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After reading the book "Fortress Besieged", I was deeply moved. "Fortress Besieged" tells the story of what happened between the protagonist Fang Hongjian and Su Wenwan and Tang Xiaofu after returning from abroad, as well as his journey to Sanlu University, his experience as an associate professor at Sanlu University, and his subsequent marriage to Sun Roujia. Some people say that "The Besieged City" is about marriage being like a besieged city. "Marriage is like a golden birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so the knot is separated, and the knot is gone."
Others commented that people who are surrounded by the city want to escape, and those who stand outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, most of the desires in life are like this. , but it also satirizes all kinds of bad social trends and hides a knife behind the smile.
The book "Besieged City" mainly describes the character image. The female lead, Su Wenwan, was once described like this: "Fang Hongjian accompanied her." Ms. Su spent two days in Hong Kong before she realized that girlfriends and lovers are actually completely different. Miss Su is the most ideal girlfriend. She has brains, status, and an attitude and appearance that can be considered a lady. She can go to restaurants and theaters with her without losing face. Although the two of them were very close, Fang Hongjian was confident that his friendship with her would end here. It was like two parallel straight lines. No matter how close they were to each other or how long they were stretched, they would never become one." Su Wenwan was beautiful, but She is not cute, and I think women are beautiful because of their cuteness, not because of their beauty. And Fang Hongjian, he is not bad, he is even kind, cute and honest, but he is pedantic, weak and cynical. The character reflects the appearance of some intellectuals at that time... There are many more vivid images in the book. I hope everyone will read "The Besieged City"
The above is my feeling after reading "The Besieged City". Reading experience of "Fortress Besieged" 2
Last week, I finished reading "Fortress Besieged" which Teacher Wang had strongly recommended a long time ago. I have to say that this is indeed an excellent, profound and indispensable book.
Before reading "Fortress Besieged", apart from knowing the name and author of this classic, I didn't even know the main content. I picked it up in front of the bookcase. Every time I read a few pages and closed the book, a sense of concern would arise in my heart, and I would have unlimited fantasies about the content of the next paragraph. I read the entire book with unchanging enthusiasm. Novel. I was very surprised to find that the "siege city" in the novel actually refers to marriage. "People outside the city want to get in, but people in the city want to get out." In today's popular saying, "marriage is the tomb of love." Times, I really didn’t expect that as early as the middle of the last century, a great writer who stood on the commanding heights of the times put forward this point of view in an elegant and humorous way, instead of being as vulgar as it is today. The rich experience and profound insights are enough to create a work that is awe-inspiring and handed down from generation to generation.
The plot of the whole story is unexpected and reasonable, and everything that happens to the protagonist Fang Hongjian. ——Graduation, courtship, falling out of love, teaching, getting married... are undoubtedly not all in and out of the "sieged city". The purpose of all this is just to show that getting married is like being trapped in a besieged city. But I think, Fang Hongjian. After all, he is not marrying the one he likes, so the unsatisfactory marriage seems understandable. And if Mr. Qian Zhongshu allows him to get married to his sweetheart Tang Xiaofu and then quarrel and fall out after marriage, then "it would be okay if he marries the person he likes." Well, after getting married, will the "siege" of "finding that you never marry the person you like" become more unbreakable? However, maybe the author prefers Tang Xiaofu and does not want her to marry Fang Hongjian. Despite this. In fact, " "Fortress Besieged" is still as good as ever. Reading experience of "Fortress Besieged" 3
"Fortress Besieged" is one of Mr. Qian Zhongshu's masterpieces, and it is also his most influential work. People are helpless about marriage.
Qian Zhongshu created vivid characters such as Fang Hongjian, Zhao Xinmei, Su Wenwan, Sun Roujia, and Li Meiting. What impressed me most was the protagonist of the story. For Fang Hongjian, my deeper feeling should be said to be sympathy. Qian Zhongshu's description of Fang Hongjian is superb, but in the end he chose a tragic fate. Fang Hongjian was born in a middle-class family, and his strong curiosity prompted him to enter the besieged society. In the city, he felt the dissatisfaction of society, but when he wanted to go out, he found that the city gate was closed. With a helpless mood, he dived into the circles of marriage, career and family.
In the siege of marriage, he fell in love with the knowledgeable Su Wenwan, but the other party's indifference destined this to be a failed unrequited love. The scheming Sun Roujia used his sympathy to achieve his unhappy marriage. In the siege of his career, Fang Hongjian was also unsatisfied. He barely graduated from university after changing departments twice. With the support of his father-in-law, he embarked on the road of studying abroad, but he missed out on a doctoral diploma because he was not interested in studying.
