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Question 2: A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. Similarly, broadmindedness comes from a tolerant heart. What do you mean? This is a description of a person's character, which is different from the actual problem you said. Of course, you can't accommodate these situations, but they can be solved.
The width of the sea can accommodate many rivers; There is a metaphor that a person's broad mind can contain everything. It also refers to a kind of cultivation of people. It warns people to be broad-minded. Look at the sea, all the rivers have finally achieved their greatness. Therefore, a person should be able to listen to other people's opinions and have an inclusive mind. This is the demeanor of the strong.
Question 3: What is tolerance? What is the real meaning of tolerance? Tolerance means letting go of your heart to understand others. Don't haggle over every ounce when others apologize to you for making a mistake. Tolerance means being generous to everyone, others and yourself with your smile.
Question 4: How can we be tolerant? This was originally an assignment for an introduction to literature class, and we were asked to analyze the western proverb "There are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand hearts". It's just that different people have different understandings of the works. Very boring. I might as well use this sentence to talk about tolerance, which is more meaningful. Anyway, there is no place for the course of Introduction to Literature. I am embarrassed to hand in so many words. What a butcher-like teacher. After the reform and opening up, China introduced a lot of western things in an unprecedented manner, and practiced Lu Xun's "takenism". Under the slogan of weak socialism, we can clearly see that the shareholding system, market economy and Hollywood have come and gone, which have influenced and alienated the cultural traditions formed by the Chinese nation for thousands of years. However, China is becoming more and more like a foreign country and is complacent about it. In fact, the essence of real western civilization, such as the love and tolerance of Christ, is too late for China people who stride forward. The endless stream of abuse on the Internet can be seen. "If a person hits your right face, you have to face your left face." Christ's tolerance lies in that he transcends the concern for the body and looks at it from the height of the ultimate significance of the suffering and fate of the masses, which has produced incomparable power. It is foolish to expect the public to understand the spiritual core of Christ. Even most believers become believers only after they have a deep understanding of the teachings of Christ. Their religious beliefs are essentially weak and blind. They only care about seeking the outlet of spiritual liberation. As for choosing Christianity or Buddhism, they don't really care. Such a low-level religious choice cannot produce real spiritual strength and make faith a gesture. Therefore, it is not easy to expect most Christians to be broad-minded and tolerant. How can we be truly tolerant? I think the most basic one is to clarify the value premise of world diversity. "Inequality is the origin of happiness." Russell said. The world is pluralistic, and all kinds of new things should be allowed to exist and develop. As for the pros and cons, time will tell. No one has the right to make irresponsible remarks about contemporary phenomena, because he can only use established standards forever. Too many people are keen to use ready-made standards instead of their own thinking to make value judgments, and rarely examine whether there is a problem with the standards themselves. Why can Lv Yan, who is like a village girl in Shan Ye in the eyes of China people, shine brilliantly on the international stage? In fact, society itself is consciously moving towards the road of pluralism and tolerance. Look at many things that we are happy to accept now, and how many people scoffed at them just a few decades ago. It is not difficult to be tolerant of others. Because people of different generations have experienced different social and cultural backgrounds in the process of socialization, there are inevitably differences in values, behaviors and aesthetic standards. No one should expect himself to change anyone, and no one has the right to let others change for him. Radish and vegetables have their own tastes, so don't talk about anything of taste and style. It is easy for us to go to two extremes for what we don't know. Either superstitious authority, as a god; Either blame it or give it up. Anyway, I'm afraid others will know that he doesn't understand. Tolerance to people, a lot of it is reflected in tolerance to weirdos in the secular sense. The so-called weirdo actually just violates certain standards. Again, the first thing we have to think about must be the standard itself, because it can't take into account all kinds of differences to the maximum extent, which makes it controversial. Moreover, many so-called weirdos, whether neurotic artists or unscrupulous Shiyang generation, actually have one thing that is very valuable, and that is their childlike innocence. They carefully and completely preserved the childlike innocence that most people lost in the process of growing up, and showed it in different forms. What kind of logic is it that we criticize their true colors with the hypocritical attitude of guardians and confuse the false with the true? Do you treat a child with all kinds of adult standards? We often lack a mentality of putting ourselves in the other's shoes and understanding each other. It is not easy for anyone to live in this world, and everyone has his own difficulties. Think more about each other, and many things will be calm. Being able to look at problems from a historical perspective is also a kind of tolerance. A super girl is just an entertainment program. Why do you want to put all kinds of immoral and toxic effects on her? From a historical point of view, what is it? Can two or three years of super girls change the track of China culture? The good things left by our ancestors for thousands of years can be subverted. I'm not trying to clear the name of super girl. I'm just giving such an example. Similar monism actually has a small critical vision, much like Mao's theory of class revolution. > & gt
