Quotation:

Respect others to be respected. ——Descartes

Whoever respects himself will be respected. ——Balzac

Man should respect himself and regard himself as worthy of the noblest things. ——Hegel

Disrespect for others is first of all disrespect for yourself. ——Whitman

Those who endure humiliation and earn a living will never be respected. ——Gao Naiyi

Those who respect others will always be respected. ——"Mencius"

People must respect themselves, and then others will respect them; people must insult themselves, and then others will insult them. ——Yang Xiong

If you don’t know how to love yourself, you will harm yourself. ——Zheng Shanfu

A gentleman values ??others but despises himself, putting others before himself. ——"Book of Rites"

Give to others, but do not make the other person feel like a recipient. Help people, but treat them with the highest respect. This is the art of helping others and the sentiment of charity. ——Liu Yong

It is not good to humble oneself but respect others, and it is also not good to respect oneself but humble others. ——Xu Teli

A person who knows his own dignity cannot respect the dignity of others at all. ——Schiller

A truly great person neither suppresses nor is suppressed by others. ——Kahlil Gibran

The vegetation depends on the rain and dew from the sky to grow, but they also dare to look up to the sky. ——Shakespeare

Respect others only in order to be respected. ——Descartes

Whoever respects himself will be respected. ——Balzac

Man should respect himself and regard himself as worthy of the noblest things. ——Hegel

Disrespect for others is first of all disrespect for yourself. ————Whitman

Whenever people disrespect us, we are deeply offended. However, deep down, no one respects themselves very much. ——Mark Twain

Those who respect others will always be respected. ——"Mencius"

People must respect themselves, and then others will respect them; people must insult themselves, and then others will insult them. ——Yang Xiong

If you don’t know how to love yourself, you are harming yourself. ——Zheng Shanfu

A benevolent person must respect others. ——"Xunzi"

A gentleman values ??others but despises himself, putting others before himself. ——"Book of Rites"

Dignity is something that cannot be spoiled in the human soul. ——Guzman

It is difficult to respect a person to the extent he wishes. ——Wolfgener

Material story:

There are different postures for respecting others.

Ji Xianlin, a generation master who can be called a "national treasure", never relies on his old age to show off his old skills. Every time a guest came to visit, he would sit down in front of his desk early and neatly dressed, with his head held high, his chin slightly tucked in, and he would sit upright and upright. In his opinion, sitting with your chest upright is a sign of respect for your guests. When the guests leave, he must send them out the door and say goodbye.

One day in 1995, Bai Yansong was doing "scholar interviews" for Ji Xianlin. At that time, Ji Xianlin was sitting. The moment Bai Yansong took out his business card and prepared to hand it to him, he stood up and bent down to wait, which moved everyone present. When the reporter finished the interview, he would stand at the door of his house and watch everyone go away politely. Many people once praised that a master is a master. How many people can do simple postures all the time?

The famous Franklin also has an anecdote. One day after get off work, he and a colleague walked down the stairs and came to the lobby exit. At this time, a woman walking in front suddenly fell on the smooth floor. When Franklin's colleague saw this, he immediately went to help, but Franklin grabbed him and hid behind a pillar together. The lady who fell had quickly gotten up, looking around, arranging her dress and hair, and walked to her car. Only then did Franklin pull his colleague out from behind the pillar.

This scene confused my colleagues. Why did a person who was usually compassionate towards others hide instead of helping others in time when they fell? Franklin said sternly: "Who wants to be seen in their embarrassment and embarrassment? We hid behind the pillar to make the lady sure that no one saw her embarrassing side. Otherwise, she will definitely meet us in the future. You will feel ashamed.”

Franklin’s pause and avoidance showed his great understanding and respect for other people’s psychology. Avoiding and not looking is also a form of respect. Especially when others are embarrassed and embarrassed, such as quarrels in the office or bickering between husband and wife. Another example is treating a person with physical disabilities. Not paying too much attention is also the best form of respect. People with physical disabilities are the most sensitive and fragile psychologically. They are most afraid of others looking at them strangely, otherwise they will feel inferior. Therefore, respecting their posture means "not looking".

Once, Chaplin, the outstanding American humor master, was about to perform on stage. An enthusiastic audience suddenly reminded him: "Master, you forgot to button your coat." Chaplin was startled. , quickly expressed his thanks and quickly tied the buttons. When the spectator walked away, he quietly unbuttoned the button. This scene happened to be seen by a reporter who came to interview and asked Chaplin: "Why are you doing this?" Chaplin replied: "I want to play a long-distance traveler, and loosening the buttons can better reflect his personality." The hard work will leave a vivid image on the audience.

But for others’ kind reminders, you should repay them with an attitude of gratitude and respect them! ”

For misunderstandings, we sometimes explain them promptly, and sometimes we dismiss them. Chaplin accepted them with a grateful heart. He lowered his posture, did not distinguish, did not fight back, and even thanked Isn't their concern a kind of respect?

There may be different ways and different postures to show respect to others, whether it is sitting upright or standing upright, avoiding looking or lowering oneself. It can reveal a shining personality.