This sentence comes from Feng Menglong's "Awakening the World", which means that the house leaks, but it rains all night, so I miss the time when I take the boat, catch up with the headwind, drive more slowly, and feel extremely anxious.
Feng Menglong
In this case, anyone will smile bitterly. This is like, when people are unlucky, things that go wrong will happen one after another, and drinking saliva can plug their teeth.
Everyone will have a trough, and troubles will continue. At this time, whatever collapses, don't collapse, face it with a smile, and be patient to solve it. Never be impulsive and break the jar.
There is a trough and there is a pick-up period. Stick to it and handle things carefully and seriously, so as to usher in a pick-up. After these blows and devastation, your ability to resist setbacks will certainly be enhanced and your life will make qualitative progress.
second, the world needs gold to make friends, but not much gold is not deep.
This sentence comes from Zhang Wei's "The Master of the Wall", which means that most people make friends in the secular world with interests as the link. If there are few interests, the friendship will naturally not be too deep.
it's not cruel, but this is the reality.
Sima Qian also said in Historical Records: All the world is bustling for profit, and all the world is bustling for profit.
Sima Qian
When we lose power, don't expect too much from some friends who have interests involved. The more we expect, the more disappointed we will be. At this moment, most people are avoiding you.
Of course, you can't rule out having sincere friends to help you, but most people are interested in profit. In times of adversity, you should understand that the only thing you can rely on is yourself.
Third, human feelings are as thin as paper, and the world is as new as a chess game.
This poem comes from "Zengguang Xianwen", which translates as: people's feelings are as thin as paper, and things develop like chess. If you lose this game, you will soon have the next one.
We should know that people's hearts can't stand malicious speculation and testing. Sometimes a little thing can tear people's faces. We should know how to cherish and support the world, instead of just taking and squeezing.
When the situation is grim, people will only remember the final victory. When you are defeated, just accept it frankly. Don't have too many sighs and complaints. Taking the next step is the most important thing.
Fourth, if you see it, you will be destroyed. If you see it well, you will be evil.
It comes from Wen Zi Fuyan, which means that when people have a certain reputation, When a person's good deeds appear, there will be malicious speculation behind them.
It is human nature that the more reputable people and people who do good deeds fall into adversity, the more malicious speculation and malicious slander there will be.
After all, most people are jealous. When they see that others are getting along better than themselves, they will feel unhappy. Once they catch an opportunity for others to lose power, they will definitely seize it and publicize it.