As a woman, in India, both social status and kinship are at the bottom of society. The fate waiting for them is to find a good family to marry when 14 years old, reduce the family burden, and live around daily necessities. I still remember watching a micro-film about India-Gone with the Wind in Kolkata more than a year ago. The fate in it is that girls are forced to sell their bodies in order to obtain material resources for survival.
Just like in the movie, those two rebellious and clever girls secretly attended their best friend's wedding, and the best friend said with tears, "I also want to have a father like you, you."
Our father can despise everyone's ridicule and dare to be enemies with the whole world just to prevent you from living a life of daily necessities. "The two girls were silent and got up early the next day to start a day's training.
My father used to be a wrestling champion, but he quit the wrestling stage for family reasons, hiding his wrestling dream in his heart and pinning it on his future son. As if by providence, he gave birth to four daughters, but he didn't even have a son. I thought my dream would come to an end and never come true again, but he suddenly found that his daughter was very talented in wrestling and wanted to train her to fulfill her dream.
I think this is the real discrimination. Why do men wrestle and women don't, and they have to suffer so much criticism and ridicule in this world? Even the father pinned his hopes on his son and was full of reluctance to see his daughter born. Isn't it selfish to pin your dreams on the next generation?
We have been taught the law of barrel since childhood. How much water a barrel can hold depends on its shortest board. But is this really the case? How many people have been destroyed by this law. In fact, in life, isn't it the longest board that determines the maximum height we can reach? Those so-called hobbies are really used to deceive children. As they get older, they will find that many things may run counter to their hobbies. But what you are good at can really give yourself some comfort in a miserable life. That is the unique bright spot of each of us. With this bright spot, we can slowly light up our lives. Just like Gita and Barbita in the movie, running all the way finally found another life in the pursuit of wrestling.
The road of life has never been smooth sailing. It comes from the dogma, desire and temptation of life ... The guitar has gone astray, but fortunately, she never gave up. No matter how many roads you take, you will eventually return to the last road, because your original heart remains the same. How many times have we given up our specialty and missed another possibility that should have been there, and only regretted it after many years. If I had persisted in that year, I might not be like this today.
The film is based on real events and inspires humble girls in India. Please also live a good life, go all the way towards your own path, and don't give up all your efforts. Some of the original intentions are decades of long accumulation. I only hope that we can each have our own strengths and illuminate the darkness of our lives.