2. All events in China from ancient times to the present require three conditions: "potential" refers to the opposition of the people; "Bureau" is about strength comparison; "Change" is about timing.
3. The secret of success is enthusiasm and persistence.
4. Many times, success is not a question of resources, but a question of confidence. People with resources still fail if they have no confidence.
5. Once people have bad emotions, the quality of decision-making and action will obviously decline. The three most common situations: sadness, excitement and fatigue.
6. There are many things that I wanted to do for the first time but didn't do, and I won't have a chance to do it again; A lot of words, I wanted to say it for the first time, but I didn't say it, so I won't have a chance again.
7. Any discipline is profoundly one-sided.
8. When the opportunity comes, it is like a flash in the pan. Although it is beautiful, it is fleeting.
9. Truth is simple, sincerity is simple, and true beauty has simple forms. The more the truth is, the simpler it is. A person with high skills can tell the truth in simple language, which is called true wisdom.
1. I eat more salt than you eat rice, I cross more bridges than you walk, and I see more ghosts than you do.
11. If you solve it by force for a while, you will always solve it by culture. The genius of management is not to make people turn around, but to make people nod. Better cure one suit than die.
12. Childhood is the father of life and environment is the mother of life.
13. Regret is the shadow of choice, and regret is the companion of life.
14. If you are unhappy, pretend to be happy; if you are not smart, pretend to be smart; if you are not smart, pretend to be smart; of course, if you are stupid, it will be stupid.
15. There are three taboos in working with leaders: avoid leakage; Avoid being frivolous; Avoid cheating.
16. People don't lack the strength to fight tigers, but the courage to fight tigers. When the tiger is in front of you, you are not afraid of it. You can beat it away. When the tiger is in the horizon, you are afraid of it. It can scare you.
17. Well-trained people plan their future with heart when they encounter regrets; Untrained people, when they encounter regrets, bitterly regret the past.
18. There are two things that are hard to do when giving advice to leaders: the first is to expose the shortcomings of leaders severely, and the second is to find out the leaders' minds accurately.
19. If you want to live a good life, you must deal with the relationship with the "four seniors". Which "four seniors"? It is dad, teacher, boss and wife. When I was young, I handled my relationship with my father. When I went to school, I handled my relationship with my teacher. When I worked, I handled my relationship with my boss. When I got married, I handled my relationship with my wife. If the relationship between the "four seniors" is handled well, then this day will be happy.
2. In this life, people can triumph when the wind is smooth, which is not a skill. When they go against the wind and go against the water, they can have a normal mentality, find a way out, and stay calm in times of crisis. This is a skill.
21. When dealing with complex contradictions and fierce conflicts, we should learn and understand how to behave and speak in block letters, not in cursive script.
22. Failure is the nourishment of life, and frustration is the cornerstone of progress. Successful people will transform, turning setbacks and failures into motivation for progress, and nutrition for life.
23. If someone plays a joke on you on a formal occasion or greets you in a very casual manner, it can only show that this person wants to show in public that his relationship with you is unusual and different from ordinary people.
24. Raising seedlings in the greenhouse is a delicate grass, and raising seedlings in the wind and rain in the wild is a towering tree.
25. Four attentive coping methods to deal with failures and setbacks: improvement; Substitution; Rationalization; Sublimation.
26, a person, when doing what he is best at, is also the easiest to be caught by others.
27. Regret is the shadow of choice, and regret is the companion of life.
28. Forgive others' unforgivability, understand others' incomprehension, and understand others' incomprehension. Only in this way can we be leaders.
29. If you want to live a good life, you must deal with the relationship with the "four seniors". Which "four seniors"? It's dad, teacher, boss and wife. When I was young, I handled the relationship with my father, when I went to school, I handled the relationship with my teacher, when I worked, I handled the relationship with my boss, and when I got married, I handled the relationship with my wife. If all the connections between the "four seniors" are handled well, then this day will be pleasant.
3. The risk is greatest when you are closest to success, and you are most likely to make mistakes when the situation is good.
31. Only by showing the scarcest can we get the greatest recognition.
32. Authority means freedom. The degree of freedom is as wide as the authority. A person who has the ability to lose his temper is called personality. If you dare to lose your temper without the ability, it is called seeking death.
33. If a person does something, if everyone thinks you are great, it means that you are working hard; If you feel great about yourself, you have a fever. Heroes and the strong are not defeated by the enemy, but by themselves.
34. There are two special things not to do when giving advice to leaders: the first is to expose the shortcomings of leaders severely, and the second is to probe the leaders' minds accurately.
35. When you cater to others and take care of their feelings, you can't lose the basic principles of being a man and doing things. We can't cater to others without principle.
36. Wear tight hoops for talented people, draw cakes for mediocre people, strengthen the restraint for those who are capable, and seriously guide those who are not.
37. Psychological suggestion in daily work must have three specific characteristics and skills: short and powerful, not too long; Positive intention; Strongly affirmed.
38. People who can use resources and strength to do things are only at the middle level, and those who can use strategy and people's hearts are at the advanced level.
39. Strategies to change adversity: seize opportunities and leave no room; Tight inside and loose outside, leaving room; Create a situation and gain recognition.
4. The six-character motto of dealing with the relationship with leaders: to deal with suspicious leaders, we must: be diligent and patient; To deal with hate-bearing leaders, we should be modest and gentle.
41. Use values to manage high people, use systems to manage ordinary people, and use people to stare at small people.
42. A person's inner world is like a spring. The harder you press it, the more it bounces back.
43. There must be an unexpected secret behind the abnormal behavior.
44. When you cater to others and take care of others' feelings, you can't lose the basic principles of being a man and doing things. We can't pander to others without principle.