Question 5: Are tolerance and tolerance the same definition? Tolerance is the noblest virtue in human life. Because tolerance contains people's mind, because tolerance can transcend everything, because tolerance needs a broad heart. Because tolerance is the most important part of human emotions, which can melt the frost in my heart. The lack of tolerance will make personality degenerate from greatness to even ordinary. Life needs tolerance. Everyone's life will be unhappy, and everyone will fail. When you encounter obstacles that you can't overcome with all your strength, please don't forget: tolerance is a vast sea, which contains everything and can resolve everything, and will take you and you with him. Tolerance is a silent education. Only tolerant people, their beliefs are more real. The hardest thing is to give without asking for anything in return, because it is based on love and tolerance: to be forgiven by others, you must forgive others first. Although we don't ask for anything in return, good quality will always show its value in the end, which is even more touching. It is better to help others than to blame them. If you criticize and blame others' mistakes blindly, it will only be more offensive and may arouse the rebellious mentality of making repeated mistakes. Tolerance means not caring too much about each other's shortcomings, thinking more about each other, putting yourself in each other's shoes and naturally understanding each other's feelings. (1) principle of equality. In interpersonal communication, there must always be a certain amount of effort or input, and the needs of both parties and the satisfaction of such needs must be equal. Equality is the premise of establishing interpersonal relationships. As a psychological communication between people, interpersonal communication is active, mutual and mutually beneficial. Everyone needs to be friendly and respected, and everyone wants to be treated equally by others. This kind of human need is the need of equality. (2) the principle of compatibility. Compatibility refers to psychological compatibility in interpersonal communication, that is, harmonious relationship between people, tolerance, tolerance and forbearance when getting along with others. To achieve psychological compatibility, we should pay attention to increasing the frequency of communication; Looking for * * * similarities; Modesty and tolerance. Be open-minded and tolerant when dealing with people. Be considerate of others, and be considerate of others when things go wrong. Even if others make mistakes or offend themselves, don't haggle over every ounce, so as not to hurt each other's feelings because of small losses. It is worthwhile to make some concessions as long as you are engaged in your career, unite as one. (3) the principle of mutual benefit. Establishing good interpersonal relationships is inseparable from mutual assistance and mutual benefit. It can be manifested in the interdependence of interpersonal relationships, and meet their respective needs through the exchange of material, energy, spirit and feelings. (4) the principle of credit. Credit means that a person is honest, does not cheat and keeps his promise, thus gaining the trust of others. People can't do without communication, and communication can't do without credit. Keep your promise, don't neglect your promise. When dealing with people, you should be warm and friendly, treat people sincerely, be neither humble nor pretentious, and fully show your self-confidence. Only a confident person can gain the trust of others. People who are decisive, independent, energetic and confident can easily inspire others' communication motivation. Win the trust of others and create the charm that people are willing to associate with you.
Question 6: The main content of being a tolerant person is that "people who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated". This is a famous saying of Russian writer Turgenev, telling us to learn tolerance and understanding. People will inevitably have friction and conflict with others in their lives, but we can't lose this valuable quality because of a little contradiction. Tolerance can make our life better. Understanding others, thinking from each other's perspective and forgiving others are actually treating yourself well.
Tolerance is not cowardice, but a powerful spiritual force. Learning to be tolerant will make you feel the meaning of life more; Learning to be tolerant will make you succeed step by step!
Question 7: What does it mean that a man's heart is as wide as the sky? In other words, the human heart should be as broad as the universe.
Question 8: Only people with strong hearts can accept all rivers ~ ~ What do you mean? Only a broad-minded person can embrace all rivers! This means that only a tolerant and broad mind can accommodate more things and things.