If you are willing to laugh, you will get friendship; if you are willing to be tolerant, you will get magnanimity; if you are willing to be honest, you will get friends; if you are willing to give up face, you will get reality; if you are willing to give up wine and sex, you will get health; if you are willing to give up the reputation, you will get health. What you get is freedom; if you give up generosity, you get a good reputation; if you give up a certain spirit, you can get a certain material; if you give up a certain material, you can get a certain spirit.