This layman's father is Li Wenhan's father, but the motto he gave Li Wenhan actually only had five sentences. However, there is a sentence at the beginning of the letter that is very touching, so it will be counted as six mottos. .
The first sentence: The two people who love you most in this world are your father and mother, and they will even give their lives for you.
Li Wenhan’s father hopes that Li Wenhan can talk to them more about his pressure, and hopes that he can understand that the people who love him most in the world are his father and mother. As long as Li Wenhan is in need, They were even willing to sacrifice their lives to help him.
As an idol, Li Wenhan’s popularity has been declining since his debut with Big C Fault. Li Wenhan’s father has seen all this, and they also know that their son has taken on many responsibilities from all directions. pressure, so I hope he can talk more and not be depressed.
Second sentence: Life has its ups and downs. Don’t get carried away when it’s good and give up on yourself when it’s bad.
The ups and downs in life are related to Li Wenhan’s experience of being ridiculed as a star since his debut as a giant C. The peak of his popularity was probably at the moment when he debuted as a giant C, but before he When he was in the UNIQ men's team, there was basically no such person, so his father hoped that he would not get carried away, but not give up on himself in the face of the current situation.
The entertainment industry has always been like this. A person's popularity cannot remain at a peak forever. As long as you persist, anything is possible. His father hopes that he can maintain a normal mind and face the ups and downs in the entertainment industry. Maintaining a stable mentality is the most important thing.
The third sentence: You must have your own work, even if there is only one song, a song that everyone likes.
Li Wenhan has not had any songs that are completely out of the industry since his debut, and Li Wenhan’s father also understands that if he wants to have his own foothold in the entertainment industry, it is very important to have a work that is out of the industry. , even if it’s just one song. As long as everyone likes it, your name will always exist in the entertainment industry.
So Li Wenhan’s father hopes that Li Wenhan will not only have popularity but no works, not to be an "empty traffic star", but must have works that he can produce, so that he can be more successful in the future. Stand confidently in front of people who like you.
The fourth sentence: Be humble and never be self-righteous.
Li Wenhan's giant C debut is undoubtedly brilliant, but when facing such a peak moment, Li Wenhan will inevitably become proud. Therefore, Li Wenhan's father warned Li Wenhan, hoping that he would be humble and not be self-righteous. His life path has just begun, and he still has higher mountains to climb.
This sentence said by Li Wenhan’s father actually applies to all traffic stars today. Although they have high traffic, they should not lose themselves because of their high popularity. They must be humble in order to be able to Learn more and get more by yourself.
Sentence 5: You will make a lot of friends, but there will be very few friends who are really good for you, so please be sure to see clearly.
There are many friends with benefits in the entertainment industry. When you are good, everyone plays well with you, but when you are bad, everyone will ignore you. So Li Wenhan's father told him that maybe he will have many friends now, but there are very few real friends, and they must be distinguished clearly.
Especially when you say something from your heart, you must be careful. There are too many intrigues in the entertainment industry. After all, Li Wenhan is still a man in his twenties. Since he cannot afford to fight, Just try to avoid it.
Sentence 6: Read more books, learn more from seniors, and be a unique Li Wenhan who is responsible, self-disciplined and thoughtful.
Reading can enrich people’s inner being. Reading is something that everyone should persist in. As a public figure, Li Wenhan needs to read more to enrich himself so that he can lead with a better image. Everyone.
The seniors in the entertainment industry have more experience and have seen more things, so Li Wenhan’s father hopes that he can learn more from his seniors, learn from their responsibilities, and learn from their self-discipline. This is the only way. , Li Wenhan will become better and better.