As the saying goes, "A man is justified, and a horse is reined". This means that no matter how arrogant a person is, he should be reasonable. Only by being reasonable can people be truly convinced. As for The meaning of the horse's reins is that no matter how violent a horse's temper is, as long as it is restrained by the reins, it can only behave honestly. The general meaning is that no matter how big your background is, no matter how good you are No matter how arrogant, the truth must be spoken. No matter how powerful a person is, there are always people outside the world, and there is always a sky outside the world.

The ancients had this saying: "If you don't explain something clearly, you won't understand it clearly." ?The meaning of this sentence is also very simple, but it illustrates a truth, that is, no matter what the words or questions are, you should make it clear. As long as the reason is clear and well-founded, even if you are an arrogant person, I don’t dare to hurt you easily. There will be many unreasonable people in every period and in every place, but if you treat them in an unreasonable way, it will only make your relationship worse. Things are getting worse. Only by being reasonable can we deal with these unreasonable people. Only in this way can we truly convince them.

In fact, good horses since ancient times were usually unruly horses at first. They have their own personalities. Although being unruly is their shortcoming, as long as this shortcoming of them is corrected, they can also become horses. Once they are tamed, the unruly horse will become a good horse that can travel a thousand miles. There are not a few unruly horses. Although they have strong personalities, they are also afraid of being restrained by the reins. Once restrained by the reins, they will not be able to run wildly. It can be seen that even though it was so unruly in the past, it still has something to be afraid of, that is, everything must be done in moderation.

There are many arrogant people, but even if they are quite arrogant, they still have to reason, just like an unruly horse, it is always afraid of the master's reins.