In order to deal with my father-in-law and his family, I had to buy a fake document to pay for business. Forced by life, after returning to China, Fang Hongjian, Zhao Xinmei and others embarked on the road to apply for jobs at Sanlu University. Although the school is located in a remote place, it is by no means a pure land. Fang Hongjian, who was aloof and did nothing, was finally defeated in the intrigue among more than a dozen intellectuals.
As the old saying goes, society is a besieged city. People in the city want to get out, and people outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, the whole life seems to be in a besieged city. People can never escape the constraints and hardships given by this besieged city, so why should we let our mentality be in a besieged city? Reading experience of "Fortress Besieged" 4
"Fortress Besieged" is a book worth reading. One sentence that impressed me deeply was that people outside the city wanted to rush in, and people in the city wanted to escape.
Life during the holidays is like a pool of stagnant water. Although there are occasional ripples, it never makes any big waves. Firecrackers are destined to have magical effects in the hands of children, just like a suit is destined to look good with leather shoes. At this moment, outside the door of the house, there is a group of children who are addicted to the magic of firecrackers. I try hard to flatten myself but I can't squeeze into their circle. Maybe, at this moment, I am the person outside the city, and they are the ones outside the city. The people in that city. The difference is, I want to rush in, but they don't want to escape.
Everyone should have a must-have book, not a Chinese book or a math book, but an e-book. Boys' e-books are more about martial arts and fantasy, while girls' e-books are more about campus romance. Unfortunately, my e-book contains "Fortress Besieged".
The most impressive thing in "Fortress Besieged" is the appropriate metaphors. These metaphors are like joking with good friends. They can't go too far and can create a harmonious atmosphere.
Does everyone have a city in their heart?
Su Wenwan let Fang Hongjian into her city, but locked Zhao Xinmei outside the city, who was pursuing him, but finally locked himself in Cao Yuanlang's city. Fang Hongjian was unable to enter Tang Xiaofu's city because of Su Wenwan, just like Yuxiang from which Dai Wangshu could never escape.
Whether it is the siege of love, the siege of career, or the siege of marriage, Fang Hongjian’s arduous pursuit is like a stupid donkey, thinking that every step forward will bite him in the eye. The carrot on the lips before. Life is like this, moving from one siege to another, from one hope to another.
I don’t know what the city in my heart is, maybe it’s a person, or maybe it’s an unfulfilled wish.
When I was a child, I hoped that I could fly a kite under the blue sky like an older child, then cut the string in my hand and let it fly freely. When I became an older child, I found that what I yearned for was the past, the childhood that I didn't know how to cherish before. Even if I broke some expensive ceramics, I wouldn't be scolded.
Perhaps, age is also a siege in my life.
My best friend in middle school has now fallen into the siege of love. Later I realized that being young means constantly making mistakes and then constantly correcting them. In the end, I no longer care about right and wrong, because right and wrong have no definition at all, just like one plus one always equals two, and she and I But it is no longer us.
I don’t envy them, because there is a ray of sunshine in every city. As long as you walk towards the place with light, you will not be alone.
Everyone really has a city in his heart, maybe it is spacious, maybe it is euphemistic. Getting out of the siege is the way to save ourselves when we are under pressure and constraints. However, ordinary life forces us to make choices in different sieges. 5 Thoughts on Reading "The Besieged City"
Before reading "The Besieged City", I heard that it was very famous and wanted to read it. When I read "The Besieged City", I read it very slowly because of its profound philosophy, and I couldn't wait to read it. Throw it away. After finally reading it, I knew I needed to find an expert.
Looking through the materials on Kaihuang, the experts’ important opinions are similar: “Fortress Besieged” was written by Qian Zhong in the mid-1940s, and he wrote about “a certain part of society in modern China and a certain type of characters.” Write about their “basic roots.” "A certain part of society" is actually the absurd, confused and pathological society of old China, and "a certain type of people" are the intellectuals in the pathological society. They are lonely, confused, humble, hidden, and brooding in seclusion.
"The Besieged City" writes about a sick society and sick people. Why are so many people reading "The Besieged City" and the number is increasing with each passing day?
Regarding the sick people in the sick society, Lu Xun "sorrows their misfortune and is angry with them." What about Qian Zhongshu? "Fortress Besieged" is rich in philosophy, very humane and humanistic, and should have Qian Zhongshu's deep expectations.
