1. Do more.
Every time you do more, others owe you more. Let others do better while increasing your own value. Those who are good at fishing should choose bait that fish likes. You can't make everyone like you, but you can reduce the reasons why others hate you. Negotiating with people without causing friction is a big lesson to be learned. Do more and opportunities will follow. He who serves others the most is the richest. The road of service leads to a happy city.
2. Challenge.
If you want to reach a higher level, provide more and better services to others than expected. Try to do better than your last performance every time, and soon you will surpass those around you.
3. Main goal.
What do you want in life? What can you give in return? Successful people only want what they want - not what they don't want. It doesn’t matter what you did in the past, what matters is what will you do in the future? If you don't know what you want in life, what else do you want? In addition to doing something, a wise man can also do something not to do. Be busy with what you want, so you don't have time to worry about what you don't want. Don't be afraid to set your goals too high; you may need to settle for less. If you don't know what you want, don't say you don't have a chance.
4. Be alert.
Be alert to those who frighten dogs and children. Being too alert is like being under-vigilant, making people suspicious. Don’t envy your neighbor’s fence, which is greener, perhaps with more thorns than grass. For a person who keeps saying "Others say...", if you ask him who "others" are, you will see his tongue-tied embarrassment. When a stranger is overly enthusiastic about helping you, be careful because he has ulterior motives.
5. Think correctly.
Only by judging yourself correctly can you judge others. Are you deceiving others, or yourself? Think clearly before answering. People who think before they act rarely do anything wrong. Trying to convince people who don't have brains is futile. People who think the whole world is wrong are most likely wrong themselves.
6. Believe.
If you believe you can do it, you will definitely do it. If you keep telling yourself something, even if it's not true, you'll eventually make yourself believe it.
7. Cooperation.
Requests give better results than commands. A person who is good at giving orders will be able to obey them and execute them. Willingness to cooperate leads to support, while forced obedience leads to failure. Tell your boss what you want and see if he or she is willing to help you remove obstacles. Friendly cooperation is more popular than incitement. Collaboration must start with department leaders, as does efficiency. Working in collusion is definitely not cooperation. No one can hurt you unless you are willing to be hurt by others.
8. Courage.
Only by bravely admitting what you don’t know can you learn and make progress. Courage is just one more step beyond fear. People who complain that they don’t have opportunities probably don’t have the courage to take risks.
9. Criticism.
Only unknown people who achieve nothing can avoid criticism. Don't be afraid of unfair criticism, but know what unfair criticism is. Don't criticize someone you don't understand, take the opportunity to learn from him. Don't be afraid of criticism. When you come up with new ideas, be prepared to be criticized. Don't criticize someone else's behavior unless you know why they did it. You might be in the same situation. If you can't stand criticism, you can't try new things. If you often criticize others, why not try complimenting them? Before you start criticizing, it's best to start with a little praise. If you want to be more popular, try to praise more and criticize less.
10. Behavior.
A truly great person will be felt by others through his good deeds. A day without any good deeds is wasted. Medals and titles won't get you to heaven, good deeds will increase your weight. Constructive behavior can convince others, and boasting with words is useless. Don’t say what you want, show it with actions. Good deeds are the best way to praise yourself. If you are smarter than others, others will see it in your actions.
11. Clear goals.
Clearly understand what you want and devote yourself to pursuing it. A person without a clear goal is like a ship without a compass. Wise people have the habit of thinking clearly. Willpower comes from continuous action, spontaneity, and clear goals.
Honesty and hard work require clear goals to guide success. Without clear goals, life will be mediocre. A firm goal is the first principle of success.
12. Education or learning.
Education is about developing inner strength. All education depends on one's own experience; no one can educate another person. What you learn from work is more valuable than the reward you get in front of you. You can learn by listening, not by talking. A good teacher must be a good student. It is not necessary to keep all the knowledge in mind, it is enough to be able to acquire the required knowledge. Studying a person's good ideas is better than finding fault with his shortcomings. Knowledge must be applied to generate power. Try to do things better than others and you will forget about financial worries. If you don't make an effort to learn from your boss, you're wasting opportunities for promotion and better jobs. Philosophers identify human errors from those who make them. Being good at asking questions made Socrates a wise man of his time. Use knowledge wisely and attract greater knowledge. The more you learn on the job, the more you earn. People who study by themselves are like others paying for their education. Knowledge must generate benefits through action, otherwise it is useless.
13. What you say is meaningful.
Remember, others know how much you know from every word you say. How you say it is just as important as what you say. When people ask for something, their tone of voice is particularly different. Others will listen more easily if your tone is tactful. Indiscriminate remarks often lead to embarrassing situations. Harsh words hurt the most. You can think as you please, but express your thoughts with caution.
14. Enthusiasm.
When enthusiasm becomes a habit, fear and worry have no place. People who lack enthusiasm also have no clear goals. Enthusiasm makes the wheels of imagination turn. A person without enthusiasm is like a car without gasoline. The happiest people are those who are good at arranging play and work and remain enthusiastic about both. Enthusiasm makes ordinary topics come alive.
