How to refuse a class reunion? When I go to school, I stay with my classmates every day. When I leave, I will say: Let's get together often when you are free! Then we don't want to go to the reunion, perhaps because we don't want to listen to our classmates brag and compare, or because we don't want to deal with these human relations, so how can we refuse the reunion?

How to decline the reunion 1 It means that I really want to go, but I happened to be very busy that day.

When an old classmate invites you to a party, don't refuse in a hurry, but borrow the scene to lead to the refusal.

When you act like "really?" I can't wait to chat with each other and act like I really want to go, but when I know the specific date, you have to show extreme disappointment.

Tell me that you happened to be busy in those days, such as going on a business trip and accompanying your wife back to her parents' house, but you should pay attention to the fact that in order to prevent accidents, you have to say the time broadly.

Disappointed that you want to go but can't, the other party will not only be angry, but even comfort you in turn, indicating that class reunions often happen. It is natural not to be completely rejected by sinners.

It means to go later, and at the end, refuse.

Some relationships are better. When you refuse his repeated invitations again and again, and you are really embarrassed to refuse again, you can say yes for the time being, but make it clear that you can't go until you are busy with what you are doing, and it will be late.

The other person listens to you and is very busy, but will make time for his classmates. He won't blame you in his heart, and even feels a little like driving ducks to the shelves.

In this way, at the end of the class reunion, give him a call and say, "Since it's almost over, I won't go.". With foreshadowing, it is the perfect solution.

This method uses a drag-and-drop decision to stabilize the other party, and the sinner has no excuse to deserve you.

Promised someone else's invitation in advance

It is an excuse that everyone is unwilling to keep his word, so when you meet old classmates and invite them to get together again and again, take time to ask good classmates when to get together.

When you get the exact time, you should get ahead of the other party and say, "Except one day you don't have time to attend other people's parties, everyone else has free time. When is our party? " .

Pre-emptive strike, no deliberate excuse to shirk, dispel the other party's doubts, so as not to offend others, and you have promised others, you can easily take off this reunion.

However, you have to do enough acting. When he says that the date has just happened, you should properly show your regret to perfect your good reason. If you can't grasp the handle, you can't get angry.

In fact, the most precious and joyful memory of each of us is carefree and simple during school. It is reasonable to say that everyone can remember the party, but more and more classmates' parties have lost their original meaning and increased the color of philistinism.

So I don't want my memory to be covered by bad things. Many people began to refuse to attend class reunion, for one thing, it was meaningless, and for another, it was a waste of time.

But if you don't want to go, you can make a decision with just one thought. How to refuse has become a difficult and simple problem, because you accidentally offended a group of students who are keen on parties.

Although it won't live in everyone's mouth, the circle of contacts is still more important, so it is much better to find a perfect excuse than to refuse directly.

And these three reasons for not offending people can be used to reply to repeated invitations from old classmates, so that you can refuse perfectly.

How to refuse a class reunion 2 1, and welcome the law if you want to refuse.

That is, you first show that you really want to go and ask the other party when to arrange it. You are disappointed when the other party tells you the specific time. It's a pity that the time conflicts that day. This is the desire to refuse and welcome, at least from the attitude you really want to go.

For example, the other party said, "Let's get together again this summer."

"You, always looking forward to such a day, settled down? Where is it? "

"The time is fixed, July 10."

After the other person tells the time, you can find a reason beyond your control to refuse, such as going back to your parents' house or going on a business trip. In that case, people won't say anything about you.

2. Preemption method

That is, you know when and where to decide in advance, and you just don't want to go. You just walk up to me and say, "Great. I am good at any time except when I can't. "

After you say that, the other party just decided at that time, and then you gave an objective reason. It's called preemptive strike. It is best not to specify the time period to a certain day, but to a certain time period, so that the other party will feel more real.

3, bedding delay method

Plan in advance that something is really going on that day, but you can squeeze time, go or go, and try to get to the scene as early as possible. This is because you have that heart. If you put your attitude and this heart in place, people will not say anything about you. For example, the party is almost over, and a message asks you:

"It's almost over. Is the work finished? "

"Our boss is really annoying tonight. He gave me another batch of jobs, which is estimated to be ten o'clock. If you haven't finished, I'll take a taxi. If you have finished, don't wait for me. Let's get together later. "

In fact, you don't want to go, so you just show your attitude first and go if you can, but you really can't catch up. Let's make an appointment later. That's right, beautiful.

So in the future, you will have such a party that you don't want to go to. Using the above three methods can not only save everyone's face, but also make themselves live comfortably.

How to decline the reunion 3 1 Refuse face-to-face invitations.

When you are invited, you may not be able to attend. The role of vaccination.

When you are invited, you don't have to say no at once. Just pause for a second or two to see your schedule or need to make sure that you have something to do that day. You may not be able to attend. This kind of awareness means a tactful refusal, which can play a preventive role and give others a hint.

After the invitation, but there is still some distance from the date, I called to apologize.

If you don't refuse immediately or express your refusal at the invitation, don't wait until the day of the party or the day before the party to say that you can't go. It must have been a while. Apologize in person or by phone in advance, express that you can't go, and let everyone have a good time.

Second, refuse the network invitation.

If you really don't want to participate, then don't reply, just ignore it.

At present, many invitations are to directly establish WeChat group, qq group or qq discussion group. In this case, if you really don't want to participate, you don't need to reply, so just ignore it.

If the person who sent the invitation has a good relationship, simply reply by text message and don't attend.

If the person who sent the invitation has a good relationship with himself, and you are not targeting this person, but this matter, then simply reply to the reasons for not attending. Is it good to have a good relationship with you or not?

Three. Reasons for refusal

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Work or study?

Modern people's heavy work pressure, study and training time also take up most of it, so it is easy to say that work or study is used to push off the party. After all, no one is easy to work, and it takes motivation and pressure to survive.

Physical reasons

Speaking of physical reasons, don't curse yourself for being sick just to refuse the invitation, just say that you are not suitable for going out for dinner or attending such a party at present. Everyone knows how to politely refuse.

Family reasons

Family reasons are also used by many people as reasons for refusal, such as traveling with Babama, taking photos with my wife and husband, and going to extracurricular interest classes with my children. Too many, choose according to your own situation.

There are other invitations.

Then there is another invitation to return the invitation. You don't need to explain too much to others. You know everything. Just make one or two simple sentences.

Don't want to touch feelings

Finally, in fact, I don't want everyone to use it. Although you know it psychologically, it's not the same thing to know it in your mouth, so don't say you don't want to get in touch with everyone until the relationship is too bad.