Du Yuesheng was one of the three tycoons of the Youth Gang in old Shanghai. His statement "You cannot date men who do not smoke or drink" has some truth to it, but it is not entirely correct. Because it is obviously biased to only judge a person by smoking and drinking. To judge whether a man is mateable, you should only look at his character and how he behaves.

Of course, what Du Yuesheng means is that a man who does not smoke or drink is a man with strong self-control, and he does this deliberately. It is difficult for ordinary men to do this, so he feels that such a man should be very deep-seated and someone who hides himself deeply, so he feels that such a person cannot be interacted with. If you have a friend like this, you will easily be plotted by him. Therefore, Du Yuesheng felt that it was okay not to have sex with such a man.

So, are there any men around me who don’t smoke or drink? Yes, but they are a minority. Historical Talker classifies them as follows: 1. Men who do not smoke or drink in old age due to illness

My friend’s father-in-law was a smoker and alcoholic before he was 68 years old. Whenever they persuade him to When he quit smoking and restricted alcohol, he always said that you don’t have to eat, but you must have these two things, otherwise how can you live? Might as well die? After N attempts to exhort them to no avail, they all gave up. After that, the old man fell ill and was hospitalized for more than a month. The doctor ordered him to quit smoking and drinking. My friends thought that this should not be possible, but unexpectedly, the old man never smoked or drank again without supervision.

It must be said that in the face of disease, people’s desire to survive is so strong! There is no way to quit smoking and drinking. The key is whether the person involved is aware of the dangers. 2. My friend Xiao Jia doesn’t smoke or drink.

My friend Xiao Jia is a warm man. His wife and children are his heart and soul. He doesn’t smoke or drink. He goes home to cook and take care of his children after work. I envy him. A group of middle-aged women came together, and they all said why they never met such a good man.

However, even a good man in the eyes of others is still a loser to his wife Xiao Jia. What often criticizes Xiao Jia in front of others, from his looks to his abilities, is that he is worthless in the eyes of his wife.

That time, Xiao Jia actually had a wine shop to go to, so while pushing his bicycle, he happened to meet his wife who was returning home. He made a promise of his request and said that he would take care of her, which was definitely the case. Take care of me and I'll be back soon.

Xiao Jia’s wife kicked the rear wheel of Xiao Jia’s bicycle and went home in anger. Xiao Jia was so unprepared for the arrival that he drove the car, shook his head, and followed his wife home obediently.

Alas, Xiao Jia is a coward. 3. My friend Xiao Wang basically doesn’t smoke or drink due to health reasons

Xiao Wang has never smoked, but he basically doesn’t drink either. In fact, Xiao Wang doesn't hate wine, but there is one thing that his body doesn't allow. He is allergic to alcohol. After drinking alcohol, his face turns red like a big red cloth, which is scary at first glance. Even the people at the table with him, seeing his blushing face and thick neck, all persuaded him to put down his wine glass.

If you say so, how can Xiao Wang hold up the wine glass?

There are not many other adult men I know who do not smoke and drink. Most men smoke and drink both. A small number of men only drink and do not smoke. An even smaller number of men only smoke. Don't drink.

Often at a wine table, eight or nine out of ten men are greedy for wine glasses. Among them, there were five or six people holding cigarettes and blowing smoke. It can be said that the air at the entire wine table was turbid and people were shouting and drinking, which was very unbearable. Even those men or women who don't smoke or drink are smelling of alcohol and cigarettes when sitting next to them. Even after returning home, the smell on the clothes lingered for a long time, and they had to be washed in the washing machine.

So, if I follow Du Yuesheng’s theory, can all the men around me be married? Obviously this is not true. And can we date men who don’t smoke or drink? Obviously this is not true either. Therefore, I do not agree with Du Yuesheng's statement.

To sum up, there may be many dimensions to evaluate whether a man is dating, but whether he smokes or drinks should never be used to judge whether he is dating.