15. Action.
Observe the person walking in front of you, see why he is ahead, and learn from his approach. Only busy people can get things done, while dull people can only take advantage of opportunities. An indecisive person cannot follow through even if he makes a decision. Goodwill requires appropriate expression in action.
16. Failure.
Edison failed ten thousand times before inventing the light bulb. Don’t worry if you fail once. “The average person” fails once and then gives up. Therefore, there are many "ordinary people", but there is only one Edison. Being aimless and drifting is the primary cause of failure. Opportunities that are not available in forward and reverse situations can be found in horizontal and reverse situations. Let children "have a good time" when they are young, but they will often be "sad" when they grow up. When criticizing others' mistakes, you should also add some praise. There is a huge difference between failure and temporary setbacks. Only by understanding the difference can you succeed. Those who do not stop trying because of temporary setbacks will never fail. Many people only need one more minute of support and one more effort to turn defeat into victory. Success begets success, failure begets failure. People who try to get something for nothing often achieve nothing. Others' mistakes are no excuse for yours. There is no shame in failure if you try your best. Don't blame the children for their bad behavior, blame the adults who didn't teach them well. Mistakes are like weeds in a garden. If not eradicated in time, they will spread everywhere. Self-pity is an addictive narcotic. Wise men pay attention to their shortcomings, while ordinary people boast of their own advantages. Failure is a blessing if it pushes a person out of his chair of complacency and forces him to do something more useful. Failure is a preparation for greater responsibility. Failure is an asset if you understand why you fail.
17. Fairness.
Don’t ignore the section, the universe is made of atoms. The best way to get help is to start helping others.
18. Confidence.
The more confidence you use, the more you gain. No one can destroy your confidence in anything unless you want to. All great miracles are simply the power of faith. Misfortune seldom troubles those who have hope and faith. Confidence needs a foothold, but fear can exist out of thin air. Confidence comes from clear goals and a positive attitude. Confidence is an attitude that often makes the "impossible" disappear invisible. Faith cannot give you what you need, but it can tell you how to get it.
19. Fear.
Bravailing often indicates deep fear. Don't hesitate because of fear, moving forward will eliminate fear. Fear is the devil's greatest weapon and man's greatest enemy. Conscious people rarely fear anything. Confidence can overcome fear.
Keep your fears to yourself, others have other people's fears. Bad luck likes people who are afraid of him. Hope and fear do not go together. He who fears poverty will never be rich.
20. Friends.
People who want something will look for friends, and soon they will have no friends. If you want to have friends, be someone else's friend first. Don't let down the friends who help you bounce back from depression. A friend is someone who understands you and respects you. Friendship needs to be expressed frequently to last forever. Friendship means recognizing the shortcomings of friends without making them public.
Extended reading:
1. The colorful clouds are floating in the sky, and they are naturally proud of themselves, but they can only be exchanged for a few compliments at most; only they can turn into sweet rain and take root in the fertile soil. , can create beauty for the world.
2. Even if someone calls me crazy, I will firmly raise my head and say to him contemptuously: "Are you from the same hospital as me?"
3. Determine work efficiency The first factor that determines the quality of work is work attitude, followed by ability. How much effort you put into it will be how much you achieve. Only by going all out and doing your best in everything can you achieve something.
4. You don’t need anyone to tell you how great you are, believe in yourself.
5. When I feel that I am unlucky, I will think: This is spreading my bad luck. After spreading it, the rest will be all luck!
6. Only by constantly falling can you learn how to stand on the ground with your own strength.
7. Clean up your mood and start a new beginning.
8. Others will not stop because you are tired.
9. People can never stop dreaming. Dreams are nourishment for the soul, just like food is nourishment for the body. On the road of life, we often see our dreams broken and our desires frustrated, but we still need to dream.
10. For scholars, poverty, embarrassment, censure, slander, cynicism, and all oppression are the driving force for progress.
11. Miracle is just another name for hard work. May opportunities always be in your favor.
12. The sparkle of a pearl cannot be applied by others.
13. In order to rush towards the rivers, lakes and seas, even if it faces an abyss of hundreds of feet, the waterfall still roars forward and never flinches.
14. If you don’t step on the muddy path, you won’t be able to step onto the road covered with flowers.
15. A person’s life is very confusing. In the process of going around, you may gain a lot or lose a lot. This may be God’s will. Therefore, friends, you must cherish what you have in front of you. , don’t regret it after losing it!
16. In a tired life, there are always gentle dreams.
17. As long as we are full of hope, I believe God will bring us the chance of happiness.
18. When the tears run away, what remains is strength.
19. Don’t laugh at the iron tree. In order to bloom once, it makes a longer effort than other tree species.
20. Everyone has flaws, just like an apple bitten by God. Some people have bigger flaws, precisely because God particularly likes his fragrance.
21. Keep the light in your heart forever; firmly believe that the hope in your heart is good; persist in your last efforts and remain undefeated; I see the tranquility and transparency of youth filled with the footprints of my arrival. .
