1. Be self-reflective when dealing with others and behave in a different way in life.

——"Proverbs Lian Bi · Connecting Things"

2. Treat others with leniency, but not with children and grandchildren; be generous with etiquette, but do not need to be generous with marriage.

——"Night Talk around the Fireplace·No. 178"

3. Being kind to others is a blessing, and it is the foundation of benefiting others and benefiting yourself.

——"Cai Gen Tan·Introduction"

4. Be thrifty and self-disciplined, treat others with kindness and trust, use calmness to eliminate doubts, and use courtesy to eliminate misery.

——Liu Yuxi's "Collected Records of the Former Tang Dynasty Prime Minister's Gift to Sikong Linghu Gong"

5. The clear sky and white sun are used to deal with things, and the clear moonlight and wind are used to treat people.

—— Mr. Shanyin Jin's "Proverbs Lian Bi"

6. When treating yourself, you should seek to have faults from no faults, not only to achieve virtue alone, but also to avoid troubles. When dealing with others, you should try to make sure that you have no faults despite your faults. Not only will you be kind to others, but you will also resolve any grievances.

——Mr. Shanyin Jin's "Proverbs Lian Bi"

7. Retreating modestly is the first way to protect yourself; being peaceful is the first way to deal with things. Self-restraint is the first way to treat others; freedom and ease are the first way to nourish the heart.

—— Mr. Shanyin Jin's "Motto Lian Bi"

8. Be generous to others, be gentle and overcome the enemy, and be invincible to heroes.

——Luo Guanzhong's "Romance of the Three Kingdoms"

9. Treat others harmoniously, be lenient to others, and treat others with forgiveness, which is what a gentleman is.

——Lin Bu's "Records of Saving Hearts"

10. A gentleman in ancient times took responsibility for himself seriously and treated others lightly. If you focus on Zhou, you will not be lazy; if you focus on appointments lightly, people will be happy and do good.

——Han Yu's "Original Destruction"

11. Treat others with faith, but not with faith.

——Fu Xuan

12. Treating others with truthfulness not only benefits others, but also benefits yourself.

——Yang Jian

13. Treat others with tolerance and conduct yourself calmly.

——Li Shutong

14. Treat others with humility and accept things with humility.

——Lu Xun

15. Only when you treat others sincerely can others treat you sincerely.

——Lu Yao

16. Treat others with tolerance and treat yourself with an open-minded heart.

——Zhang Caixia

17. If you trust people, people will be loyal to you; treat people with the demeanor of a great man, and only people will show the demeanor of a great man.

——Emerson

18. It is more degrading to treat others unfairly than to be treated unfairly.

——Plato

19. Treat others fairly: do not harm others by misbehavior or dishonesty.

——Franklin

20. Do something good, be kind and generous to others; in short, use your humility to avoid bad luck!

——Balzac

21. If anyone wants to be helped in times of trouble, he should treat others with leniency.

——Sadie

22. Whether you are a man or a woman, you must be gentle and tolerant to others to be worthy of your name. A person's true bravery and decisiveness are by no means equivalent to using fists to stop others from speaking.

——Sadie

23. For a person with superior talents, knowing how to treat others equally is the greatest and most upright quality.

——Richard Steele

24. Treating others with courtesy means treating others the way you would like others to treat you.

——Chesterfield