45. It's really good to have skills, but it's not good to show off skills. Showing off one's skills is frivolous when it's small, and sinister when it's big.
46. When deciding this person, we can see his consistency. He always advocates consistent behavior and consistent thinking mode. Through consistent behavior, we can know what this person is like.
47. The point of interest determines the point of view. It is a basic law that a person naturally has what kind of ideas he has in his mind.
48. A leader who exposes himself moderately and reveals his true feelings can increase his attraction and support rate.
49. The three most important communication points before major authorization: draw circles, cakes and crosses.
5, praise the opponent's three benefits: show your mind; Leave room; Invisible boasting.
51. It is a shame to win power, and a curse to win virtue.
52, the three principles of jealousy: jealousy is similar, not jealousy is different; Envy the strong, not the weak; Envy is easy to get, but not jealousy is rare.
53. There are three strategies to stabilize the morale and mood of the troops: consistency, introducing authority; With the help of hints, export confidence; Adjust your mood and understand.
54. People's prejudices all come from areas where they are good at themselves.
55. If you are a man, you can succeed with generosity!
56. Ways to deal with emergencies: make decisions in advance and make contradictions public; Confirm authority and act reasonably; Take advantage of others and make a quick decision.
57. In order to get opportunities, make preparations in advance: build alliances and get support; Style matching, protagonist complementary; Type matching, manufacturing identification.
58. In life, the first time or the first time is always unforgettable and always better than the present, not because the first one is really good, but because it is the first one.
59. Truth is truth before reasoning. Seeing the true self is the beginning of a person's progress and also the beginning of a nation's progress.
6. (Zhuge Liang) shows great ambition but fails to see the opportunity. He seeks more but makes less decisions. He is a good soldier but has no right. Although he has lost 1, soldiers, he has fallen into my painting and will be broken.
61. A circle cannot have two centers, a peach cannot have two peach stones, and a team cannot have two leaders.
62. It is impossible for a successful person to ride alone. You need someone to support you.
63. Authority is inversely proportional to the sensitivity of interpersonal relationships. The more authoritative you are, the less you need to pay attention to interpersonal relationships. The less authoritative you are, the more you should care about interpersonal relationships.
64, a person's career success, calm psychological quality is very critical. In our traditional culture, this is called "let the wind and waves rise, sit firmly on the fishing boat" and "there is calmness in every major event".
65. Without interests, it is impossible. Only interests are not enough. In addition to interests, people want ideals, benefits and recognition.
66. Know yourself, which is called understanding; Understand yourself, this is called waking up; Admitting yourself is called courage. Only when a person has these three rules can he be in an invincible position.
67. It's necessary to keep secrets when betraying a traitor, and to show good deeds.
68. The greatest success in life is the success of children's education, and the greatest failure in life is the failure of children's education.
69. The six-character motto of handling the relationship with leaders: To deal with suspicious leaders, we should be diligent, conscientious and patient; To deal with leaders who hold grudges, we should be modest, warm and secret.
7. When a person is doing what he is best at, he is also the easiest to be caught by others.
71. Education is guidance, not accusation, and education is demonstration, not oral communication.
72. People's prejudices all come from the fields they are good at.
73. Encourage B-level people to do A-level things, and build a platform for students to make mistakes.
74. The blade of a knife is the easiest to break, the tip of a gun is the easiest to wear, and the backbone of a team is the most vulnerable. Therefore, as a team leader, we must learn to protect the blade, the gun tip and the outstanding people.
75. You are not afraid of opponents like gods, but you are afraid of teammates like pigs.
76, for the generals, when thinking of the country!
77. When judging this person, we can see his consistency, his consistent opinions, consistent behaviors and consistent thinking patterns. Through consistent behaviors, we can know what this person is like.
78, I often think about it all the time, and my immediate pleasure does not depreciate; If life is just like the first time, all the happiness and happiness will appear.
79. Better be a good enemy. Doing things is not 1% perfect, only 1% wrong.
8, know yourself, this is called understanding; Accept yourself, this is called waking up; Admit yourself, this is called courage. Only when a person has these three rules can he be in an invincible position.
81. Get the support of ordinary people with benefits, and get the support of experts with benefits.
82. If a husband leads an army, he will defend it without fighting, walk without following the rules, flee if he doesn't walk, or die if he doesn't flee.
83. Being able to fight is courage, and being able to retreat is wisdom. Life is like running high-speed, drivers should remember that knowing how to step on the accelerator is called strength, and knowing how to step on the brakes is called wisdom.
84. It is very difficult to show the brilliance of talent potential, but it is very easy to show the shortcomings, and everyone can see them without deliberately showing them.
85. It is not easy for a high-ranking person to show his face, but it is easy to show his ass.
86. When the flower is the most red, that is, when it is about to wither, and when the moon is the most round, it means that it will be short at once. Life is also the most prone to problems at its peak.
87. Sima Yi's strategy in the "empty city plan": not seeking the best, but seeking satisfaction; The choice without regrets is a good choice; Never fall into the options prepared by others.
88, the husband's way of life, that is, the skill of coping with emergencies, can you be paranoid? The way to use troops, as well as this, is all about improvisation.
89. Any great success is ultimately the success of employing people. Similarly, any major failure, in the final analysis, is the failure of employing people.
9. Comparing down will make you feel happy, and comparing around will make you enterprising. If you always look up and compare up, you will lose more and more, and if you compare, you will suffer internal injuries. Therefore, you must be good at adjusting your mentality to live comfortably.