Don't compare with others, live your life indifferently, don't be vigorous, just feel at ease.
3. Cherishing life and loving life also requires us to stay away from vulgarity and bad temptations, not to compare with others, wear famous brands, eat and drink. Do what primary school students should do, strictly abide by school rules and disciplines, take daily behavior norms as a guide to action, always concentrate on learning, strive to improve personal literacy, and always maintain a noble, positive and optimistic heart.
4. Don't compare with others. Envy others. And neglected their own happy life. The same you. Perhaps it is also envied by others.
A person, whether you are beautiful or not, must have something that others can't take away, an independent mind, an independent economy and an independent personality. Never envy others. You are the protagonist of your life.
6. Do what you should do and learn your skills according to your own wishes.
7. Don't struggle, don't compete, don't force, don't believe, don't imitate, just be yourself.
8. You are unique, so why keep up with others blindly.
9. As long as you have a reasonable thing to do, your life will be particularly beautiful.
10. Comparing with others is a person's character. Unhappy shadows will hang over you, and the ending will be very annoying and painful. Only if you don't compare with others can your life be relaxed, relaxed and happy. You don't envy other people's villas and gardens, because you also have a beautiful yard. Go your own way and you will be happy in your heart.
1 1. The tiredness of life comes from survival and comparison.
12. What do people live so tired for, money? Love? Responsibility? Heart abuse? Obligation? Compare? having self-respect
13. Being a man should have a normal heart, superficial envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation, which will only make you live in the shadow of others all day.
14. How to live in this life is to live, and how to live in this life is to live. Don't compare life with others.
15. People can't compare with each other. It's really cruel. People can't compare with others, and people can't compare with their own past. What do you mean, the castle peak can't be covered, after all, it flows east? The mirror will tell you slowly.
16. Don't think too well about life, you will fall down heavily, and don't think too badly about life, you will lose the courage to live. The real heroic significance of life is to love life after seeing the truth of life clearly.
17. Don't compare, don't complain, don't care, try again! More tolerance, more understanding, more pay, everything depends on yourself! Come on, let's go!
18. The stronger a person is, the less it is necessary to dispute with you, because it is not worth wasting your time at all. Don't say those disgusting things just because of some trivial things. It's really vulgar
19. As a newcomer on a long career path, communication is very important. Treat colleagues and customers politely, speak politely, work hard seriously, and express yourself without pride. I wish you a smooth and successful career.
20. Don't compare, remember that there are days ahead, and comparison will only make your life more and more bumpy and unhappy!
Sentences that are not easy to compare with others (Part II) 2 1. Disciple asked the master: How to understand forever? A: Everyone thinks it will be a long way. Actually, it may be too short for you to see. Q: Life is too tiring. How should I relax? A: Tiredness comes partly from survival and partly from desire and comparison. Q: What do you mean, down to earth? A: As long as your feet are still on the ground, don't underestimate yourself. As long as you live on earth, don't take yourself too seriously.
22. She also said: Jealousy will also make you unwilling to work, only concentrate on comparing with others, and finally collapse in inferiority and ruin your career.
23. In life, we always run on our own life path and strive for development. It is inevitable that there will be comparisons in the competition, and no one wants to be trampled on by others; I met someone who was busy at the same time on the road. Naturally, I closed my heart, put up a fake sign and smiled, and said to that person, you see, I am relaxed, I have a good life, at least, I have a better life than you; However, if you say so, I will do the same, put on a mask, whether it's Li Kui jy of Tota or Zihag, and then laugh. Are you better than me? This is a daydream. Hum, ride a donkey and read a song book.
Don't compare yourself with others. The sun and the moon are not comparable. They all shine in their own time!
25. Success = efforts+correct methods+less empty talk.
26. What can you do? Is to adapt to the environment and life. Don't get into trouble. Don't compare with others. Own.
27. With a simple heart, go your own way, see your own scenery and live your own life. Don't envy others' brilliance, and don't envy others' brilliance. You know, while you envy others, others are envious of you.
28. Keep up with others in everything and don't set a trap for yourself. Don't compare with others in life, it is happiness to suit yourself.
29. You've all grown up like this. How dare you compete?
30. There is only one life. Don't blindly compare with others, don't compare with others, live your own life, live your own life. If you relax, you will feel better.
