When we are troubled by negative emotions, it is followed by day-to-day depression, day-to-day depression, thinking about when this life will end and when a loyal wife will truly be enlightened.
Osamu Dazai said in Disqualification on Earth that every time he reads it, he will feel particularly cured. He said:
"Now, I'm not happy, not unfortunate, everything will pass. In the so-called world, the only thing I want to regard as truth is this sentence, and everything will pass. "
If you have read Osamu Dazai's Disqualification on Earth and the tragic experience of the protagonist Ye Cang, you can't think of any reason to complain about life.
When you feel that life is hard, think about the sentence "Everything will pass". Everyone will experience all kinds of pains and setbacks, but some people choose not to say it and bear it silently.
When you understand this sentence thoroughly, you will be relieved. There are not so many obstacles in life. Sometimes, we just lose to our own obsession.
Sometimes, we have the illusion that we are constantly working hard, but we find ourselves getting farther and farther away from the happiness we want. We envy other people's lives in our eyes, but we never care about our own.
In fact, your happiness is in the eyes of others, but you don't realize it yourself.
Happiness is usually your own subjective feeling. The happiness you see in others doesn't belong to you, and it doesn't mean anything to your life. People know themselves better than anyone else, so there is no need to deceive themselves.
Do you work harder than those who look happy? If so, please cheer up. It's not that you are not qualified to be happy, but that you have never felt happiness on your own initiative.
Someone always wants to be happy, so can you. All men are created equal, and at the same time, God has given everyone the right to pursue happiness. Most people will regard happiness as an ornament that can be viewed from a distance, so that they can see happiness in others.
As Mark Twain once said, "Happiness is like a sunset-everyone can see it, but most people look in other directions, so they miss the opportunity."
Are you the same? You can bathe in the golden sunset like others, but envy the sunset in others' eyes. In fact, we saw the same sunset.
So is happiness. What we can experience is the same kind of happiness, and each of us has the right to get it. However, most people don't care about their own happiness, but expect the happiness of others.
In fact, other people are the same, perhaps their life is more difficult, but they can always see the bright side and enjoy the fun brought by life, because there are twists and turns, they are more fulfilling and more cherished from the heart.
If you haven't found happiness, it's not too late. Pay more attention to life. Maybe your happiness can be seen everywhere, but you have never seen it. Some people will be happy, so can we.
Once people feel comfortable, they will feel that life is unchanging. They get up in the morning, go to work at night, even take the same bus, do the same things every day and live like machines.
If you think your life is like a stagnant pool, don't change your life in a hurry, but try to change yourself.
Many people do the same thing every day, mostly because they are used to this mode of life and work-that is, comfort, because as long as they stick to this mode, they will feel relaxed and hold the thinking of "that's good", so if they want to change themselves, they must first jump out of this comfort zone.
Get rid of your bad habit of self-discipline, and then give yourself a goal, long-term, short-term, like a milestone in life; Try to arrange your favorite life, because you will be more motivated to do it because of your interest; Don't let your actions and thoughts stop, a person must still be on the road;
Don't limit your ability too low. If you are destined to be ordinary, please try to live the kind of ordinary you want most. Finally, look in the mirror and see if your decadence is all over your face.
Life has no right to make you like this, only you can. The hard part is that many people can't bear hardships, but it's not difficult to change themselves.
How many times have you heard this sentence: "Everything will be fine", not only from others, but also from your own heart. When you can't hold on, you will always hear a voice telling you that all this will pass and a beautiful day is coming.
However, many people make this sentence just a sentence, so everything is not much better.
Self-consolation when suffering comes often becomes a shield for laziness and lack of progress. It depends on human efforts. If you can tell yourself countless times that life will get better, life will crush you countless times. But once you can regain your confidence after comforting yourself, you can't despair.
So it is much better to take this sentence as a hint than to take this sentence as a comfort.
Suggest that it's time to stop complaining about life. Unhappy is not your style. Let life get back on track and be the master of life again.
It's only a matter of time if you can start on time and reach your destination after healing. If you just comfort one after another, you are destined to turn around.
So, everything will be fine, please let yourself believe in life.
When you hear this sentence, don't let yourself relax, pack your bags, and set off when the sky has just cleared up and the road has become clear.
Because the weather can't always be so good and the roads can't always be smooth sailing, but pedestrians on the road can wade through mountains and rivers, rain or shine, because their hearts are always on the road.
Am I really unlucky now? In this world, I have experienced countless sufferings, and the sufferings waiting for me are also on the way. Now I'm still living a comfortable life and complaining about something.
In retrospect, just because I was too tired, I complained occasionally. What about the suffering in this world? Instead of complaining about mistakes in life, try to change yourself.
We are not happy people in the eyes of others, but live in negative emotions, blindly envy others and deny ourselves.
Everything will pass, everything will be fine, don't worry, be kind to yourself and move on.
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Today's topic:
When depressed, which sentence is usually cured? How is it usually solved?
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