2. Learning to accept disability is the maturity of life. No one is perfect, and regret is the normal state of life. There are successes and failures in life, and there are ups and downs. No one can be blessed and dominate the sky. You can't have your cake and eat it, which is the helplessness of life. Mature people can face all imperfections indifferently, so they don't insist, try their best and live with fate. Pursuing perfection is a beautiful ideal, and accepting imperfection is a beautiful mentality.
There is no perfect choice once and for all in this world. You can't have both flowers and fruits. You can't get all the benefits. You should learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up something, and then you can get something. You should learn to accept the deformity and sadness of life, and then, be calm. Because this is life.
Life is mostly dull repetition, and those who live happily are those who remain dull and know how to be grateful. We are always too busy to feel life and enjoy happiness. Struggle, struggle, busy chasing for a lifetime, even if you please the whole world, it is your heart that is ultimately wronged. Not satisfied, not letting go, makes a good life miserable. Be open-minded and pessimistic. Nothing in life is more important than happiness.
One day, you will smile and say something that makes you sad. Same thing, different time, different mood, different attitude. Therefore, no matter what grievances you suffer, you don't have to be sad whether you will come or not. Instead, we should calm down and think about it from another angle. You will find that there are not many things in the world worth sacrificing your mood and health. Mentality determines life. If you keep a good attitude, life will be full of happiness.
6. Everything that appears in life can't be owned, only experienced. We are just passers-by of time, and one day, we will say goodbye to everything. Those who know this well will understand that there is no loss, just passing by; It doesn't matter what you get, it's just an experience. After that, no matter how beautiful, it can only be memories; Cherish what you get, and say goodbye calmly when you lose it.
7. Life needs "zero". Every once in a while, you should "clear" the past and let yourself start over. Don't let the past become a burden to the present. Only by traveling light can we go further. The human mind is like a container. After a long time, there will be sediment in it. We should always empty the sediment of the mind, put it down when it is time to put it down, and forget what we should forget. Clear away the rubbish in your heart and refresh yourself every day in order to be reborn.
8. Life is like this. If you are with sunny people, your heart will not be gloomy. I am also very happy.