Thank you, dear child. Last night, he told me about Chinese reading comprehension for the first time. He told me that he read an article for 4 minutes and read it five times, and finally understood it.

Look at the child's excited face and bright eyes, look at the paper-covered articles, and listen to him explain the main idea of the article and the thinking of answering questions in detail. Somehow, I was very moved.

This is a hurdle for him to break through. As a mother, I watched him fall and get up several times and finally ushered in the dawn of hope. At this moment, I really want to cheer for him.

children go to school early, and from childhood to adulthood, they are the ones who are not too absorbed. Good grades are not bad, not bad students, but by no means top students. In primary school, neither our children nor we realized the cruelty of competition in exam-oriented education, and we have been taking him to play leisurely for six years.

In those six years, we watched countless movies and documentaries. We went out to travel, and Qinghai, Taiwan Province, Shandong, Dalian, and so on. We listen to all kinds of stories. Xiao Lu tells the history of China, Xiao Lu tells the history of the world, Can Cao tells the Three Kingdoms, Can Cao tells the Journey to the West, Qiaohu and Mifei ... which one is the favorite of childhood. When I was in the first grade, he could talk about "Burning a Serial Ship" with more than 3, words from beginning to end in one breath. The class specially arranged a stage play for this purpose. He played the handsome Zhou Yu, and a group of young students won the special prize through hard work.

however, in the exam, you won't get any points.

since he was a child, he has been obsessed with aerospace, and he loves airplanes, and there are many kinds of aircraft. There is also a model airplane brought back from a tourist plane in Taiwan Province at home, which is still his best playmate when he takes a bath. He is almost 1.7 meters old, but as soon as he saw the model plane, he changed back to that cute little boy in seconds.

For a long time, he watched only one documentary-seconds from disaster over and over again, and told me more than once that his coolest and best occupation was the experts who restored the disaster scene through various technical analysis and warned future generations. He hopes to be such a person in the future.

however, in the exam, you won't get any points.

Although he was growing up, he still encountered some small surprises-

For example, when he got Home Alone, diary of a wimpy kid, and The Sound of Music in the English exam last semester, he only had to glance at the articles on the exam paper quickly to know the correct answer. Come back and tell me that the people who have seen these movies in their class are always single digits. He felt surprised and surprised, but he was also very happy and happy. Because, these are all discs that he has watched several times.

However, these can't help him go to a key middle school.

The brutal competition has overwhelmed almost every child and parent. The tragic entrance examination is even worse than the college entrance examination. This is especially true in Jiangsu. 9, the final admission line of key high schools is 3 to 4 points lower than the full mark. This forced every child to hardly breathe.

In the past, we, especially ourselves, felt that we didn't have much effort to go to college, so we didn't grasp the whole situation thoroughly enough, and naturally we couldn't plan ahead and plan. As a child standing on the shoulders of parents, the starting line of course seems to have lost.

So, since we entered middle school, we have been changing habits and establishing habits. All of us, around the baton of the senior high school entrance examination, are struggling to move forward.

other subjects have made rapid progress, and mathematics and physics occasionally get full marks. But Chinese has always been a headache for him. Especially reading comprehension, is almost the hardest hit. Even if he has subscribed to newspapers and books since kindergarten, even if Zheng Yuanjie wrote him two messages, and even if there are several bookshelves at home, his reading surface is still very narrow and shallow. He only likes reading his favorite books.

in his words, I often write my heart by hand, and I write what I think. There is no affectation, no moaning, no rhetorical metaphors, and no high lyricism. He often won prizes in his composition in primary school. When he arrived in middle school, his composition often only reached the passing line, and he never got high marks.

but we are just ordinary parents, and we don't have enough ability and capital to let our children bypass the education system and walk alone in the world. I gave him a happy childhood. If there is another happy teenager, I am afraid that there will be an extremely difficult middle-aged and old age in the future, as the online explosion said.

so, we can't help being anxious and anxious. Therefore, there is no choice but to meet the difficulties and adapt to the rules.

Be grateful for your child's persistence and hard work. Undaunted, he seems to be getting better and better, his heart is getting quieter and quieter, and his good habits are increasing.

Now, after a lot of falls, he has learned to recite compositions, ideas and questions. Seeing that he once dismissed memorization and dictation, he began to recite the basic skills, and the answer was more and more like a mold.

Sometimes, I don't know whether I should be happy or sad when I watch this angular little doll being gradually sculpted into a standard format. But then I thought, from arbitrary to stylish, from stylish to solidified, from solidified to breakthrough, this is also the growth process of one's ability. There is no routine, learn the routine, and then try to get rid of the routine. We have gone through this road before.

so, instead of worrying, it is better to bless.

I once asked my child if he would like to relax now if he could start all over again, but he was on the way to cram school in primary school. He thought for a long time and gave me an answer-no! I still want to be so happy in primary school, and now I study hard. Because, there is no chance to play like that anymore!

yes, there is no more chance. Since then, it has entered the fierce competition all the way, from campus to society, from teenagers to hoary heads, everywhere.

The child's answer somewhat comforted my guilty heart. Right or wrong, maybe not 3 years, it is not easy to draw a conclusion.

I always thought that a child's childhood was irreversible, so I tried my best to give him happiness, sunshine and many splendid times. Think about the future struggle in society for many years, and a beautiful childhood is always our most simple foundation and source of strength.

Mr. Ye Shengtao once said that education is agriculture, not industry. Yes, children are not fast-growing industrial products, but the most beautiful plants that we need to sow, water and prune patiently. Let's keep going. I believe that as long as we keep watering and pruning regularly, one day, they will all bloom into beautiful flowers and grow into magnificent trees.

in fact, besides children, isn't it true that we grow up ourselves? Repeatedly, slow is far, slow is fast, and patience is the standard for growth.

please believe that everything is the best arrangement, and wait patiently for the flowers to bloom.