Abandon impetuosity and move forward. Impetuousness is a big demonic obstacle entrenched in people's hearts. When it leads people gradually away from success, it also creates a tombstone made of regret. Here, impetuosity is the epitaph of the loser. An impetuous person is like a bamboo shoot in the mountains - a sharp mouth, thick skin and a hollow belly. If you want to change this image and destiny, you can only remember that "haste makes waste." Regrettably, countless talented people throughout the ages have failed to recover in front of their inner demons. Because of his impetuousness, Guan Yunchang became arrogant just because of a few compliments from others, and his rash Northern Expedition left good opportunities for the Soochow people, and eventually trapped Maicheng to death; because of his impetuousness, the tragedy of the "Great Leap Forward" was staged in China in the 1960s; Because of their impetuousness, there is an evil trend of utilitarianism and commercial hype permeating the ranks of China's new writers, which has added too much decadence to the already declining Chinese literature. All of the above are due to the control of impetuosity, which blinds the eyes and distorts the mind. Everything deviates from its proper track, and even falls towards the bottomless abyss. On the other hand, Confucius who made three provinces in one day, Wang Xizhi who was in the black pond, and Emperor Taizong of Tang Dynasty who was open-minded and accepting of advice, they overcame their impetuousness and concealed their impetuous spirit, so success seemed so simple. Don't be impatient. Nian may seem to spend more time than impetuous people, but if Nian does the opposite, the price paid will be unimaginable pain. The so-called "sharpening the sword will not waste the woodcutter" and the so-called "it is better to retreat and build a net when facing the abyss to envy the fish" are clear explanations of this truth. To overcome the impetuous mind, four magic weapons are needed, namely, a firm and clear goal, a transcendent broad-mindedness, the courage to stick to loneliness and the perseverance to forge ahead. A firm and clear goal is a beacon against impetuosity. Looking at this lighthouse, you will not be swayed by the impetuousness of those around you. For example, Tao Yuanming, who sticks to his life ambitions, will not be contaminated by the vulgar pursuit of fame. A transcendent broad-mindedness is the cornerstone of freedom from impetuosity. With this foundation, Zhuangzi would not sink into the swamp of the materialistic era, and could enjoy his own elegance with a calm wisdom. The courage to stick to loneliness is the wall that protects you from impetuousness. Under the protection of this city wall, no matter how the impetuous spirit attacks Nian's mind, Nian can walk along his own path at a suitable pace. Like Ruan Ji, he clings to an unparalleled loneliness. Surrounded by this loneliness, he is completely different from the impetuous and noisy secular people. The perseverance to forge ahead is the wing that keeps you from impetuousness. Only by enriching one's never-satisfied soul with one site after another can one shut out the impetuous wind; and only by continuously forging ahead can one be content with the pace of progress that seems slow but is actually just right. Friends who are still running impetuously on the road of life, give up your impatience, calm down, unload the burden on your soul, and give it a try to welcome the joy that belongs to you. ?
2. Refuse to be impetuous
I yearn for Thoreau’s Walden Pond, which is a kind of tranquility and nature that is far away from the hustle and bustle of the world. As a result, Walden Pond gradually evolved into a state of mind that is not tempted by fame and fortune, a kind of green that always makes the trees in the garden of one's soul lush, and always warns oneself to refuse impetuousness.
A "Titanic" made the original Cameron. When overwhelming honors and huge fame fell on this young director, he suddenly went dormant and continued to work hard for decades. Planned and launched the global sensation "Avatar".
In today's impetuous society, Cameron's wisdom is an inspiration. Those young female writers, when they see a beggar talking about Zen on the way home from get off work, they quickly go home and write prose. I submitted the manuscript in a hurry. Professors in those universities are busy declaring projects and putting the final touches on the final reports. There are art school graduates in galleries who can finish a painting in a day but not sell it for a year. At this time, please think about Cameron's wisdom.
Most of the works that emerge from a sudden burst of inspiration will only be like tiny ephemera, a flash in the pan. Only by placing your mind in a quiet lake, shutting out impetuousness, and keeping your mind clear of distracting thoughts can your dreams become increasingly fuller and eventually bloom into brilliant flowers.
