Self-improvement ethics, that is, Confucius repeatedly emphasized "self-seeking". The so-called "self-improvement" and the so-called "self-seeking" mainly emphasize the following contents:
First, self-improvement first requires self-reliance, establishes the concept of relying on oneself and not relying on others, completely breaks away from the enslavement mentality of blindly relying on others, and draws a line with the luck mentality of relying on others' gifts, and puts personal interests and happiness on the basis of one's own efforts. Strive for your own interests, without asking others to do it, without asking others for gifts. This is because the interests won by others are not real personal interests, and the dependence formed by the all-encompassing complex will eventually turn into dependency and form a new slavery relationship. Therefore, the standard of self-improvement requires not only oneself, but also others not to step in. Self-reliance requires autonomy, that is, being responsible for yourself, taking responsibility for yourself, and taking your destiny into your own hands. Of course, the autonomy we are talking about is by no means self-enclosed, but emphasizes that the main aspect of contradiction lies in itself and the main responsibility lies in itself. Friendship and assistance are secondary and auxiliary in striving for their own interests. At the same time, only by self-reliance can we win friendship and assistance.
Second, the standard of self-improvement requires self-confidence, self-confidence, full understanding of yourself and confidence in your own strength. Only a confident person can be independent and have no illusions about others. People who are attached to others are often people who lack self-confidence. Confidence is power, and power comes from confidence. People shrink because they lose confidence, and people stand on their own feet because they have confidence. Self-confidence is not arrogance, narcissism, self-confidence is based on a comprehensive understanding of yourself. Self-confidence is not thinking that you can do anything, but trusting in your courage, confidence and perseverance to overcome difficulties, and trusting that you will do as well as possible. The essence of self-confidence is a self-sworn determination. Confidence is not distrust of others. On the contrary, people who fully trust comrades and the environment will have real self-confidence. Full knowledge and understanding of the surrounding conditions and environment, and respect for friendship and support are the conditions for building self-confidence. People with self-confidence will persist in their sense of autonomy and the development of their own potential. Self-improvement norms depend on the support of self-confidence, which is an essential element of self-improvement norms.
thirdly, the standard of self-improvement inevitably requires self-encouragement, self-encouragement, self-encouragement and self-encouragement. That is to stimulate their enthusiasm, as their own power source, to start their own, self-starter. Whether it is self-determination or self-confidence, it is bound to stay in action, stay in a positive attitude towards life, and stay in a hopeful and passionate life development. A promising philosophy of life, an optimistic attitude towards life, positive pioneering actions and high-spirited spirit are the real meaning of "self-improvement". Not pessimistic, not decadent, not giving up, mobilizing the activity energy contained in your whole life to create life.
fourthly, self-improvement requires self-reproach. Self-reproach is self-reproach and courage to take responsibility. In social life, there are successes and failures, gains and losses, glory and humiliation, luck and misfortune. Self-improvement requires that success or failure, gain or loss, honor or disgrace, good fortune or misfortune should be attributed to oneself, and that we should not blame heaven or treat others, and find the reasons from our own aspects. External cause is the condition of change, internal cause is the basis of change, and external cause works through internal cause. Although everyone knows this truth, it has become common sense, but when it comes to personal experiences, especially when it comes to unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory situations, some people will blame leaders, colleagues and objective conditions, and attribute personal setbacks to the objective environment, or they will be angry with others, and they will be suspicious. Or from resentment to depression, self-abandonment, broken pots and broken falls, willing to degenerate without knowing it, thus self-destructing the future. Complaining about others in the face of difficulties and setbacks is a fear and cowardice of difficulties, a doubt and distrust of one's own ability, and a long ambition of others to destroy one's prestige. This kind of cognitive attribution will cause frustration and self-atrophy. A self-reliant person must be a person who dares to blame himself; Only those who dare to blame themselves can be self-reliant.
The norm of self-improvement is not only the norm of personal cultivation, but it is usually used at three levels. First, a country and a nation should have the spirit of self-improvement. Second, the norms of self-improvement are used at the level of groups. Every unit must strive for self-improvement in order to be invincible. Third, self-improvement norms should be used in personal morality, and self-improvement should be achieved in the journey of life.
