First, to forgive others' mistakes is to improve your soul.
Xunzi has a famous saying: a gentleman is virtuous and tolerant, knowing and tolerant, knowing and tolerant, and being precise and tolerant. Tolerance is a broad mind and a noble traditional virtue. South African President nelson mandela was arrested and imprisoned in order to fight for the equal rights of citizens in his country as whites.
As an elderly man, he didn't escape the cruel abuse of white people. Because he is a wanted man, three prison guards guard him. Those people have been trying their best to abuse him. 1992 after he was released from prison, he was elected president. At the inauguration ceremony, one of his actions surprised everyone present.
At the beginning of the celebration, Mandela gave a welcome speech to all the guests and introduced them in detail. Then he told everyone present that he felt very honored that so many people attended his inauguration ceremony.
But he was very happy that the three prison policemen who guarded him on the Atlantic Island could also attend his inaugural speech, and he also introduced the three prison policemen to the guests present in detail. Such a small gesture made these white prison guards who had abused him feel extremely guilty and surprised anyone present. His broad-minded and tolerant spirit touched anyone. When he stood up slowly and stared at the three saluting guards, the whole time seemed to stop.
As the saying goes, the ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. In fact, Mandela's tiny behavior is full of affection and infinite tolerance. Tolerance is a character that every successful person must forge.
Second, when you encounter difficulties, you can stick to it and you will become a lot of talents.
I have seen such a saying that life is a process of ups and downs.
From morning till night, everyone has ideas that can't stand for various reasons. When I was a student, I didn't win the first place. After graduation, I wandered in a strange city and finally failed to get together with my relatives. Mom and dad are sick and have no money to treat diseases. I feel that there is no way to go ahead.
The road of life is really bumpy. Bite your teeth and think about it later. In fact, that's it. I'll just bite the bullet and come over. There is nothing I can't overcome. I wanted to chat in the group yesterday. I think I will discuss some ideals in life. Unexpectedly, before a few words, it became a tucao meeting. Everyone will feel unhappy and anxious, but when you think about it, most people's painful experiences are because they are not hard on themselves. Many times, whether a person can achieve great things depends on his mentality in the face of failure.
In the same thing, some people only see the unreasonable and unfair side, while others see the future and hope. Ma Yun once made a speech, in which he talked about himself and said that he was rejected in front of more than 30 enterprises. He said that I am used to being rejected, and others have no responsibility to help you, and there is no obligation to help you at all.
Many people are vying to spit out Ma Yun's inner strength. No wonder it can make the career smooth, and it is not enough to be rejected if you are unsuccessful. That's right. When a person faces setbacks, it is not a time to hurt spring and autumn. He must bite his teeth and stick to it. He must bear the torment of fate. The road of life is actually a depression, and then a depression, and if you live, you can fly high and get another piece of dry Kun.
Third, if you can't be the master of mentality, you must be the slave of mentality.
I have seen such a sentence on the internet before. A person who enjoys success is not afraid of being troubled by depression. People will encounter depression several times in their life. Will they make it this time? It depends on your psychological state of coping with difficulties. A good attitude makes you have enough courage and confidence to overcome most difficulties in life, learn to control your mental state, be his master diligently, and learn to be a warrior rather than a weak one in the face of difficulties.
If you can't conquer your thoughts, you will eventually become a slave to them. Let you encounter the depression of life, don't think about it, build a solid psychological defense line in your heart, and always keep a strong heart.