22. If you ask God for help, it means that you believe in God’s ability; if God does not help you, it means that God believes in your ability.
23. Because the date is not over yet, you have not seen the date, the thing has not happened yet, so please work for it thousands of times.
24. Trying to indulge yourself, but you are always tied down by too many constraints. Living according to the rules is just a body that has lost its soul.
25. Without rocks, there would be no beautiful waves; without setbacks, there would be no magnificent life.
26. To succeed, first go crazy and rush forward with a simple mind.
27. Life is not about surpassing others, but about surpassing yourself.
28. Most people want to change the world, but few want to change themselves.
29. Only by enduring hardship can one become a master.
30. As long as the road is right, there is no need to worry about the distance.
31. An inch of time is worth an inch of gold, but an inch of gold cannot buy an inch of time.
32. If life is stripped of ideals, dreams, and fantasies, then life will be just a pile of empty shelves.
33. Only by creating can we advance in life; only by adapting can we survive.
34. The environment will not change, the solution lies in changing yourself.
35. Never giving up is the best character of a pursuer.
36. The achievement of goals is based on my strong desire to succeed.
37. Human potential is an immeasurably rich mine, just waiting for us to tap it.
38. The reason why people have one mouth and two ears is that they listen twice as much as they speak.
39. The mountains will fall if you rely on them, the water will flow if you rely on them, but you will never fall if you rely on yourself.
40. No one is so rich that he does not need help from others, and no one is so poor that he cannot help others in some way.
41. Those who always rely on the encouragement of others to fight are not considered strong; those who do not fight despite the encouragement of others are simply cowards.
42. There are rare times in life when you can fight. If you don’t fight now, then when will you fight?
43. When a person starts fighting from his own heart, he is a valuable person.
44. Be kind to yourself and you will be extremely happy. Treat others well and you will be extremely happy. Treat your life kindly and you will be extremely healthy.
45. When external pressure increases, internal motivation should be enhanced.
46. Observe the winners carefully and don’t always focus on the losers.
47. A person who can see things from other people's perspectives and understand other people's mental activities will never have to worry about his own future.
48. Money can be recovered once lost, but it is difficult to recover once credibility is lost.
49. Those who have ambitions will have thousands of plans, but those who have no ambitions will only find countless difficulties.
50. Ordinary footsteps can also complete a great journey.
51. In order to prevent regrets and regrets in life, we should seize every opportunity to change our lives as much as possible.
52. Those who have no ambitions often set their aspirations, and those who have ambitions always set their ambitions. People who stick to a goal are most likely to succeed.
53. A strong-willed person’s world is full of infinite possibilities.
54. The edge of a sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold.
55. Because I have regrets, I wear the stars and the moon; because I have dreams, I work hard regardless of my own safety.
56. A person’s success does not depend on his wisdom, but on perseverance.
57. I’m not afraid that you don’t understand, but I’m afraid that you won’t learn or do it.
58. Positive people believe that only by pushing themselves can they push the world, and by pushing themselves can they push the world.
59. Only by giving can you become outstanding.
60. In life, the most important thing is not your situation, but how you view your situation.
61. Positive thinking leads to a positive life, and negative thinking leads to a negative life.
62. Never giving up is the only secret to realizing your dreams.
63. Those who have never failed have probably never succeeded.
64. If the strings of the piano are loose, you cannot play beautiful music; if you live a loose life, you cannot ignite the flame of life.
65. No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't reach it without taking steps.
66. Let us replace worries beforehand with thinking and planning beforehand!
67. Being with positive people can make us feel high.
68. The weak comfort themselves with tears, and the strong temper themselves with sweat.
69. The secret to success is to work harder than others every day.
70. After being tempered by the waves, the pebbles become more beautiful and smooth.
71. Don’t worry about the unclear future, just work hard for the clear present.
72. Passion and desire can overcome all difficulties.
73. The secret to success is to stick to your goals and beliefs.
74. The rope cuts the wood, and the water drops penetrate the stone.
75. If you overcome suffering, it will be your wealth; if suffering overcomes you, it will be your humiliation.
76. The power developed by a person with conviction is greater than that of a person with only interest.
77. Never give up is the best quality of a successful person.
78. Even if you climb to the highest mountain, you can only take one step at a time.
79. Failure comes from ignoring details, and success starts from paying attention to small things.
80. Success is doing simple things over and over again.
81. There are many ways to make money, but if you can’t find the seeds to make money, you won’t be able to become a business owner.
82. Work hard if you are expected to get it, don’t mind if you are not expected to get it, and your posture will look good no matter you win or lose.
83. Don’t make excuses for failure, just find ways for success.
84. The greatest joy in life is when everyone says you can’t do it, but you accomplish it!
85. When you are angry, keep your mouth shut. , so as not to increase your anger.
86. Great power exists within our hearts.
87. Life is like a clock. You can go back to the starting point, but it is not yesterday!
88. Don’t ask what others have done for you, but ask what you have done for others. What.
89. Goals and beliefs give people lasting motivation and are the spiritual pillars of people.
90. If young people don’t work hard, old people will be sad.