The country that has come all the way from the ancient farming times has always attached importance to the family relationship, and love is habitually placed in the framework of the extended family.

"Meeting parents" is often a sign of the formalization and openness of gender relations, and getting the approval of both parents is an important milestone in the further development of feelings.

Young people are often advised empirically that feelings that are not blessed by their parents will not have good results.

So, men and women who are in love, perhaps just having an affair without big waves, or having gone through the cold and summer, will pay attention to when to meet their parents.

The spring breeze of reform has already blown away the marriage form of "matchmaker's words and parents' orders".

There is neither a rigid time rule nor a certain life-long content about meeting your parents.

to what extent, you can consider meeting your parents, and listen to people who have experienced it.

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You will spend the rest of your life meeting your parents naturally.

There is a well-known saying, "Love without the purpose of marriage is hooliganism", which is still sought after by ordinary men and women even in the era of open love concept.

Marriage-oriented love will not be a matter for one person, but one person's contribution is not enough.

under the national conditions of attaching importance to the family hub, marriage is also a combination, a combination of two families.

No matter how sweet and perfect love is, at a certain time, there will inevitably be conflicts, accusations and confusion between the two.

If the two people set out towards the vision of * * * building a small family, are willing to tolerate shortcomings and explore advantages, when the feelings are strong enough to swear to each other that "the rest of your life will be you", it is time to meet their parents naturally.

The affirmation of both parents will add icing on the cake to this relationship.

Xiaoqing and Xiaolei are typical campus romances. They are classmates in high school, and they come together in the university campus.

After graduating from college and having a stable job, Xiaoqing, as a woman, has already started to meet her parents.

However, Xiao Lei politely refused again and again, which made Xiaoqing feel suspicious. Isn't it "destined for this life"?

One year later, when Xiaolei actively made an appointment for a good day and nervously visited his parents-in-law, he realized that he had just graduated, started his job, had no achievements, and was very uneasy to meet his parents.

"The rest of my life is you", and I am actually eager to be affirmed and accepted by the other parents. However, some external conditions are bound, and in order to "see my parents", it has become a great motivation in life.

2

Emotionally stable, I want to know about your family of origin.

when two people's gas fields are compatible and their emotional relationship tends to be stable, it does not completely mean that their emotional life will be smooth sailing in the future, even if they are happy.

when the relationship is only between two people, it is likely that hormones are playing a leading role, and it is easier to be better without involving daily necessities.

Therefore, when the relationship is stable, it is a good time to "meet your parents".

As the saying goes, family of origin's situation can often predict the future of their world.

For example, when people come together because of the factors in their hearts, both sides often have all their own advantages during the love period, even blindfolded and automatically filtered out each other's shortcomings.

"Meeting your parents" can bring you back to your senses and see how the other parents get along with each other: the distribution of the family, the dining atmosphere at the table, and the attitude towards work and interpersonal relationships? Eighty-nine closely indicates your other half's "true face" in the future.

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Emotional and economic independence and maturity, see or not, feelings are here.

The concept of marriage in p>Papi sauce once ignited a hot discussion on the Internet. When I went home for the New Year, I kept looking for different mothers. After five years of marriage, my parents never met each other.

He Jiong gave an evaluation of the relationship between the two sides. The independent and dependent * * * body has an independent living space, but that kind of intimate connection is constantly being pulled.

Does "meet your parents" have a choice of time and opportunity for both parties who hold such an idea? No, because it is not in an important position.

Behind this position is emotional and economic independence and maturity.

Raising children is a process in which children and their parents drift away from each other, and the key point here is spirit.

It is undoubtedly an increasingly accepted concept of parenting to push children to independently assume the responsibilities of the family and society, instead of making choices by "meeting their parents".

Therefore, seeing or not seeing is a ceremony, and it can't be a choice, or even a word.

Thoreau pointed out shortly after the beginning of Walden that the truth that everyone believes or acquiesces in today may be proved to be a fallacy tomorrow. Try what the elders think you can't do, and you will find that you can do it.

"Meeting your parents" is no longer the consideration and choice of witnessing the results in the past. Let's keep it. Please let this ceremony be an emotional boost and overweight. The experience of the elderly can't determine your future. A new society needs your own attempt.