3 1. I never take comfort and happiness as the purpose of life itself-this ethical basis, I call it the ideal of pigsty.
32. Better be yourself than envy others. Shallow envy, boring comparison and clumsy imitation will only make you live in the shadow of others all day.
33. Fashion is not equal to fashion. Fashion is a tacky comparison, not a follow-up.
34. Don't blindly compare and imitate, and don't mechanically copy some decoration examples or decoration atlases;
35. Being a man is inevitable. Try not to compare, don't compare with anyone. Do your best; Do your best; Live this life seriously and freely.
36. Eat as much as you can, don't envy, don't be vain, don't compare with others, pay attention to your heart, your body and your relationship with others.
37. complaining blindly will make people look ferocious, don't care about gains and losses, don't want to compare with others or envy others, be the best yourself and become the one you like in your heart.
38. The blessings of people with good intentions are incalculable. Don't compare, learn not to be greedy or extravagant, to be peaceful and quiet, and to be contented.
39. The tiredness of life comes partly from survival and partly from comparison.
40. Just as every gold ornament is precious, so is every moment.
Forty-two sentences calling on college students not to compare.
A sentence calling on college students not to compare with others 1. Don't compare with others, adjust your mentality and live a good life.
2. The dark contrast in the summer camp changed the taste of "Fu Bi Camp" and "Summer Tourism".
Only when people devote themselves to society can we find the meaning of that short and risky life.
4. People should compare with themselves, not others.
Happiness depends on how you treat it. Don't haggle over every ounce, everything in the world, you want millions, you have more, you bear more, you are simple, the world is simple; Don't care too much, how many tragedies are caused by comparison, and living your own life is more important than anything else; Don't suppress it for too long. What's wrong with missing your own madness and losing it? The quieter the wind, the clearer the rain, and the correct attitude, life is not easy to tilt.
6. Don't depend on others for everything. In this world, you can rely on yourself the most. In most cases, you can only help yourself.
7. Don't compare wealth with others, be resentful, bureaucratic and lose confidence. Don't compare yourself with others, or you will become stupid.
8. In your life, there will always be someone who will make you feel pain, laugh and feel lost. Finally, you will find that this person who makes you feel pain, makes you laugh and makes you feel overwhelmed has actually melted into your blood, and can be clearly felt with every heartbeat. Wear your own shoes, don't blindly compare with others, and don't cut your feet to fit your shoes. The key is suitable for feet, the key is easy to walk, and go out of your own way.
9. Don't compare with others, so you will live easily. As long as you work hard, you will live a happy life.
10. What do people live so tired for, money? Love? Responsibility? Heart abuse? Obligation? Compare? having self-respect
1 1. You can also like and let go, be kind to yourself and love yourself. Every day is beautiful. Not jealous or envious. Careful observation reveals that life is beautiful. Those who smile calmly are always lucky!
12. Life must be brilliant in the sun, run in the wind and rain, and find the best of yourself without complaining, laughing or enviing!
13. Believe in beauty, pursue beauty, don't envy anyone, don't please anyone, the rest of your life is not long, be kind to yourself, be content with the present and work hard for the future. Long life, ups and downs, long years and hard work.
14. People who are better than themselves should not be jealous, people who are equal should not compete with others, and people who are inferior to themselves should not despise insults. There should be no jealousy and no kindness.
15. What you can do is to adapt to the environment and life, don't fall into a dead end, don't compare with others, and your life should be wonderful.
16. Neighbors who love to compare take "being different" seriously.
17. Okay, I understand. No helplessness, no comparison, no jealousy. Life is a war without smoke, relying on confidence, strength and persistence. A temporary failure will make people more aware of the direction and ultimate goal. In the future, as long as you are willing to work hard and pay, you will be able to get rid of the haze and see the dawn of expectation.
18. Do parents think school is a good place? It will make your children smoke, drink, fight and fall in love with others.
19. Just as every gold ornament is precious, so is every moment.
20. Don't envy others' smooth roads. You can't see the suffering of others from the beginning, and you can't envy what others have. Live your life, good or bad.
2 1. Anyone who takes a rash attitude towards the truth in small matters is also untrustworthy in big matters. -Einstein
Call on college students not to compare. 22. People only compare themselves with others in this life.