Can it be compared like this? Just think – fall is coming and winter is approaching. Rivers dry up or even stop flowing, and the rivers are reduced to crocodile ponds. Crocodiles used to have no worries about food and drink, but now they are always struggling to make ends meet. The "certain part of society" in "The Besieged City" is very similar to the desolate Crocodile Pond; the "certain type of people" written about in "The Besieged City" is very similar to the crocodiles in the Crocodile Pond. Which crocodile can escape the disaster?
Senior reporters, including CCTV reporters, are eager to interview Qian Zhongshu, and the Qian couple live in seclusion.
The uncrowned king sat on the bench and was rejected. Is Qian Lao's philosophical "Bei Cheng" elusive and out of reach?
Who knows how to break through Zen? "Fortress Besieged" is full of battles; Qian advocates reclusiveness, and his philosophy is of great benefit to people.
Fighting against each other stems from "basic nature", which is sad but also desirable. In the collapsed mines, miners prayed in the darkness, a silence that hastened death. An experienced old miner slapped himself, but blamed someone for slapping him. This started a fight. As a result, the miners got rid of the dead silence and maintained strong fighting spirit. and was eventually rescued. "A certain part of society" is horribly dead, and "a certain type of people" are fighting endlessly. It's sad, but it's an escape from the dead silence.
Unknown to Zhao Xinmei, he was jealous of Fang Hongjian and deliberately made Fang Hongjian drunk to make him look embarrassed. He even tried hard to get Fang Hongjian to go to Sange University. He treated Fang Hongjian arrogantly and rudely, trying to overwhelm and scare Fang Hongjian with his power. Fang Hongjian didn't want Zhao Xinmei, so he didn't invite him when he invited people to dinner. What's the big deal?
"Although Zhao Xinmei is jealous of Fang Hongjian, he doesn't have any life-or-death hatred for him." They also became good friends. As the saying goes, there is no acquaintance without fighting. Fang Hongjian sympathized with Zhao Xinmei and developed a good impression of him. The relationship between the two became closer and closer.
There is still fighting in the crocodile pond, but one of them has escaped from the fight. With scars and survival lessons, he lives in seclusion and looks forward to the peace of tomorrow. Biologists have proven that those who survive in Crocodile Pond are not necessarily the most ferocious ones. But it must be a reclusive one. The reclusive alligator has lived in China for 200 million years.
Beethoven, who had both ears, commanded his orchestra with his vision and played his "Symphony of Destiny". Critics praised that Beethoven pinned his hopes for his entire life on A roaring symphony.
The crocodiles written by Qian have placed deep expectations on them, which are philosophical concepts. Fighting goes from being opposite to complementing each other; forbearance is about retreating and giving up, and the fruits will last forever. The Chinese-style alligator has been told for 200 million years... Reading experience of "The Besieged City" 6
Some time ago, I read Qian Zhongshu's "The Besieged City". Here I will talk about my own reading of this book. The feeling of the book.
"Fortress Besieged" is indeed a good book. I will have different feelings every time I read it. A good book can indeed allow me to find a piece of leisure time in my busy study life and let myself Relieve fatigue and release people mentally.
The book is indeed a good book, but I can’t tell what is good about it when I read it for the first time. People who are not married may read "Fortress Besieged" just to understand the world in the besieged city. People who are married may read it. The siege may be to find a kind of relief and spiritual comfort, but I think the siege has no purpose.
After watching it again, I felt that the inside of the besieged city was as exciting as the outside. The chaos and romance of the school era, the persistence and madness in pursuing love, the scheming and pretense at work, those The mundanity and triviality of marriage...all of this makes "Fortress Besieged" rich. Fang Hongjian's distinctive image has the rotten smell of a feudal literati in his bones, but his face is of the new Western style. He has no plan in life and just drifts with the tide.
Later, when I read "Fortress Besieged", I found that Fang Hongjian was not as he had first met. Fang Hongjian had the shyness of a southerner, was born in a family that was no less than middle class, and received a good education. Although He bought his diploma. He's not stupid, he's just too lazy to learn a serious lesson and come back. The incident of buying a fake diploma in the book is enough to illustrate his intelligence, but it's a pity that intelligence is not the point. He doesn't know how to be sophisticated, tactful and accommodating. What's even more frightening is that he is very simple. The word "simple" is used to describe women, and girls can use the word "pure" or "angel" to describe things. If a man is said to be simple, he can only use the word "无" to describe it. Didn't his good friend Zhao Xinmei also say that he was useless? But there is one thing: Fang Hongjian has no scheming at all.
