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Find pleasure in helping others.
Helping others is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. The world is like a hall filled with countless candles. These candles are like an individual. Some of them lit up the hall with the light of conscience and love, while others went out. The more they go out, the darker the hall becomes. On the contrary, if everyone shines this light, we can make this hall shine forever.
Everyone needs help. Everyone should help others. Helping others is recognized as the most admirable quality. People who help others are real people. He does not restrain himself, and his weight is the heaviest on the moral scale; In front of the mirror of history, his figure is the longest. Helping others is a virtue, which washes away the dirt of selfishness, just like gold and crystal, and its brilliance will never be erased. The glory of helping others shines in everyone's heart. However, there are also many people who don't want its brilliance to penetrate into their words and deeds. Will those who walk away quietly and turn a blind eye to those in need be ashamed? Obviously touching glory is in front of you, but you are still hiding in the dark. Why not let yourself be the owner of this glorious glory?
Are you afraid of letting other people's troubles bother you? The concept of "nothing to do with yourself, hanging high" actually dominates the minds of some people. However, helping others is not annoying. Maybe lend a helping hand and you can turn the corner. After helping others, at least the heart is happy, the soul has been baptized and the sentiment has been sublimated.
The traditional virtue of helping others should be carried forward, not abandoned. It is an immortal star, shining forever on the social stage in the long river of history. Helping others is an eternal virtue.
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Helping others is a moral behavior and emotion that honest and kind people take the initiative to give selfless help to others with a sense of moral obligation and feel happy from it. The ancient sages of our country have many aphorisms about helping others and the beauty of adults, such as "the beauty of adults is when you are slow", "when you are noble and humble, the ancestors are behind", "people are more anxious than themselves" and "compassion is Futian, although small money is raised; Happy and kind, that is, every word is a good medicine. " Two thousand years ago, Mozi advocated: "It is good to follow suit in the world." This means doing something beneficial to others, even if it hurts from the top of the head to the heel. This spirit has been carried forward until now, and it is the spirit of "being selfish at all and patenting people" that we advocate.
Helping others should have a spirit of selfless dedication, which should run through our own life as a criterion for dealing with people. When people encounter risks, they should put others before themselves. There is a famous saying in "Three Kingdoms Shu": "Every time you are in a hurry, you should put your ancestors behind you." It requires people to be fearless in times of crisis and have the courage to take responsibility, which is the embodiment of the highest ideological realm of helping others. Shi Shuo Xin Yu recorded such a story: Hua Xin and Wang Lang took refuge by boat together. Huaxin felt embarrassed that someone had to take a boat halfway. Wang Lang said, "Fortunately, there is still room on board. Why not allow it? We should do more good things to help people. " Shortly after the man boarded the boat, he heard a murderous look behind him. It turned out that the thief was chasing him. I saw the thief getting closer and closer to the ship. At such a dangerous time, Wang Lang wanted to abandon his successors, but Hua Xin said, "I hesitated because of this situation. Now that I have accepted his request, how can I go to a dead end because of the critical situation! " At last, they rescued the man who was chased by the thief.
When people encounter disasters, they should care about others. Hua Tuo, a famous doctor in ancient China, is not only brilliant in medical skills, but also noble in medical ethics. His spirit of helping others touched many people. Hua tuo was different from other doctors at that time. He didn't have to have patients come to his home to get treatment. He often takes the initiative to treat patients. In order to alleviate the pain of patients, he often travels across mountains and rivers, eats and drinks, and treats people thousands of miles away. Once I went out to see a doctor and came back, it was very late. On the way, I met a man squatting on the side of the road and moaning, so I took the initiative to ask. Passers-by said, "My stomach suddenly hurts badly and I don't want to eat anything." Hua Tuo diagnosed him on the side of the road and told him, "You have worms in your stomach. You can ask for three small cups of acetic acid from a nearby store, and you will be fine after drinking it. " The man did, and sure enough, his stomach stopped hurting. When the patient wanted to thank Hua Tuo, Hua Tuo left without leaving his name. Things like this happened many times in Hua Tuo's life, and countless patients survived under his rescue.
A person, in the moral practice of helping others, will naturally sublimate the ideological and moral realm. As lev tolstoy said, "The less a person gives to others, the more he takes, the worse he is." The world is an exhibition. From the "display" of personality, we can see that people who help others in the world are not mediocre and selfish.
To help others, we must first establish a correct view of happiness and regard the well-being of others as our own obligation and happiness; Secondly, we should establish a correct view of things and put ourselves in the other's shoes. Furthermore, we should establish a correct view of knowing and doing, exercise and practice in the big class of society, and cast our own good moral quality through Qian Qian's thousands of practices.
A person's ability varies greatly, but with the virtue of helping others, he can become "a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, a person who is free from vulgar tastes and a person who is beneficial to the people"