Famous sayings
● If you are strong enough, you are unprecedented (Scott Fitzgerald)
● Strong people are easy to be strong, just as weak people are easy to be weak (Emerson)
● People who are not afraid of pain are strong, and those who are not afraid of death are stronger-(Mrs. diane)
● The most obvious sign of great people. It is a strong will (UK)
● Self-confidence and self-reliance are the pillars of strength (UK)
● Strong people can struggle in the storm of fate (UK)
● Tenacity is the secret of a writer's skills (Jack London)
● Tenacity can lead people to happiness (Turkey)
● Strong faith will win strong people, and then. Only a strong-willed person can reach the other shore (Ma Zaisi)
Victory belongs to the persevering person (Britain)
Failure is the final test of perseverance (Bismarck)
Perseverance is the best assistant of will (Europe)
Career is often made of perseverance, but it is destroyed by impatience (Iran)
Hard work and perseverance make mulberry leaves. It will also make people become strong and powerful-(Gorky)
Due to courage and tenacity, inevitable disasters will be conquered (Europe)
Perseverance can overcome strength (Africa)
Great undertakings are rooted in persistent work, which is carried out with full spirit and does not avoid hardship (Rosso)
● Men stand firm. Take innovation as the way (Tang Liu Yuxi)
● There are many difficulties in front of us. Since ancient times, men have been striving for self-improvement (Tang Li Xianyong)
● Self-improvement is the starting point, and the achievement is sincere and interest-free (Qing Jin Ying)
● There is no skill to win others except self-blame, and there is no skill to win others except self-improvement
● Zhi Gang is the way to be a great monarch (Qing Kang Youwei)
● A gentleman respects those who are in his own place, but does not admire those who are in heaven, and makes progress with the day < Xunzi >
● Self-improvement, like honor, is an island without a beach (taking a broken warehouse)
● You know, how admirable it is to be able to maintain self-improvement in a difficult situation! (Longfellow)
● Self-improvement is the mother of luck (Germany)
About self-improvement sentence
1: Self-improvement is striving for progress, and it is an infinite vision and unremitting pursuit for a better future;
2: Self-improvement is striving for progress, and it is proudly tall and straight when the storm strikes;
3: self-improvement is down-to-earth, indomitable, step by step towards lofty ideals;
4: Self-improvement is contempt for difficulties, response to setbacks, yearning and longing for success;
5: Self-improvement is the driving force to struggle in the storm of fate and the mainstay to struggle in the cruel reality;
6: Self-improvement is the ultimate ambition of a willing mind, and it is the heroic spirit of a painstaking person who can swallow Wu with three thousand armor.
7: Self-improvement is the eternal swan song written by Su Shi, a literary giant, after being demoted, and it is a masterpiece in the hands of Pu Songling, a scholar who fell behind.
8: Self-improvement is the courage and courage to drop your sweat, eat your own food, do your own thing, and go forward bravely;
9: Self-improvement is the determination to "see success or failure, life is heroic, just start all over again", and it is the belief to cheer up, make up your mind and overcome all difficulties;
1: Self-improvement is a bright ethics that can't be overwhelmed by difficulties, and the dangers are fearless.
Life story about self-reliance and self-improvement
Zhang Haidi encourages disabled friends to stand on their own feet
Shenzhen Legal News (Reporter Li Wen and Zhang Dingping) "I have a dream that one day in several years, all disabled friends can live like healthy people, yes. This is what Zhang Haidi said when he had face-to-face communication with more than 1 disabled people in six districts of the city yesterday.
Yesterday, the Municipal Disabled Persons' Federation held a forum in Wuzhou Hotel to celebrate the 15th National Day for Helping the Disabled. Writer Zhang Haidi and Ping Huang, deputy director of the Institute of Social Sciences of China Academy of Social Sciences, attended the forum.
Zhang Haidi said: "There have been disabled people since human beings. They are the natural existence of human society. The construction of a harmonious society is closely related to the cause of the disabled. Shenzhen is a city at the forefront of reform and opening up, and the development of the cause of disabled people in Shenzhen will provide reference for other parts of the country. "
Ma Jingyang, a blind massage worker in Luohu Commercial City, told reporters after listening to Zhang Haidi's words: "I am 26 years old. I grew up listening to Zhang Haidi's deeds, and her spirit has been inspiring me. If a disabled person wants to contribute to society, he will have to pay more hardships than a healthy person. As a young man, I will do my best to do my job, keep learning and face life bravely. " Twenty deaf-mute students from Shenzhen Yuanping Special Education School attended the symposium. A deaf-mute student named Lu Jinhui wrote in the reporter's interview book: "I am very happy to see Zhang Haidi today. She is a writer and I will become a useful person to society in the future."
Zhang Haidi, a member of Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, and other members of Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference * * * have put forward a motion this year, proposing to rename "National Day for Helping the Disabled" as "National Day for Self-improvement of the Disabled". She said: "Disabled people are vulnerable groups in society and need people's care and help; However, disabled people should also give full play to all their abilities in society, instead of blindly accepting help. The expression' self-improvement day' can inspire disabled friends to stand on their own feet and cherish their lives. If disabled people are well integrated into society, society will become more harmonious. "
Gao Jianwei, Party Secretary and Chairman of the Municipal Disabled Persons' Federation, attended the forum. In an interview with reporters, she said: "This year, the Municipal Disabled Persons' Federation will do more work in improving the Shenzhen Special Preferential Measures for the Disabled and arranging employment for the disabled, and create a social environment that understands and cares for the disabled at multiple levels."