Taking "The Besieged City" as the title of the book, the author wants to tell us that not only marriage is like a besieged city, life, study, work, etc. are more like a besieged city. We are always going in circles, doing the same thing over and over again: finding someone We got into the cage, and soon we found that the scenery on the other side was more beautiful, so we entered another cage, but in the end we couldn't escape the fate of living in a cage. "Fortress Besieged" also tells us what real life is. Everyone starts chasing their dreams from the day they become sensible, but how many people actually realize it? As the saying goes, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten. Fang Hongjian also encountered the same problem in the book. He chose to give up. From this, we can also see his uselessness. He is a person who does not want to be diplomatic. He guards the pure land of his heart and is simple. and lonely at the same time.
At first they left Shanghai with high hopes, preparing to show off their talents at Sanlv University, but the result was not satisfactory. It turned out that everything was a disguise. The teachers in the university were all in conflict with each other and their work was not happy. There are open and covert fights everywhere. Seeing this, I can't help but think of the current society. Society is an invisible city, a city that we cannot choose to escape or face. In society, white can never be white and black can be black. , some are just white mixed with black, and the black seems to have a little bit of white inside. Each of us exists independently. We are helpless and lonely.
Life itself is a big siege. People can never escape the pressure and constraints of life. They will always have to live under the four walls of life for the rest of their lives. No one can escape this fate, but It depends on whether you live a wonderful life under this siege. If you always think about breaking out of the siege, you will always be alone in the empty city and lose the value of life.
There are thousands of people in the world. Due to their personality, Fang Hongjian is a good person, a simple person, and a person like me. Therefore, I will love this book and I will not speculate on others. thoughts and thoughts, and will not think about the hidden meaning of each sentence. In the relatively simple environment of school, we must maintain a clean and positive heart to create this besieged city, because as long as we live, we will always be in a besieged city. When everything and everyone becomes beautiful because of hard work and optimism, and when the colors in the city become softer, then this besieged city will no longer be a terrible bondage and pressure, but a happy paradise. 7 Thoughts on Reading "The Besieged City"
"The Besieged City" is a novel by Mr. Qian and a well-known modern literary classic. The novel is full of content and uses reason more than emotion. It is the Song poetry in the novel.
The so-called "siege of the city", as the characters in the book say, is derived from two European idioms. The British say: "Marriage is like a golden birdcage. The birds outside the cage want to live in, and the birds inside the cage want to fly out, so there is no end after getting married and leaving." The French say: Marriage It's like "a besieged castle. People outside the city want to rush in, and people in the city want to escape." Fang Hongjian, the protagonist of this book, originally did not know that there was a "siege". However, when he heard someone say " "Besieging the City", and after the subsequent ups and downs, he has this idea about "everything in life." "Besieging the City" is an image summary of a life situation, and it is also a clever capture of a psychological state. What "Besieged" depicts is the eternal cycle of human idealism and disillusionment.
Throughout the ages, how many people have started from thinking that God is blessing and divine help, and have ended by realizing that fate is playing tricks on people. There are ups and downs in "Fortress Besieged", and what is said everywhere is the continuous rise and destruction of ideals. Often things are about to be completed and destroyed immediately afterwards, which is just a waste of effort. Many people live in the "sieged city" situation throughout their lives without noticing it. Therefore, the "sieged city" can completely be used as a symbol of human beings' predicament and repeated setbacks. Mr. Qian Zhongshu observes the floating life, ponders deeply; he gives pointers to the world, expresses profound thoughts, and uses the physical to reveal the metaphysical, making readers suddenly feel as if they already know life. The style of this book is humorous and the illustrations are delightful. Reading it, one can appreciate the richness and beauty of Chinese characters.
"Besieged City" starts from the metaphor of "Besieged City" and vividly expresses the dilemma of human beings in "Besieged City": the constant pursuit and the consequent dissatisfaction and boredom with the pursuit of success. The contradictions and transitions between the two, intertwined hopes and disappointments, joy and pain, persistence and wavering - all these constitute everything in life. The "Besieged City" dilemma tells us that the results of life pursuits are likely to be illusory. This may seem a bit pessimistic, but at its heart it is a serious pursuit, with enthusiasm buried deep under calmness, just like Qian Zhongshu's own life. He exposes the illusion of pursuing the ultimate ideal and ultimate goal. This makes it possible for the process of pursuit to no longer be just a means, but its own important significance can be recognized and recognized, allowing us to understand the endless pursuit and hope. And there is no turning back, no longer falling into nothingness.
