(Appreciate a small advantage)
A poor young man wandered to Paris, hoping that his father's friends could help him find a job to make a living. "Are you proficient in mathematics?" Father's friend asked him. The young man shook his head shyly. "What about history and geography?" The young man still shook his head shyly. "What about the law?" The young man bowed his head in embarrassment. "How about accounting?" Father's friends asked questions one after another, and the young man could only shake his head and tell each other that he seemed to have nothing or even the slightest advantage. "Then write down your address first. I have to help you find a job. " The young man wrote down his address in shame and hurriedly turned to leave, but his father's friend stopped him: "Young man, your name is beautifully written. This is your advantage. You shouldn't just be satisfied with finding a job to make a living. " Is a good name an advantage? Young people see affirmative answers in each other's eyes. A few years later, young people really wrote world-famous classics. He is/kloc-Dumas, a famous French writer in the 0/8th century.
Turgenev and Tolstoy
(Appreciating the Master of Achievement)
/kloc-in the autumn of 0/852, Turgenev came across a crumpled Modern Man magazine in the pine forest while hunting in Spaskoye. He turned a few pages and was attracted by a novel called Childhood. The author is a fledgling nobody, but Turgenev appreciates it very much and likes it. He inquired about the author's residence everywhere and finally learned that the author lost his mother at the age of two and his father at the age of seven. He was raised and cared for by his aunt. In order to get out of the mire on the way, the author just stepped out of school and went to serve in the Caucasus army. Turgenev devoted great sympathy and attention, and went through many twists and turns to find menstruation to express his appreciation and affirmation of the author. My aunt soon wrote to tell her nephew, "Your first novel caused a great sensation in Valeryan, and even Turgenev, a famous writer who wrote The Hunter's Notes, praised you. He said: "If this young man can continue to write, his future will be infinite!" " "After receiving the letter from menstruation, the author was ecstatic. He wrote graffiti because of the depression of life, and he didn't dream of becoming a writer. Thanks to the appreciation of the famous Turgenev, he suddenly lit a fire in his heart, found his self-confidence and the value of life, so he wrote it down and eventually became a world-renowned artist and thinker. He is war and peace, Anna? 6? Lev tolstoy, author of 1 Karenina and Resurrection.
A word affects a thief.
Appreciation can make people turn over a new leaf.
When Lin Qingxuan, a writer in Taiwan Province Province, China, was a journalist when he was young, he reported that a thief had a very subtle modus operandi and committed thousands of crimes. At the end of the article, he couldn't help but sigh: "A thief with such thoughtful, ingenious and unique style will make achievements in any line!" It never occurred to Lin Qingxuan that these words inadvertently written 20 years ago actually affected a young man's life. Now, the thief of that year is already the big boss of several mutton stoves in Taiwan Province Province! In a chance encounter, the boss sincerely said to Lin Qingxuan, "The feature written by Teacher Lin broke the blind spot in my life and made me think why I don't want to do anything just except be a thief?" Since then, he has been thoroughly remoulded and reformed.
A life-changing sentence
A compliment can change a life.
Carnegie was recognized as a very naughty bad boy when he was a child. When he was 9 years old, his father married his stepmother to his family. At that time, they lived in a poor family in Virginia, and their stepmother came from a better family. When introducing Carnegie to her, her father said, "honey, I hope you can pay attention to the worst boy in the county." He gives me a headache. Maybe he will throw a stone at you or do something else before tomorrow morning, so that you can't guard against it. " To Carnegie's surprise, his stepmother came up to him with a smile, looked up at him and said, "You are wrong. He is not the worst child in the county, but the smartest child, but he has not found a place to vent his enthusiasm. " The stepmother warmed Carnegie's heart and tears almost rolled down. It was with her words that he and his stepmother began to establish friendship; In other words, this sentence became his motivation, which enabled him to create 28 golden rules for future success and helped millions of ordinary people in Qian Qian embark on the bright road of success and wealth. Because no one praised him for his cleverness in front of his stepmother, his father and neighbors thought he was a bad boy, but his stepmother only said one word and changed his life. When Carnegie 14 years old, his stepmother bought him a second-hand typewriter and told him that she believed he would become a writer. He accepted her idea and began to contribute to a local newspaper. He knows how his stepmother's enthusiasm can improve their family. This power from his stepmother inspired his imagination, inspired his creativity, and helped him get in touch with infinite wisdom, making him one of the most influential figures in the 20th century.
Mother's kiss made me a painter.
(Appreciate children's behavior)
One day, a little boy took care of his sister Sally at home. He came across several bottles of colored ink. His mother is not at home. Those bottles are a great temptation to him. The little boy couldn't help opening the bottle and began to draw a portrait of his sister on the floor. Inevitably, he spilled ink stains all over the room, making it a mess. When his mother came back, she was shocked by what she saw, but she also saw the portrait on the floor-to be exact, it was a messy ink. She turned a blind eye to the messy ink, but said in surprise, "Oh, that's Sally!" " "Then she bent down and kissed her son. This boy is Benjamin West, who later became a famous painter. He often proudly says to people, "It was my mother's kiss that made me a painter. "