A calm and indifferent attitude towards life can help us cultivate our self-cultivation. And frugal love can cultivate our own good character.
2, don't covet unexpected wealth, don't drink too much wine. -Zhu Bailu's Zhu Jiaxun
Please don't covet unexpected wealth. Enough is enough when drinking, not too much.
3, a clear conscience, why worry about rats. -Wu's Family Instructions
General idea: live in peace, be open and aboveboard, and have no bad feelings. Why worry about the dirty people around you secretly calculating to do bad things!
4, sit still and think about yourself, gossip is not aimed at people. -Jin Ying's "Motto Lian Bi"
General idea: When a person is alone, he should always reflect on his mistakes. Don't speak ill of others when chatting with them.
5, benevolence and righteousness are in the body, but the color is not cut, and Siming is not specialized. -Confucius's favorite pupil "Confucius's Family Language"
General idea: If a person has a heart of benevolence and righteousness, he won't cry roast meat. When thinking is weak, you can distinguish right from wrong, and you won't be self-righteous when you speak.
6. The father is unkind and the son is unfilial. -Yan Zhitui's Yan Jiaxun
If a father doesn't know how to love his children, then children won't be filial to their parents.
7. The family is thrifty and prosperous, and people are diligent and healthy; Thrift, never be poor. -Zeng Guofan's letter Zeng Guofan
If a family can keep the tradition of thrift, then it will prosper. If a person is diligent, he can keep healthy. If the family can be thrifty, then life will not be cheap.
8. A gentleman is as strong as an ox and does not compete with the ox; Walk like a horse, don't compete with it. -Duke Zhou's Book of Bird Commandments
General idea: Man's strength is inferior to that of cattle, and he can't compete with them. Walking is not as good as a horse, so you can't race with a horse.
9, and filial piety, began in the pro-service, in the service, and finally established. -Sima Tan's Life is Moving
General idea: Filial piety, starting with serving parents and continuing with serving the monarch, is the ultimate destination of filial piety.
10, mind not to offend heaven and earth, words and deeds are innocent sages. -Zhang Qian's Family Instructions
General idea: Intentionally seeking things should not violate the law, and words and deeds should be worthy of the teachings of sages.