The beauty of life lies in constant encounters.

No matter who the person you meet during the encounter is, he must be the right person;

No matter what happens, it will definitely happen.

We don’t need to reject or complain, we should treat people we meet by chance;

We should try our best to experience things.

Not for anything else, just because "everything is the best arrangement", just like the meaning of the Buddhist mantra "Om Mani Padme Hum" - like a lotus that emerges from the mud but is not stained. Same, extremely holy.

Recently, an American professor gave a public speech at Harvard. This speech was said to be "only forty minutes in content, but worth a lifetime of thinking and understanding."

The professor said: "In life, there are people who have graduated from school in their twenties, but found a satisfactory and decent job after several years of silence;

Some people have just graduated. He became a boss and CEO when he entered the society, but began to face the crisis of bankruptcy at the age of thirty;

Some people spend their entire lives unable to find the one who can resonate with their souls. Some people just turn a corner and look back and see the lover who needs to wait for their whole life.

Everyone in the world has their own 'destiny development time zone', and some people have their own 'destiny development time zone'. There are people walking in front of you, and there are people walking behind you, but no matter whether others are walking fast or slow, you don’t need to be jealous or laugh at them. They are all in their own time zone, and you are also in your own time zone.

So the meaning of living is to wait for the right time. No matter the process makes you sad or happy, you are not behind or ahead as long as you are still in your own time zone and taking steady steps. Then everything will naturally go as planned."

It is undeniable that everyone is tired of the unknown, hates all "unstable factors", and hopes that they can have a brilliant life, no matter how hard it is, , life like a "textbook" is not unacceptable.

Adult at the age of eighteen, graduate from college at the age of twenty-four;

Have a stable career at the age of twenty-eight, marry and have children around the age of thirty;

Thirty After the age of 10, life is shaped, focusing on security and stability...

Although such a life may not be very successful, it can at least develop according to the planned script, which is an ideal ending. But life is very long, can life really be as you imagined, with choices for you and as picky as you want? No.

The ideal is full and the reality is skinny. Life is so "mean", the more you ask for something, the less it will come. You want to be poor and happy, but you always have to worry about your livelihood; you want to "hold your hand and grow old together" with your lover, but you can't escape the devil of "not being able to love".

When everything develops in the opposite direction, people will inevitably feel pain, anxiety, and confusion. As a result, I fell into the whirlpool of life, became increasingly unable to escape, and could no longer live with vigor and vitality.

So what is the best and most ultimate way to live life? That is - "take things as they come and accept them calmly".

Whether in the past or now, I have always admired Yang Liping's way of living: "When I come to this world, I see how trees grow, how water flows, how clouds float, and how nectar condenses. I know that in this life What is my mission? I only live for who I am in my heart."

It is with this indifferent belief that for myself.

It is not impossible to get a diploma at the age of twenty-five;

It is also a late success to have just started your career at the age of thirty;

You can live a happy life if you start a family after the age of thirty-five;

It is not a shame to have your own garage at the age of forty.

Because I don’t follow deliberately, I can always maintain the rhythm and move forward even if I falter; because I know how to take things as they come, I can also relax my body and mind when encountering setbacks and adversities, and follow the arrangements of fate. Continuously develop, and when you are perfect enough, time will give you what you want.

Just like the wise saying in the movie "Forrest Gump": "Life is like a piece of chocolate, you never know what the next piece will taste like?"

We don’t know whether everyone has a destined destiny or whether there is only chance in life. Maybe there is both, maybe both are happening at the same time. I don’t know what roads I will take, who I will meet, what scenery I will see, and what stories will happen.

But I hope that we can stay true to our hearts, protect purity, remain kind, be indifferent to fame and fortune, and live for love.

We work hard for what we want in our hearts, even if the outcome is not satisfactory in the end, at least we have worked hard for it.

Make sure you have no regrets and live up to Tathagata and your Majesty. Then even if things go against expectations in the end, there must be other plans somewhere; everything lost will come back in another way.

Because life is a return, not an ignorance and chasing forward; and the criterion of happiness often lies in listening to one's inner voice and returning to one's inner pastoral. Therefore, when dealing with life, please think what you want, love what you love, and do what you want.

Just like what Lu Yong sings in his lyrics:

“Unrequited wishes

Lingering worries

Gathering and dispersing by chance People

This is a perfect world

Just ask about the original intention, not about the east or west.

But do good deeds and don’t ask about the future.

Om mani padme hum

Everything is the best arrangement. ”

Author: Mr. Qianmianluoyue

Family affairs, state affairs, and world affairs. , know a little or two; worry about the glass heart, understand three or four.

People have thousands of faces, and things have everything. The world under the tip of the iceberg is the real world with undercurrents. Life requires a discerning eye to see through illusions.

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