1. When serving rice or tea to others, if there are people in between, do not pass in front of others, but pass around behind them.
2. Your real ability is when you have the ability.
3. Do things in moderation, whether it’s overeating your favorite food or losing your temper.
4. Go to other people’s homes and don’t sit on their beds.
5. This world does not believe in tears...
6. After dinner at a friend’s house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clear the table - the host has already worked hard to cook, so you can’t ask the host to clean up afterward.
7. Learn to be gentle and listen.
8. When others release "poisonous gas", you cannot avoid it in disgust or fan yourself with your hands, pretending to be nonchalant.
9. Once disloyalty cannot be tolerated a hundred times.
10. Hospitality has to be big, but housekeeping has to be small.
11. The first sentence when you make a call or answer the call must be "Hello, hello"; when hanging up the phone, wait for others to hang up first.
12. When you encounter a door that can be opened from both inside and outside, pull rather than push.
13. When wiping the table, wipe it in your own direction.
14. Don’t be greedy for petty gains. Don’t be greedy for money. No matter how much money you have, it will eventually be spent.
15. Try not to make any noise when eating.
16. When someone criticizes you, even if he is wrong, don’t refute it first, wait until everyone calms down before explaining.
17. When clinking glasses with others at the wine table, your own glass must be lower than the other person’s, especially if the other person is an elder or leader.
18. You will meet all kinds of people in life, and you cannot be in tune with everyone, but one thing is true everywhere: how you treat others will be how others treat you.
19. Squat down when picking up things or putting on shoes, do not bend over and pout*.