Because they have the idea that men are superior to women in the old society.
What are the invisible characteristics of men who commit domestic violence? one. Characteristics of domestic violence men: Easily lose control of their emotions at home. Many people believe that violent men tend to lose control of their emotions and have impulsive personalities. But in fact, I have seen many men who are impulsive and may start a fight with others at any time. When they get home, they never touch their wives' fingers. Some soldiers and career-oriented strongmen are very domineering and easily emotional outside, but they don't touch their wives when they get home. Therefore, in terms of men, losing control of emotions cannot be classified into one category, because losing control is also different.
The men most at risk of domestic violence are those who "are prone to losing control at home". You can observe that men who suddenly abuse their wives at home, men who throw and smash things at home, and men who quickly take their wives away in anger are basically prone to domestic violence.
The first time I experienced domestic violence, I decided to break up. When he hits you for the first time, he must make up his mind to break up with you as soon as possible. Some men will hit their girlfriends when they are in love. Although this type of person will later cry to you, ask for forgiveness, and promise not to do it again, they will definitely do it and fight more and more often. Therefore, no matter how much you love him, you deserve to suffer. Otherwise, your forbearance is a signal to him: It's okay to hit me, I will forgive you. Research shows that the longer a spanking lasts, the more difficult it is to escape the violence. Because he has become accustomed to your obedience, not fighting back, and not fighting back when scolded. Suddenly one day you want to break up with him, he will think this is a huge challenge to his "dignity". Because he cannot bear the betrayal of his tamed "subjects", he will use more violence to prevent your departure, which may eventually lead to tragedy.