Refuse to pretend to work hard | Study 8 hours more than others

Are you like this?

Pretend to work hard: You have worked hard for a long time, but the final result is not No

It's not particularly ideal, and you don't know what went wrong. .

1. Collection never stops, action starts from the future

2. Wrong method: taking many detours, wasting time and experience, low efficiency

Myself You will feel very tired

3. Save face: think you are excellent, but don’t want to prove yourself

4. Often improvise, often not getting what you want. The Buddha takes care of you - but

was kicked by the Buddha

5. Knowing that reading is fun, I lie down on the sofa after work

6. There is a lot of self-discipline installed on the mobile phone App, never opened it

7. I bought a tablet to study, but it turned out to be a tool for watching dramas and games

8. I kept buying books, but rarely read seriously.

9. I lie in bed every night thinking about what to do the next day, but

I wake up the next day and still stand still

10. Just do what you are good at. Back down when encountering the slightest difficulty

(Come back another day)

11. There is such pain: Why can't it still

I have tried so hard? But We don’t realize that in our eyes, efforts

take “wanting to do” as “doing” and “doing” as “done”

12. Difficulty concentrating : Things that can be done in one hour must be done

in three hours, studying and making the X sound at the same time. I thought I had done

a lot of things.

13. Buying courses is very casual, but learning them is very laborious

14. Answer a lot of questions and skip the ones you don’t know, so you don’t think too much

Test

15. The hard drive is filled with downloaded information, but it is almost never opened

16. The number of collected articles is over a thousand, but it is never organized and digested

How to get rid of pretending to work hard?

1. Make a reasonable plan

Many people like me who "pretend to work hard" are actually working hard

There is no clear goal and no reasonable plan. Thinking about it

Thinking about those anxious and chaotic days is really scary.

But fortunately I came out later and began to learn to set goals for myself

A reasonable plan;

A reasonable plan includes achievable goals and appropriate methods. I first think about

what I have now, how capable I am, and what I want to change most

, then set a somewhat ambitious goal, and then put this into >

A big goal is broken down into many small goals that can be reached on tiptoe.

2. Stop paying attention to the form

I hope you will no longer pay attention to the form of hard work, but pay more attention to the process and results of hard work

because you are not In order to work hard for others to see,

you don’t need to work hard to be so "refined".

There is always more than one road to success. We can abandon the formality

and try more. In this way, you will definitely be more passionate and efficient

< If you strive to achieve the goals you want to achieve, you will definitely be able to get rid of "pretending to work hard" and really work hard for yourself.

3. Try to stay away from electronic products

I believe everyone has a deep experience. In the process of doing things, once

you do not control yourself and open the After using the mobile APP, everything will be out of control

When you realize that you have wasted too much time,

it may be too late to do anything, so you Feeling regretful and overwhelmed,

But I still couldn't control myself and started using electronic products.

It was indeed very painful to do this at first, but as time went on, I

found that my concentration improved. With plenty of time, everything I wanted to do was accomplished one by one. The anxiety of "pretending to work hard" disappeared, and the whole person became more energetic.

So, if you also want to change yourself, then I suggest that you must

Start by staying away from electronic products, because this will allow you to return to focus and have

The best way to have peace.

4. Have stronger execution ability

If you want to do something, you must do it immediately. When you encounter a good method, use it now. Don't leave it in your favorites.

Never keep saying it starts tomorrow. Tomorrow comes tomorrow!

5. Spending more time does not mean you work hard

Most people work hard superficially: "effort" and "time"

The two are not entirely equivalent. I spend a lot of time studying, but I am not focused and my efficiency is very low, so it is all in vain. Therefore, how to work hard

not only requires you to arrange your time reasonably, but also depends on whether you are

concentrated when studying so that you can learn more.