As long as you see through some things and understand them in your heart, stop there

What is the best way to get along with others? It is a topic that people explore throughout their lives.

Since childhood, our parents and teachers have taught us to respect our elders and be polite when we are with others. So I grew up following their words and deeds.

As I grow up, I gradually realize that it is sometimes difficult for people to get along with each other. Everyone has a different personality and a different way of speaking. You will feel that if you have to cater to everyone, it will be too tiring.

My parents and teachers are right. When getting along with others, it is more about mutual respect. You respect me a foot, I respect you a foot. This is probably the life principle of most people.

As the saying goes: "Don't talk about it when you see it through", it means that since you have seen through something, just understand it yourself and don't say anything more.

As the saying goes: "People's hearts are separated from each other." You can't know what others think, and you don't have to know. Too many words lead to mistakes, and disaster comes from the mouth. This is a famous saying that has been passed down from ancient times to the present.

There are deep and shallow feelings between people. Something often starts with talking. Now that you've seen it clearly, there's no need to say it all out, and don't do anything embarrassing or offending. Everyone is an adult and can understand.

Don’t do thankless things as much as you can, and try to do quick things so that others can’t get off the stage and you will be embarrassed yourself.

Seeing through without telling the truth, seeing through without exposing, and maintaining silence appropriately are the rare wisdom of a person. It not only respects others, but also respects oneself, and at the same time cultivates one's own realm.

Chen Zhongshi said: "There are many things in the world, although we can see them clearly, we cannot say them out. Some things must be said after we see them clearly; some things cannot be said until death. Can't say. A real man is one who can grasp what must be said and what cannot be said.

This sentence is also suitable for women. Don't tell when you are a person, and leave three points of leeway in what you say and do.

It is rare to be confused and too smart to make real friends. Just as "when the water is clear, there are no fish, and when the people are careful, there are no disciples."

It's better to see through some things and understand them in your heart, and stop there. Sometimes, being confused is not a bad thing, and it is good for yourself and others. When getting along with others, it is better to have more things than less things. There is no need to add unnecessary details to avoid unnecessary unpleasantness. .

No matter where you go, you have to deal with so many people in your daily life, and there are always some people you can’t stand.

Look. If you are not used to it, it means that you are not the same person. It is enough to have a superficial relationship and get along with it. There is no need to pay too much attention to it. Just keep quiet and do what you should do. The other things are not important. < /p>

Some things reveal the powerful relationship and complexity. Once exposed, all the previous friendships will be wiped out.

Everyone has his own identity. Space for people to interact with each other should leave some room for themselves and others.

Not everyone likes to watch the same movie, and not all fish live in the same ocean.

You must know that not everyone agrees with your point of view or agrees with you on some things. Since they have different opinions and directions, please also follow your own point of view. Listen to what others have to say.

Although you have different opinions, respecting others is the most basic morality. Respecting others actually respects yourself.

You have different opinions. Naturally, the three views are different, and people's mentality will be different because everyone's starting point is different.

So don't deal with people who have different opinions calmly and rationally. Well, don’t ask to understand others, but try to be friendly. To be able to deal with things, be open-minded and tolerant.

It’s better to be aware of some things. , instead of pointing out other people's embarrassment in person, it is better to say it politely and implicitly, so as to fulfill the dignity of others and not lose your own face.