23. The tiredness of life comes partly from survival and partly from comparison. Many times we don't live for ourselves, but for "face". Most people's troubles are not because they are not satisfied with what they lack, but because of the imbalance of "others are better than themselves" Therefore, we should learn to face life with a contented attitude and understand that everyone's happiness is different.
24. "It turns out that tears can last forever, but heaven can't compare with your smile at me."
25. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be carefree; Don't set your life goals too high.
26. Life has a life, wealth is in the sky, let nature take its course. No entanglement, no comparison, no envy. Satisfied people, people with feelings and people with dreams are happy every day.
27. Many people will envy others or compare others, thus causing more troubles. In fact, people can't be compared with each other, and they can't easily judge others, because everyone has their own life.
28. Always keep a clear head. Don't go with the flow, don't be emotional, don't argue, don't rob, don't complain, don't envy, don't destroy. Life is a sea of people, people come and go, self-respect and self-love.
29. Don't compare with others. We have to be ourselves all our lives.
30. Financial cadres should adhere to the "Four Essentials" and "Four Don 'ts", be diligent in business study, be sincere to others, not just be superior, be calm and not easily compare with others.
3 1. Happiness and happiness go hand in hand. Happiness is actually very simple. We don't need deliberate comparison and disguise. Facing life, a simple smile is obviously a kind of happiness and warmth; Facing life, sincerity and persistence are obviously a kind of happiness and warmth.
When we were young, we didn't know how difficult things were. Because our living environment is too comfortable, some students go to the misunderstanding of life, put aside their studies, compare themselves with others at will, indulge in fantasy and hesitate. Everyone knows that time is the fastest, slowest, longest, shortest, most ordinary, most precious, most easily overlooked and most easily regretted in the world. People who have made outstanding contributions to mankind, at all times and all over the world, all started from grasping today.
33. Many troubles in life stem from our blind comparison with others and forgetting to enjoy our own life.
34. Don't compare, remember that there are days ahead, and comparison will only make your life more and more bumpy and unhappy!
35. What I learned at school: swearing, copying homework, comparing, rebellion, puppy love and fighting.
36. Invention is one percent cleverness and ninety-nine percent diligence. Edison
37. I know whether it is good or not. No helplessness, no comparison, no jealousy. Life is a war without smoke, relying on confidence, strength and persistence. A temporary failure will make people see the direction and ultimate goal more clearly. In the future, as long as you are willing to work hard and pay, you will be able to get rid of the haze and see the dawn of hope.
38. The tiredness of life stems from survival and comparison.
39. If you don't compare with others, you won't envy others. People deserve to die, and the goods should be thrown away. Blind comparison is very tiring, and you will lose your original ideal.
40. What can you do? Is to adapt to the environment and life. Don't get into trouble. Don't compare with others. Own.
4 1. Everything depends on yourself and you need help urgently. What you can solve by yourself can be solved. If it can't be solved, that's it. Don't envy, don't be jealous, don't compare with others, live your own small life, adjust your mentality, continue to live such a simple life, and don't compete with the world.
42. As long as you are better than yourself yesterday, it is a tragedy of life that you can't keep up with others all your life.
Sentences that advise people not to compare life with others.
Suggest people not to compare their lives with others (I) 1. Everyone's life is different, and everyone's life trajectory is different. Don't compare with others, only with yourself.
2. Do things well, work hard to make money, learn to take responsibility, and learn to abandon unnecessary burdens. Life is too short to care too much. It is better to spend the rest of your life in comfort than to spend a year in chaos.
Don't compare yourself with others, each has its own reasons.
4. People should compare with themselves, not others.
5. People should follow less blindly and wake up more; Compare less and work harder; Less care, more tolerance; Less gain and loss, more open-minded and calm.
6. Don't compare with others, just be yourself.
7. Don't compare life with others, pursue different things, live in different ways, laugh when you are happy, and rest when you are tired.
8. Man is a gregarious animal, and he is always influenced by things around him, keeping up with the joneses. It is one of the derivatives. People like to climb high by stepping on other people's heads, especially men in officialdom and women at banquets.
9. Don't depend on others for everything. In this world, you can rely on yourself the most. In most cases, you can only help yourself.
10. Because you have been running by yourself and never competed with others. Remember, don't compete with others, because the only person you want to win is yourself.
