Romanloli said that a mother's love is a huge flame. Love is so deep and passionate, although I don't ask for anything in return, I am sometimes selfish. In particular, it is not easy for some single-parent mothers to bring up their sons themselves. It is also human nature to worry that after their sons get married, they will only listen to their daughters-in-law and will no longer be filial to themselves. The mother-in-law is worried that her son's love will be divided, which will cause prejudice to her daughter-in-law. Under such circumstances, the daughter-in-law is only filial piety, and it is difficult for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live in harmony. Because my mother-in-law is afraid, afraid, and insecure. Mother-in-law is not very kind to her daughter-in-law, which is probably due to her defective personality.
Some mothers-in-law have a little problem in their personality, for example, they are a little self-centered, and they will put their own rights and interests at the forefront, and they are used to doing things for themselves. Some mother-in-law even get along with her daughter-in-law with the mentality of "soothing" her daughter-in-law, and seek her true identity as the hostess at home, so that she can remain stable and long-term. With such a selfish mother-in-law, she may show fault-finding and harsh daughter-in-law.
When taking care of children, there may also be actions to slander their mothers behind their backs. But if the mother-in-law has too much misconduct, it is probably not. Only the mother-in-law wants to prove her dominance in the family in this way. Therefore, the mother-in-law is not very kind to her daughter-in-law, not necessarily because her daughter-in-law is not filial. It may be that her mother-in-law has a problem with her own personality, and there is also a problem of bad relationship between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, which has caused contradictions between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law. But no matter what the reason, the complicated mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are easy to harm the daughter-in-law, and it is easier to harm the healthy and happy growth of children. Like Ms. Zheng and Ms. Feng, the treasure mother who left me messages, one is married but afraid to give birth during pregnancy, and the other is jealous by her mother-in-law every day, and she is worried about the health of her child. Bao mother is very tired.
Contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have great negative effects, which will not only harm the daughter-in-law herself, but also affect the children. There are contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which have a far-reaching impact on children and have great negative effects. There is a famous saying that, mom, where you are, you are the happiest place. In a child's heart, his mother is the one who loves him the most. Where is my mother? What did my mother say? What did my mother say by my grandmother? Is my mother happy every day? These things are likely to be particularly important on the children's side, and even the children are most concerned about things.
Therefore, in family life, once there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the child will be unhappy, whether the mother quarrels violently, or vents her head in tears, or takes it out on the child and is not confident and sad. All the emotions of the mother will seriously affect the child, leaving a serious shadow for the child, unhappy as a child, and the adverse effects are very great.