are pictures of the mind. Lei's Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 10 10.
Zhao Hongling.
92. The shortest answer is action. -Life Motto was published by Herbart Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
93. People who really understand don't need to shout. -Life Motto Da Vinci Gansu People's Publishing House 1997.
94. Words are the shadow of actions. Democritus. -Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
95. If you speak your mind, it will be deeply rooted in people's hearts. Nizami-Life Motto, edited by Peng Changcheng, published by Gansu People's Publishing House in June 1985.
96. Books are notes and conversations are songs. Chekhov-The Motto of Life, edited by Peng Changcheng, was published in Gansu People's Publishing House 1985 65438+ 10.
-Hou Chengbin
97. Language expression based on "I" can reduce children's resistance and opposition. If a child is wrong in a certain behavior, instead of criticizing it directly, it is better to tell the feelings that this behavior brings to others and avoid attacking the child's personality. -"A Good Way to Teach Children-Psychological Education and Sex Education for Children and Adolescents" published by Yang Xia and Bird Knowledge Publishing House 1995.
98. Only by learning to make 20 styles and rhymes in the use of face, posture and sound will I become a truly skilled person. Makarenko's On Productive Education: People's Publishing House 1979, p. 303.
Replacing the beginning of "you" with "I" can avoid criticizing and attacking students, such as "I was really worried that you came back so late, and I thought you had something to do". -"A Good Way to Teach Children-Psychological Education and Sex Education for Children and Adolescents" published by Yang Xia and Bird Knowledge Publishing House 1995.
100, the principle of goodwill and respect; The principle of * * meaning between teachers and students; Principle of coordination; Principle of self-awareness; Principle of consciousness adjustment; Principle of positive action; Principle of program control. -Sun Jintao, Ji Dengxun, Wang Dakai and Zhang Yeying, Complete Works of Success and Happiness Education, Xinhua Publishing House.
10 1. Language itself contains great energy, which can help solve the problem of emotional expression. Jakobson's Emotional Psychology
102, I hope you can learn this lesson and use your intelligence ... Liao Jianhua.
—— Li Yandan
103, what can arouse students' interest is not what is particularly attached, but the teaching material itself ... It is one of the keys to arouse students' interest to be good at prompting the profound internal relationship between the known and the new. -"The Birth of a Citizen" Suhomlinski
104, "Teachers should treat students with a fatherly attitude", even though "when correcting students' mistakes, they can neither be sarcastic nor abusive. Some teachers seem to dislike students when they blame them for their mistakes, which will dampen their enthusiasm for studying hard. " Selected Works of Education in quintilian, published by People's Education Press 1989.
105, and in emotional teaching, we should also emphasize the vividness, liveliness, image, emotion and appeal of the teaching language, and even have a certain sense of humor, so that the teaching language can convey both knowledge and emotion, and achieve the perfect unity of science and art. -"Emotional Education Psychology" by Shanghai Education Press 200 1.
-Believe in the Yangtze River.
106. The communication effect of silent expression is five times that of spoken language. -"Mysterious Body Language" Fuxiang Wang China Youth Publishing House
107. Only when people who love science appear in front of students can their emotions and emotions be aroused. -One hundred suggestions for teachers 198 1 published by Suhomlinski People's Publishing House.
108, aesthetic education, the application of aesthetic education theory in education, with the purpose of cultivating feelings. -Selected Works of Cai Yuanpei's Education Published by People's Education Publishing House 1980.
109, the art of education is to make students like what you teach. -Emile Rousseau Commercial Press.
1 10, rich without words, about without losing words. -"Research on the Modernization of Teaching Methods" is still living in East China Normal University Press.
1 1 1. When influencing students' inner world, one of their most sensitive corners-human self-esteem should not be bruised. -One hundred suggestions for teachers 198 1 published by Suhomlinski People's Publishing House.
Wang Zhan.
1 12. Only when I learn to make 20 styles and rhythms in the use of face, posture and voice will I become a truly skilled person. Makarenko's On Productive Education: People's Publishing House 1979, p. 303.
1 13, using "I" instead of "you" can avoid criticizing and attacking students, such as "I was really worried that you came back so late, and I thought you had something to do". -A Good Way to Teach Children-Psychological Education and Sex Education for Children and Adolescents, published by Yang Xia and Bird Knowledge Publishing House 1995, p. 30.
1 14. Principles of goodwill and respect; The principle of * * meaning between teachers and students; Principle of coordination; Principle of self-awareness; Principle of consciousness adjustment; Principle of positive action; Degree control principle. -Sun Jintao, Ji Dengxun, Wang Dakai and Zhang Yeying, Complete Works of Success and Happiness Education, Xinhua Publishing House.
1 15, language itself contains great energy, which can help solve the problem of emotional expression. -psychology of emotion, Jakobson.
1 16, I hope you can learn this lesson and give full play to your intelligence ... Liao Jianhua.
-Tian
1 17, the wonderful singing is not the tongue, but the affection is at the waist. As long as it is from the heart and out of nature, any language can achieve good results, and that kind of superficial "deep affection" will only make people sick. Huagong
Hua Gong.
1 17. To be emotionally attractive, teachers must respect students' personality, not cynicism. Rational analysis, correct guidance, appropriate tolerance and understanding of students' mistakes; Can use extraordinary patience to influence and save underachievers; Deal with the problems in the student group impartially; When students encounter setbacks, they can be close to their parents and give timely care; When students have resistance to the teacher's education, they can put themselves in the students' shoes and communicate with their hearts. In this way, students will feel close to their teachers ...-People's Education, No.5, 1999, teachers in Li Wenhua should be emotionally attractive.
1 18, ... Teachers should fully respect children's "care" and fully respect children's needs and even whimsical ideas because of care. Otherwise, how many children's hearts will be hurt by our arrogance and quick success! ..... What children care about is a smile given by the teacher, a reward given by the teacher and an opportunity to correct their mistakes ... In this process, the teacher is the messenger of love, and paying attention to every need of the child with love can inspire every student ... Teachers respect and cherish the "care" of the children, making learning the happiest thing for the children and making them blue. This is not giving, but sincere giving to children. -People's Education, No.2, 2002, Dai Zhenhua's Caring for Students.