1 1. Learn to release yourself, don't compare with others, don't compare with others, and enjoy yourself. This is the attitude of being a man.
12. The work is very good. Life is beautiful. You can't go with the flow. Don't compare with others. Only compare with yourself. Today is better than yesterday.
13. I hate those who only sow discord, compare envy every day and make up stories for others.
14. Don't envy others' brilliance, don't compare with others' brilliance, don't envy others' success, never. If you must measure the gap between others and you, please look at your own scale.
15. Xiaohua is simple and never wears high-end brand clothes with her classmates.
16. financial cadres should adhere to the "four musts" and "four don 'ts", be diligent in business study, be honest with others, not be supercilious, have a calm mind and not easily compare with others.
17. Happiness depends on how you treat it. Don't haggle over every ounce, everything in the world, you want millions, you have more, you bear more, you are simple, the world is simple; Don't care too much, how many tragedies are caused by comparison, and living your own life is more important than anything else; Don't suppress it for too long. What's wrong with missing your own madness and losing it? The quieter the wind, the clearer the rain, and the correct attitude, life is not easy to tilt.
18. Comparing fame and fortune will only increase people's troubles, and those who compare careers will definitely enhance people's will and confidence.
Sentence advising people not to compare their lives with others (Part II) 19. Sunflowers are growing day by day. From time to time, new leaves will appear in the lovely little head, and the color is emerald green. These sun stems are too long, one after another, crowded together, competing and supporting each other. When the sunflowers grow to the height of 10 cm, I will cut them in half. Only after this treatment can the sunflowers grow better and look more beautiful.
20. The important thing is to live a full life. Living well every day is the greatest happiness, and happiness comes from being in a good mood every day. Always worried about the risks of tomorrow, always unable to erase the shadow of yesterday, how can today's life be satisfactory? Always compare those who can't be compared, always fantasize about those who can't be realized, how can today's mind be quiet? Anything unrealistic is the source of pain, and the biggest killer in life is sadness and anxiety.
2 1. Koukou is no longer a chat tool. It has become a tool to compare and show off.
22. Go your own way, look at your own scenery, think about your own problems, don't always stare at others, always envy others' brilliance, envy others' brilliance. What is dark is your heart, what is lost is your time, and what is worn away is your personality.
23. A world in a grain of sand and a heaven in a flower. Cherish what you have and ignore what you don't have. Tiny happiness is around, and no comparison is heaven. Happiness comes from a good attitude of self-gratitude.
24. "It turns out that tears can last forever, but heaven can't compare with your smile at me."
25. Believe in yourself, follow your heart and intuition, don't blindly follow the creed, and don't blindly compare with others, you will be the happiest.
26. The school has taught many good children to curse, copy homework, rebel against puppy love, fight, poke people in the spine and know many dogs.
27. All girls who have reached the age of love are always divided into two categories: one category says that loving each other more is happy; The other school says that the other person loves me a little more, which is happiness. Maybe, we are all wrong. The form and weight of love have never been set in our hearts. What kind of love will you have when you meet a man?
28. Don't compare with people who are a little better than yourself. Compare with people who are much better than yourself. The last sentence stung my heart.
29. Be a happy person, savor life instantly, compare less with others, don't pay too much attention to money, have a long-term goal, take the initiative to work, make friends and cherish your family. Even if you are unhappy, you should say thank you sincerely with a smile, go out to exercise and make contributions, and do it now.
After a long time, the sun still rises in the east every day. Therefore, it is better to go down than to go up; It is better to entertain yourself than to bother yourself; It is easier to make up for the deficiency, and it is just as easy to make up for it.
3 1. Don't think too well of life, you will fall down heavily, and don't think too badly of life, you will lose the courage to live. The real heroic significance of life is to love life after seeing the truth of life clearly.
32. Happiness is the pleasure of the soul, and happiness is the satisfaction of the soul. Life is not a feast of material desires, but the cultivation of the soul.
33. Never compare life with others. Life is your own. Laugh when you are hungry and laugh when you are happy. If you are tired, you can have a rest. The purpose of life is to be stable and practical.
34. Everything in life should be tried and experienced. Equality between men and women, there is no saying that who can and can't do it. As long as you work hard and laugh it off, it will be a wonderful life for you.