The book "Fortress Besieged" was written by Qian Zhongshu's "accumulation of money." The novel has no clear story clues, but only some trivial plots "pieced together" from the author's trivial insights and experiences. Generally speaking, a book with a trivial plot must have excellent verbal expression to become a successful work. Qian Zhongshu's "Fortress Besieged" really uses language to the highest level.
Reading "Fortress Besieged" cannot be like reading ordinary novels that only focus on the plot and ignore the language. If that is the case, "Fortress Besieged" will lose its meaning of existence. The clever words and witty words in "Fortress Besieged" are the most successful part of this novel and the most worthy of appreciation. 8 Thoughts on Reading "The Besieged City"
Some people say that a person falls in love with a city; but I fell in love with a book because of a sentence!
The first time I came into contact with "The Besieged City" The novel "Fortress Besieged" is in the high school Chinese textbook. At that time, I was deeply attracted by the sentence "Those who are surrounded by the city want to escape, and those outside the city want to rush in." Unfortunately, I never had the opportunity to read Mr. Qian Zhongshu's "The Besieged City" at that time. It was only after graduation that I had time to read the book I had longed for!
The novel "Fortress Besieged" is based on 1937 and several years after. The novel focuses on Fang Hongjian, a young man who returned to China after studying in France. It describes the conflicts and entanglements encountered by a group of international students and university professors on life, work, marriage and other issues, and reveals the selfish, greedy and hypocritical human nature of some so-called upper-class intellectuals.
I picked up this book again today and have a deeper understanding of life. I seemed to see myself, and why am I not just like Fang Hongjian, who kept running in and out of the city, blindly running around and over again, just for a diploma and a pass to leave the city! As Mr. Qian Zhongshu wrote in the book "This diploma is like the leaf on the lower body of Adam and Eve, which can cover up shame and ugliness; a small square of paper can cover up a person's emptiness, ignorance, and stupidity."
"I am still a student, what is there in my city? It is still a school, I am just a person in this city, and these walls trap me tightly, my thoughts and my My behavior is restricted, and I can only perform scenes of tragedies and comedies in this city. Like many people, I want to escape desperately. But what about the people outside the city? They are looking forward to entering this gorgeous place with great excitement. Castle, just like me a few years ago. In order to enter this city, we have left one city after another, and now we are in the city and are full of hope to enter the next city - work.
Suddenly there is an inexplicable feeling of loss. Life is like a besieged city. People always jump from one besieged city to another, but they can never surpass the besieged city. No wonder Mr. Qian Zhongshu said, "People are surrounded by the city." Want to escape, people outside the city want to rush in. "
Gently closing the book, my heart could not calm down for a long time. My mind was full of the scene when Fang Hongjian and Sun Roujia were quarreling. The final period did not seem to mean the end of the story. On the contrary, it seems to be announcing the beginning of another new story to people! Reading experience of "The Besieged City" 9
People in the city want to get out, and people outside the city want to rush in. "The junior high school Chinese teacher was giving a lecture. This sentence made me a little confused. I thought for a long time and could not understand the meaning of the words. Later, I found out through searching that it was a famous saying in "The Besieged City" written by Mr. Qian Zhongshu, so I went to the school library to borrow this book and devoured it. After graduating from college, I started working and had a family and children. I calmly read this book twice more, and then I realized that there is a story in the besieged city, and there is a besieged city in the story.
The background of the story is in the last century, but the truths contained in the few sentences interspersed in the story are beyond the reach of many modern people and need to be deeply understood and learned. The marriage between Mr. Qian Zhongshu and his wife Yang Jiang must be the envy of all young people. I think that even in this impetuous era, there are always two people with matching souls who cherish each other's company. Even if it is a besieged city, it is a place that no one wants to leave. It should be called "home".
"Marriage is a besieged city. People inside want to get out, and people outside want to get in." Although I still know a little about books, I want to say: "In fact, the soul is also a siege. Living in your own shadow will only make you trapped deeper and deeper. Only by defeating yourself can you get out of the siege." Mr. Feng Zikai once said: "If someone helps you, you are lucky; if no one helps you, it is a just fate. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own, and you have to be responsible for yourself. If you Love, everything in life is lovely. If you hate it, everything in life is hateful."
