1, gentlemen make friends first, villains take effect later. -wangtong? 2. Even a little restraint on yourself will make people powerful. Gorky? 3, its body is right, but not ordered; His body is not straight, although he disobeys. -Confucius? 4. To make others like you, you must first change your attitude towards people, relax, have a natural expression and smile, so that others will feel like you. Carnegie? Being penniless and living a white and simple life is exactly where we revolutionaries can overcome many difficulties. ? 6. Respect other people's opinions. Never say, "You are wrong." Carnegie? 7. Young people should have the composure of old people, and old people should have the spirit of young people. -Hemingway 8 All that glitters is not gold; Beautiful words are not all good words. British Shakespeare? 9. Character is a person's inner nature, and reputation is a person's appearance. Shakespeare? 10, buddy, help yourself! Beethoven? 1 1, if you don't work hard, your heart will be depressed; If you don't check the beam, your heart will be proud. -Zhu in the Northern Song Dynasty