In the eyes of the older generation, for women, marriage is the most important, and for men, career is naturally the most important. However, modern women do not think so. Many women do not have Before getting married, they will put all their thoughts on their career. They believe that women should be self-reliant and have their own career, whether before or after marriage, so that they can have a foothold in future life.

Although there is an old saying that goes like this: "Get married first and then start a career." But for most men, career is still more important than marriage. After all, many girls are more realistic. If a man has nothing, he will be poor. How can such a man protect his future wife if he has no deposit in the house? How can he let his beloved woman follow him to eat rice bran? So in order to live a happier and more prosperous life in the future, he must first have his own career and then It would be best to consider marriage again.

The same is true for women. If you have your own career before getting married, you will not be restricted in everything after getting married. Before getting married, the two of you can ignore each other. After getting married, there are seven things to do: rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Money is needed, and human relations do not require expenditure. If a woman does not have her own career, works as a full-time housewife at home, and asks her husband for money every day when she opens her eyes, such a marriage will be very difficult. Women can only be respected if they are financially independent. This is a wise saying that many women have concluded after marriage.

In fact, whether you start a family first and then start a business or first start a career and then start a family, it all needs to be decided based on the actual situation. If you don’t have much ability and ability, then it is safest to start a family first. On the contrary, if you have business acumen and strength, of course it is still better. It is most appropriate to establish a career first and then start a family.