This is indeed a wise saying. There are few enmities between father and son that can't be solved until death. One of the biggest compromises is the compromise of parents. When elderly parents are no longer obsessed with the right or wrong of their children, returning to the simplest family warmth has become the choice of most people.

Most parents seek to compromise with their children.

Although it looks sad, it is actually another kind of rebirth. The relationship between parents and children is not static.

When I was a child, my parents put a lot of expectations on their children and paid a lot of energy. At this time, of course, I hope that children can achieve their goals quickly.

It is easy to ignore the child's personal wishes. This is often the biggest contradiction between middle-aged parents and children. Children often have their own will, but parents usually bind their children's high flying and will for their own property or excessive love. Usually it is especially obvious in voluntary work and children's marriage.

And often some children will confront their parents and have a cold war. This is actually a process in which children seek self-breakthrough and self-development. What parents often can't stand is change and being challenged. Intergenerational conflict, value orientation, future road, and even small things in life have all become the fuse of contradictions.

My mother has a strong personality. Anything she doesn't want to hear is very exclusive. As a result, we didn't want to tell her what we really meant. Mother and daughter are very distant. For fear of hurting each other, the Chinese New Year holiday is just a courtesy visit.

Because we can't convince him, or we can't understand each other, we try our best to make the distance beautiful and produce hazy smoke.

Actually, this is not a normal family relationship.

This kind of strong confrontation, which started from the elders, usually ends in their self-compromise, which is normal.

In the time of getting old, my mother suddenly realized that the high demands on us didn't go deep into our hearts at all, but let her fall into endless loneliness.

She took the initiative to seek reconciliation. She expressed her shortcomings in the process of getting along in various ways. Then family relations eased.

In fact, there must be an irreparable crack formed by injury in the middle. But as long as we can get together, feel the affection and try to avoid the memories of the past, everyone will be reconciled to a considerable extent.

Although time is on the side of children. But it's better to win than to fight, because we can be masters and parents alike. How can we not have fierce contradictions and let life go on harmoniously? Challenge everyone, actually.

Sincere answer, thanks for reading.