35. Being a man does not compare life with others, but always stares at others' lives and can't see his own happiness.
36. Don't live in the evaluation of others, don't blindly compare with others, develop strengths and avoid weaknesses, improve self-awareness and don't underestimate yourself.
Sentences that advise people not to compare their lives with others (Chapter III) 37. Think a thousand times, it is better to do it once; It is better to practice once than to hesitate 10 thousand times. Gorgeous waterfalls are better than meaningless wandering. Only by taking the first step can the harvest stop!
38. If you want to be happy, you must calm your impetuous heart, don't compare with others, and do what you like towards your own goals.
39. Keep up with others in everything and don't set a trap for yourself. Don't compare with others in life, it is happiness to suit yourself.
40. Don't compare, remember that there are days ahead, and comparison will only make your life more and more bumpy and unhappy!
4 1. People who live a full life are easy to be happy. Happiness comes from feeling good every day. They are always worried about the risks of tomorrow and can't erase the shadow of yesterday. How can we satisfy today's life? Always compare those who can't be compared and always fantasize about those who can't be realized. How can it be quiet today? Anything unrealistic is the source of pain, and pain comes from inadequacy. If you live a full life, you won't think about it. Try to live every day well, and our life will naturally be full of sunshine. Be too competitive and be yourself.
42. God said that it is foolish to compare yourself with others.
I always feel that the vulgar goals that people strive for-property, vanity and luxurious life-are contemptible.
44. Many people's sufferings are the result of comparison with others.
The dark contrast in the summer camp changed the flavor of "Fu Bi Camp" and "Summer Tourism".
46. Don't be jealous, don't compare, don't be angry with yourself; Eat less salt, be jealous, walk more without playing mahjong; Go to bed at ten o'clock, get up at five o'clock, go to bed early and get up early to be healthy; Three meals a day, seven or eight full; Put your troubles behind you.
47. Don't compare with others, be a different person.
48. The grass in early summer is not so delicate and lovely as the grass in spring, nor so lush as the grass in summer. But it has its own unique side. In that vast land, they worked hard to grow up in groups and compare with each other, all wanting to be bright stars that summer. Warm wind makes wheat fragrant, and green grass wins flowers. It's really sunny.
49. As long as you have a reasonable thing to do, your life will be particularly beautiful.
50. Everyone is jealous. Seeing other people's achievements or good luck, their personality is the people around them, and there will always be jealousy. In fact, being jealous of others is a very uneconomical thing, which is equivalent to pinning your happiness on others. If others are unsuccessful, unhappy and excellent, you will be happy. Doesn't this mean torturing yourself with the success of others? Life is tired, half from survival and half from comparison.
5 1. In Qiu Lai, Sophora japonica didn't produce numerous fruits and yellow leaves, but it still couldn't keep up with the competition.
52. Don't envy others' happiness. What you think you don't have may be on the way, and what you think she has may be on the way. Some people are nice to you because you are nice to him. Some people are nice to you because they know your kindness.
53. If the water is turbid again, it will be exceptionally clear as long as it has been precipitated for a long time; No matter how stupid a person is, as long as he makes enough efforts, he can rewrite the direction of fate.
40 beautiful sentences about dreams and life
A beautiful sentence about dreams and life 1. We have nothing but youth and love. There is room in reality/dreams are hard to realize/we wake up and suddenly realize/we are always next to happiness.
2. Dreams are by no means dreams, and the difference between them usually has a distance worth pondering. -Gu Long
3. Ideal is a rational thought, a reasonable thought, which can be realized. From different angles, ideals can be divided into many types: scientific ideals and non-scientific ideals; Lofty ideals and universal ideals; Long-term ideal and short-term ideal; Personal ideals and social ideals, etc.
4. You don't have to say your dream out loud, but don't give up. As long as you persist, you can realize it, no matter how long it takes.
5. Three stages of life: stronger than talent; Compared with financial resources; More important than the kingdom.
6. I am a dreamer, not a dreamer, because I don't dream, I am just a delusion.
7. If you don't know the goods, you will suffer for half your life; If you don't know anyone, you will suffer for life.
8. If the ideal is sincere and persistent, it will greatly stimulate the huge potential hidden in your body and enable you to break through all difficulties and obstacles and achieve the goal of success.
9. Living with an ideal, full of social interests and a clear purpose is the most beautiful and meaningful life in the world.