In the face of all the hardships and hardships in life, instead of complaining endlessly, it is better to deal with them in silence, think deeply, and let the years pass by. , life is like a dream, and the burning pain of youth will eventually settle into an experience, becoming a night elf hidden deep in the soul. I think of myself eight years ago, leaving my elderly parents, coming here with a sincere heart, entering this city, protecting people, shouldering responsibilities and missions, and spreading the blood of youth on this land.
Life is a besieged city. Marriage and career, study and entertainment, success and failure are all a color of this city. Everyone and everything is an element of the city. When everything and everyone becomes beautiful because of hard work and optimism, and when the colors in the city are uniform and harmonious, then the city is no longer a terrible bondage and pressure, but a happy paradise. 10 Thoughts on Reading "The Besieged City"
Mr. Qian Zhongshu is a great master and most of his works are famous works. "Fortress Besieged" is his masterpiece. "The Besieged City" has put forward a concept of marriage that is highly respected by modern people in modern times - those in the besieged city want to get out, and those outside the besieged city want to come in. Just like marriage, some married people want to divorce, while those who are not yet married look forward to starting a family as soon as possible. Some people say: "Marriage is the grave of love." I don't think that is the case. It depends on the individual's concept of marriage and what they want to get from marriage.
"Fortress Besieged" roughly tells the attitudes of three pairs of people towards love and marriage. The first male protagonist, Fang Hongjian, is a down-and-out cultural man. He relied on his family's rich financial conditions to go abroad. He spent several years abroad and learned nothing. In the end, he spent money to buy a school in a foreign country. With a diploma, I returned to China on time. On the boat back to China, he met Miss Su, who had also returned from studying abroad like him. Miss Su was much more up-to-date than him. She had read a lot of poetry and books abroad and her diploma was authentic. It stands to reason that Miss Su should be dissatisfied with people like Fang Hongjian who fish in troubled waters, but it happened that the wonderful chemistry of love came into play. Miss Su and Fang Hongjian got to know each other, and after being together for a while, they actually fell in love with him. Silently fell in love with him. This caught Fang Hongjian off guard. Let's not talk about Fang Hongjian's affair with a beautiful lady on the boat, but the fact is that Fang Hongjian fell in love with Miss Su's cousin. At this time the second male protagonist in the book appears, he is Zhao Xinmei.
Zhao is a successful man. He has known Miss Su for a long time and has been trying to please her in an attempt to win her heart. Who knows that Miss Su just doesn't appreciate it and doesn't make friends with him, so there's nothing he can do about it. So Zhao took his anger out on Fang and made things difficult for Fang everywhere. Fang had no choice. He was too embarrassed to tell Zhao Ting everything, so he had to suffer the loss of being dumb.
Originally, things were going to develop in this way. After being teased by Fang many times, Miss Su suddenly realized that Fang didn't care about her at all. She angrily married a modern poet. Zhao knew that his wish would not come true, and when he saw that Su had married someone who was not as good as him, he suddenly felt that he and Fang were in the same boat, and became good friends with Fang. And they went to other places to be teachers together. On the way to the field, Fang met Zhao's friend's daughter, and the two became husband and wife as the story progressed. At this time the climax of the book comes. Its focus is to describe the couple's longing, expectation, adjustment and disappointment in love. The story illustrates the author's point of view through a series of descriptions. Although marriage is what everyone pursues diligently, most people have not understood the true meaning of marriage and love. They are miserable in the besieged city, and conflicts between husband and wife have intensified. It's like entering the tomb of love.
The same is true in today’s society. Most TV follow-up reports say that some young friends felt sweetness when they first tasted love. Feelings come first at this time. They lose rational thinking. Entering the marriage hall blindly. After getting married, they found that life revolved around firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and the two parties often quarreled over trivial matters. This made them regret it too late and start divorcing again.
A modern literati once said: "What is marriage? Marriage is just one word - tolerance." That's so good. The word "forbearance" has a knife on its head. From a love relationship to a marriage, it means that there is not only love between the two, but also family affection. Sometimes the shortcomings of the other person that were not visible when you were in love now clearly appear before your eyes. At the moment, we cannot panic, cannot be anxious, and cannot think that the other party has deceived us, because these are all negative. Only when we face the problem actively can we think of good ways to solve it.
Entering into marriage requires not only love, but also courage. I hope that today's young people can take this as a lesson to steer the rudder of marriage and spend their married life happily.