First, the psychological effect. You think you have nothing to wear, but in fact. ......
? Many people feel that they have no clothes to wear, mostly because of psychological effects. Actually, the closet is full of clothes. People's desires are endless. You always tell yourself that you have nothing to wear, but you are just looking for a reason to buy yourself new clothes. Buy it if you want. Why do you say you have no clothes to wear? This wave of poor management is probably to reassure yourself, rationalize your behavior, and let people around you support you to buy clothes, such as your husband, an important person.
Honey, if you have nothing to wear, just buy some, just like a smart husband would say.
How can there be no clothes to wear? The closet is full of your clothes. A straight cancer husband would say that.
Honey, I think I have nothing to wear either. Only when a husband lives in his heart can he say that.
In life, girls need clothes more than boys. Many girls talk about clothes, and there are more brands selling women's clothes than men's clothes in shopping malls. Merchants are keenly aware that girls are the main consumers of clothing, and they will regularly launch new styles and new preferential activities to stimulate women's consumption. All this has a lot to do with female psychology. Businessmen use women's psychology to make money. Under the influence of overwhelming advertisements and the surrounding social environment, women think that buying clothes and wearing new clothes can make them happy. Is your happiness determined by a dress?
Second, what you lack is clothes suitable for different occasions.
? There are occasions to wear clothes, in other words, the most important thing to wear clothes is the occasion! The appropriateness of wearing clothes on different occasions is very important. Some clothes are brightly colored, but they are not suitable for the workplace. A friend I know, Ms. A, wears the most suitable clothes on different occasions. This is her wisdom. She never thinks that a dress can satisfy both the workplace and the life scene. There is a clear line between her wardrobe, work clothes and living clothes. Most of her work clothes are shirts, trousers, windbreakers and suits. Among the clothes of life, she mainly includes skirts and sportswear for travel. She said that such clear boundaries made her feel relaxed in dress.
Third, you need the courage and wisdom to break up.
? In recent years, divorce has become very popular. Many people mistakenly think that divorce means abandoning everything, which is extreme. I think there is no standard for parting. You don't have to throw away everything at home like those bloggers. The house is empty. For most of us, parting should make us think about what we need and what we don't need. Under what circumstances are these unwanted things bought? We should stay away from such a situation. Organize your belongings regularly, bid farewell to shopaholics, and let reason pour into your life bit by bit.
? The wisdom of parting lies in pursuing the value of life and finding what you really need. Don't let these become stumbling blocks in your life, but let them become stepping stones in your life.