1. Elusive, subtle and uncertain, this is the night.

2. People have three fundamental dilemmas. First, people are destined to be themselves only. People are destined to live among countless others and cannot fully communicate with others. It means loneliness. Second, people are born with desires, and a person’s ability to realize desires can never catch up with his ability to desire. This is an eternal distance. Third, people are born not to want to die, but people are born to die, which means fear. God uses these three things to torment us. But maybe we have misunderstood. God originally wanted to give us three opportunities to gain joy.

3. I often think that ugly women create beautiful women. I often think that it is the fool who points out the wise man. I often think that it is the coward that contrasts the hero. I often think that everyone has saved the Buddha.

4. For the first time in many years, I realized that not only were my car tracks everywhere in this garden, but also my mother’s footprints were everywhere where my car tracks were.

5. Bitterness and happiness are all determined by one’s own judgment, which is not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who does not like jewelry, even if she is in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, her self-esteem will not be hurt. . A poor scholar with thousands of books does not want to exchange diamonds or stocks with a millionaire. People who are content with pastoral life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or high official position and salary.

6. Excuse and torment yourself with big words such as being born at the wrong time.

7. Just because you are dissatisfied with reality, you should not be angry at the eternal dream, saying that it never existed.

8. Death is something that you don’t have to rush to do. It is something that you will not miss no matter how much you delay. It is a festival that will inevitably come.

9. What a person cannot do is a limitation or a disability.

10. Don’t rub each other against each other in the dispute between people and me. Some words may not sound serious, but if you are not careful, they will weigh heavily on others' hearts. Of course, you must also train yourself not to be easily hurt by other people's words. You can't determine the length of life, but you can expand its width; you can't change your natural appearance, but you can always show a smile; you can't expect to control others, but you can take good control of yourself; you can't completely predict tomorrow, but you can make full use of today ; You can't ask for everything to go smoothly, but you can do everything with your best. Appreciation: A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. More is a burden, another kind of loss; less is not insufficient, but another kind of surplus; giving up is not necessarily a loss, but another kind of broader possession.