1. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: Eat one bite at a time and do things bit by bit. Nothing happens overnight, everything has a process. Don't be exhausted all day long, live calmly.
2. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: it is not enough to be calm. You still have to show off yourself when appropriate to brighten up the dull days.
3. If you are in your thirties, you should understand that everything has duality, and sometimes there is no right or wrong. What you think is wrong may be right in the eyes of others. And what you strive for with all your strength may very well be what others get rid of and abandon.
4. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: the quality of your life depends entirely on your own mentality.
5. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: alienation from family is a painful pain.
6. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: You can no longer do the stupid thing of treating your parents with poor support and rich burial. Their generation has been through too many hardships. Treating them well means treating them well. our conscience. In fact, most of the time they don't need your glory at all. If you make a phone call every week or ask them a story about their youth, and then listen patiently to them, they will be satisfied.
7. If you are in your thirties, you should understand: status and honor are just a cup, and your cultivation and character are what is in your cup. The luminous cup may not be filled with fine wine, but may also be a glass of turbid water. The coarse porcelain cup may not be filled with boiled water, but it may be filled with a top-quality Longjing cup.
8. The age of 30 is a crossroads in life; the age of 30 is also a watershed in life. At this critical moment, we should seize the opportunity; at this critical moment, we should be ingenious; at this critical moment, we should stand out. The ten years from the age of twenty to the present have passed, no matter what form it takes with us. We all have to wave goodbye to them, because the past should no longer be a burden for us to move forward. Let go of the past in order to pick up more in the future.
Standing at 9.30 means that people cannot walk independently until they are 30 years old.
10. Looking back, I have spent the most precious years of my life. When my youth is gone, I will inevitably feel a little sad. But when I calm down and think about it, I can still accept it calmly. This is The inevitable law of life is inevitable for everyone. Instead of dwelling on the past, it is better to grasp the present. Standing at 30 is not the end, but the starting point. The beautiful road to the future is right in front of you, right at your feet.