Perhaps, when Lin mentioned it, many people would think of her beautiful appearance and rich knowledge. In fact, Lin is also an understanding woman.
When he was in England, Xu Zhimo fell in love with Lin, and Lin also liked Xu Zhimo. Before long, Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo's wife, felt that Xu Zhimo had a heart. Sad, she decided to stay in Germany for a while. Knowing his wife's thoughts, Xu Zhimo decided to accompany her to Germany. On the day Zhang Youyi left, Lin went to the railway station to see him off.
After Xu Zhimo came back from Germany, he immediately went to Lin, but Lin returned to China with his father, leaving only a letter for Xu Zhimo: "The last time you went to Germany with Xiaoyi, my father and brother Xiying and I saw you off. At the moment when the train started, I saw Xiaoyi sticking his head out of the window, and I saw Xiaoyi's sad and pleading eyes. Actually, I heard that she was leaving you for Germany. I know what happened between you. I don't know the specific reason, but it won't have nothing to do with me. "
An understanding woman is smart and sober. Just like Lin, even though she is madly in love with Xu Zhimo, she can still understand the sadness and pain of Xu Zhimo's wife. In the end, she chose to break up with Xu Zhimo.
Zhang Ailing said, "Because I know, I am compassionate." If a woman can understand others, she will have a kind and compassionate heart. On the other hand, Lin has never lacked such feelings.
When Shen Congwen was in Beijing, he had financial difficulties. Lin wanted to help him, but she refused to accept her help for fear that he would lose face. So, she was considerate and thought of a good way: let her cousin Lin Xuan borrow books from Shen Congwen, and when she returned them to Shen Congwen, she quietly stuffed a few tickets in to help Shen Congwen tide over the difficulties.
Later, Zhu Lin, a fellow countryman who came to Beijing to study, met with difficulties. Lin also helped her with her own money, but she lied to her in good faith and said, "This is the money for building a society. I'll lend it to you first. "
Compared with men, women are naturally considerate, and can not only understand other people's ideas, but also give full play to their own understanding. This is a woman's innate nature. So some people say that understanding is synonymous with women.
If you don't understand naturally, you must practice the day after tomorrow. In life, no matter what happens or who you meet, you should observe and think with your heart and put yourself in the other's shoes. As long as you are considerate of others, you will naturally become an understanding woman after a long time.
Life is like riding a roller coaster. There are times to climb to the top and times to fall to the bottom. When others are unhappy, you should know how to give comfort and encouragement or help at the right time. When others encounter depressed things in life or work, please give them more understanding and understand their sufferings and joys. In life, get along with people, complain less, get angry less, understand more and help more, and you will stand out from ordinary women like a bright gem and bloom beautiful flowers!