10. Without ideals, we can't achieve our goals; Without courage, you can get nothing. -belinsky
1 1. Society is the sea, life is a boat, ideals and beliefs are the beacon for navigation and the sail for propulsion. During our college years, we should not only improve our knowledge, but also strengthen our lofty ideals and beliefs. However, the ideal is not equal to reality, and the realization of the ideal often has to go through a tortuous road full of difficulties and obstacles, relying on down-to-earth and unremitting struggle. Only practice is the bridge to the other side of the ideal.
12. It's pathetic that there are no ideal people in life.
13. Because banyan trees are rooted in deep soil, the longer the shade of life, the more lush it will be. Barnyardgrass enjoys the same treatment as seedlings, but it does not produce ears of grain.
14. First of all, don't confuse how to realize the dream with the dream itself.
15. The whole life is a matter of time. Only a damn dreamer will put himself in nothingness instead of grasping the fleeting time in front of him.
16. Dreams can come true as long as they persist.
17. Dreams are oases in the desert, bringing vitality to despair; Dreams are running water on the mountain, bringing passion to the silent nature.
18. A person can be poor, sleepy and humble, but he can't live without dreams. As long as you have a dream one day, you can change your situation. Oprah
19. Noble ideals will not lose value because of silence; Selfish pursuit is not great because of shouting.
We are great because of our dreams, and all the winners are saving Mr. Banks.
Beautiful sentences about dreams and life Chapter 2 2 1. Dreams are stones that knock out a single spark; Dream is a fire, lighting the extinguished lamp; Dreams are lights that illuminate the road at night; Dreams are the way to lead you to the dawn; Dreams are light, illuminating dark streets.
22. The ideal is not a delicate magnetic bowl, but it will not be repaired if it is broken; Ideal is a flower, which can bloom again after falling.
23. Dreams and glory coexist.
24. Dreams help people overcome one difficulty after another and make people realize one wish after another! It enables people to live in a progressive society! Because there are dreams, people will realize their dreams and work hard!
25. The happiest thing in the world is to fight for the ideal. -Socrates
26. Life without creation is not life, but living.
27. To realize your dream, no matter what the result is, you won't regret it as long as you work hard.
28. We are great because of our dreams. All successful people are saving Mr. Banks: by the fire in winter night, looking forward to the future in cloudy rain and fog. Some people let their dreams die quietly, while others carefully cultivate and maintain their dreams until they tide over the difficulties and usher in light and hope, which always come to those who truly believe that their dreams will come true.
29. Sometimes your dream is a kind of happiness, and sometimes your dream is also a kind of happiness.
I always believe that as long as we never give up, we still have a chance. Finally, we still firmly believe that as long as you have a dream, as long as you keep working hard, as long as you keep learning, no matter how you look, no matter this or that, a person's appearance is often inversely proportional to his talent. Today is cruel, tomorrow is more cruel, and the day after tomorrow is beautiful, but most of them will die tomorrow night, so don't give up today.
3 1. The character of waves is that they have been smashed by rocks for countless times and rushed to rocks for countless times.
32. Everyone longs for dreams to come true, but the road to dreams is often an ordinary life; Everyone longs for a dream to come true, but sometimes it's to accumulate thousands of miles.
33. Life is like building a house, and dreams are just an empty plan. It is designed and drawn by people themselves, and people need to build it brick by brick. Only when perfect drawings are matched with perfect architectural movements can we build a perfect house and live a perfect life.
If we stick to our dreams, our life will not be empty.
35. Dreams are the cradle of success. Only by constantly pursuing your dreams can you succeed.
36. Murphy: "My childhood dream was to be a primary school teacher or a teacher of university courses." In my memory, what I heard most from my teacher was: stand up and go out. Morphy: "When it comes to single-parent families, people always think that there is a lack of love, but there may be another situation where a single-parent child may be loved by a family.
37. I have my own destiny, my own dreams and my own life. Every star has its own brilliance, and now I am as dazzling as you were then.
We have nothing but youth. Dreams make me different, and struggle makes me change my destiny!
39. Winners must use their dreams to ignite others' dreams, and they are the ones who sow their dreams forever.
40. Therefore, the sky will be a great task. Therefore, people must first suffer from their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, and do things in disorder. Therefore, they must be patient and get what they can't do.