When you realize the hidden energy in your personality, it will turn into white vitality and become your natural advantage.
When these hidden energies are not seen and recognized by people, they will become black vitality and become a quagmire that traps you.
However, in daily life, people who have a hard time with themselves abound:
On the one hand, some people are eager to wake up naturally, on the other hand, they blame themselves for being lazy.
Some people, on the one hand, are eager to communicate with the people around them, on the other hand, they are afraid of violating the boundaries of others;
On the one hand, some people are eager for new development opportunities, on the other hand, they are afraid to get out of their comfort zone;
On the one hand, some people long for a simple life, on the other hand, they dislike that they have no "talent".
In fact, in these qualities that we desperately want to suppress or deny, our natural strength is condensed.
However, we subconsciously want to deny our uniqueness, either because of our self-expectation or because of the evaluation of people around us.
This will not only make us miss our natural advantages, but also fall into a strange circle of self-denial and get worse and worse in self-consumption