Rejecting impetuosity is not only a personal development concept, but also a social development concept. From the "famous" blood cancer village to the barren mountains barren of grass, too many bloody realities are before our eyes, urging people to reject impetuosity, reject quick success, and build a beautiful society with a pure heart.
Rejecting impetuosity does not mean depriving people of their dreams, but rather facing dreams with a down-to-earth attitude and a calm and calm heart. Rejecting impetuousness is a self-sustaining attitude towards life and a soul that pursues tranquility like Walden Pond.
Rejecting impetuousness, the modern writer Lu Yao locked himself in a coal cave for several years, cultivating his spiritual home in loneliness, and created "The Ordinary World"; refusing to be impetuous, the Dutch painter Van Gogh devoted his life to Living in solitude, he devotes himself to passionate artistic creation, and eventually becomes a great artist that is admirable.
“The small hermitage is hidden in the mountains, and the great hermitage is hidden in the city.” If we can reject impetuousness and yearn for green in the mundane world, our mood will become more ethereal and our spirit will become more detached.
"I just realized that listening to the golden cage is not as good as the free cry in the forest." Facing the noisy world, the reserved person always maintains a noble alienation, that tranquility and pleasantness, and always refuses to be impetuous. , Qingming is in the heart, becoming a green landscape.
3. Refuse to be impetuous
Impetence is an epidemic among modern people. It is because people feel that life is short and the world is complicated. As a passer-by, they must live a tense and tense life. It makes sense to understand. However, this kind of understanding can only be thought of as understanding, but in fact it is outright confusion. Those who are buoyant mean that the foundation is not strong; those who are impetuous mean that they have insufficient patience. Impetuous people have unclear beliefs about life and do not understand the true meaning of life. Even though they are busy all day long, they are still incomprehensible. In essence, impetuosity is a state of life that is at a loss as to what to do. ?
Some people use the word "impetuous" to summarize today's mentality and world situation. If you think about it carefully, it is really hit the nail on the head. Don’t you see how many truths, goodness and beauties in the world are despised by impetuous people, how many values ????are misplaced by impetuous people, and how many clear and pure springs of heart are indifferent to impetuous people. Impetuousness, this abominable thing, makes many people unable to restrain their vanity and interests, causing their lives to lose the foundation, degenerating their passion, losing their emotional state, and losing their pursuit of beauty. We cannot bid farewell to material poverty and move towards spiritual poverty at the same time. Therefore, while we are building a material home, we must also focus on building a spiritual home to achieve a balance and harmony between material and spiritual things. In the reality of busy world and rampant materialism, people must reject impetuousness, examine their true heart, keep their spirit, advocate civilization, and give their souls a harmonious and nourishing green space. To reject impetuousness, we must do three things: First, rely on righteousness and concentration. Righteousness comes from a righteous mind, and a righteous mind has concentration. With this kind of determination, in the face of economic transition, social transformation, fierce competition, information explosion, and a diverse world with many temptations, we will not get angry, distracted, or even exhausted. No matter how the wind and waves rise, no matter how many temptations there are, just don’t lose your mind and always aim high, be indifferent to fame and fortune, remain calm about favors and disgrace, and stay away from impetuousness. The second is to cultivate calmness. This is a kind of temperament, a kind of cultivation, a kind of realm, and it is also one of the Eastern wisdoms. Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments" says: "A gentleman's journey is to meditate and cultivate himself, and to be frugal to support his husband. Without indifference, there will be no clear ambition, and without tranquility, there will be no far-reaching goals." This is Zhuge Liang's famous saying that inspires future generations. Every time I read it, Always thought provoking. In a tense time and space, facing tangible and intangible pressure, calming down can help you clear your mind, think deeply, appreciate the subtleties of the world, observe the laws of all things, grasp the general trend, and "strategize within the strategy to win the battle thousands of miles away." The third is supported by knowledge. Knowledge is the most powerful weapon to defeat ignorance, and it is also the cradle of calmness. No matter how busy you are, you must "recharge" in time, take a break from your busy schedule, squeeze out time, and read more books. The more knowledgeable a person is, the broader his vision is, the more confident he is in doing things, and his backbone remains unchanged. The more people read and have broad knowledge, the more elegant their temperament is. Those who are "poetry-minded" despise vulgarity and resist temptation. "Reading to become a Buddha" is the key to rejecting impetuousness and leading a pure and quiet life.
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