This play is realistic, incisive, philosophical and practical. The original work is Yi Shu. I haven't seen her work before. It is said that Yi Shu's books are all about women's self-improvement. I wonder if the description is accurate. After watching this play, I am very interested in the author now, and I am more interested in her book.
Let's not talk about the series that have been broadcast before, but directly talk about the two episodes of 38 and 39 broadcast tonight. After reading them, I feel abused, especially the words that Zijun's mother confessed before she died, which makes me feel that no matter how old we are, as long as we have a mother, we are all children, because mom and dad will always protect us and we have the right to coquetry.
Watching TV and surfing the Internet, I overheard someone say that in today's two episodes, there are four lines left unsaid. Is it good to just take a look? I just want to express my opinion.
Is it better to use eyes instead of words?
1) He Han promised Zijun: "No matter what happens, I will wait for you."
2) Before leaving Shanghai, Zijun hugged He Han tightly and said, That's very kind of you. I won't like other men anymore, but we can't be together ~ Bye ~
3) Zijun's mother said to He Han before she died: "If Jun Jun dares not say anything, I will say for her that she likes you and loves you, and I will leave the rest of her life to you ..."
4) On his deathbed, Zijun's mother said to Tang Jing, "Thank you for coming to see me at this time. Are there many men like He Han around you? Are any of them chasing you? If this is not enough, find another one ~ "
These four lines are a bit redundant.
I think these four sentences are well written, and I admire the writer's thinking, which can make people feel the same.
The first sentence: He Han endured for so long, hesitated for so long, and finally said what he always wanted to say. Even if He Han had confessed before, he was still a little pale and powerless. Now he has finally made his stand clear, and he has the courage to express his love for Zijun. And tell zijun, but no matter what zijun decides, no matter what she does, he supports her and is willing to wait for her.
If this sentence is a look, it is not so shocking. Zijun may not know it, but there is a person waiting for her. The source of that feeling is that a look can't express it.
The second sentence: Zijun's monologue shows that the best ending of this relationship is to let He Han understand her heart. This sentence should be the best ending of this relationship. He Han loves Zijun, and Zijun loves He Han. Although they love each other, there is not only love between them, but also Zijun attaches great importance to Tang Jing's friendship. After experiencing the stormy times, they are more forbearing and cherishing others. They love each other, and it is many times better to end this relationship clearly with this sentence than to end it in a vague way that hurts each other.
This is also invisible to the eyes.
Paragraph 3: Every mother is selfish. They love their children. No matter how children live, they are not at ease and want to give everything good to their children. So is Zijun's mother. She loves Zijun. She also knows that Zijun likes He Han, and she knows Zijun's scruples and forbearance. She was worried and distressed. She knows that people like He Han are worth trusting. Only by entrusting Zijun to He Han can she feel at ease. Similarly, only when she confessed herself and listened to He Han's personal promise, did she feel at ease.
As mentioned in the third paragraph, as long as it is for the sake of children, mothers are selfish. It is normal for a mother to love her daughter. At the same time, she also likes Tang Jing. She thanked Tang Jing, but was ashamed of Tang Jing. But for the sake of her daughter, she can only do so. Even if she is guilty of Tang Jing, she hopes that as long as her daughter can be happy, she will be willing to live up to Tang Jing. This passage, she also wants Tang Jing's assurance, don't pester He Han, make He Han and Zijun happy.
This speech is just right. Eyes can express many things, but words will be more powerful and convincing. Promises may not be fulfilled, but they can be reassuring.
For the first half of my life, I can't hate everyone in the play. Everyone will encounter all kinds of things, some bad and some good. Some meet early, some meet late. There are joys and sorrows. Being together is different. Round and round, come and go, no one can escape.
Poor people must have something hateful, and hateful people must have something pitiful.
I can only say that what we should experience, no matter what the result is, whether it is gain or loss, as long as you feel better than before, those things are not bad.
You give yourself a sense of accomplishment and security. Just be happy, you don't need to be completely attached to others.